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Vivyan, 47

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About Me

Just looking to spend some qualilty time with a decent man. I have been divorced and single (meaning no serious relationships since ***, of course this was totally by choice. I had 2 kids to raise on my on and now that I have that under my belt I figured it might be time for me to live a little.) I must tell you though being on my own for that many years has made me a very independent person and it seems some men are just not use to an independent woman. I like all 70's,80's as well as R&B and all motown. I do consider myself a music lover, you can always tell a music lover because they hear the lyrics and not just the music. I do love animals although at this time I don't have any. I am also a smoker, which I do state on my profile but just in case you missed it. I would prefer to meet someone that is within reasonable driving distance. If I choose to give a relationship a try I would like it to be somewhat convenient with the distance."You can't move forwards by looking backwards...yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why it's called the present.""Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all"~~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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