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Alissa, 48
United States, Montana, Kalispell

Offline, last seen Fri, 26 Sep 2025 14:00:04

About Me

I'm a Sagittarius so I'm very outgoing and love to have fun, but I'm also very driven in my career and am told quite often that I work too much. I started out as a Navy brat (born on Guam) and moved quite a few times growing up. I try to live by the Golden Rule as much as possible and try to maintain an open mind. I have a wonderful career as a .NET programmer and love what I do - in this respect, I feel I have been truly blessed. I have also been singing professionally for about 18 years and am just as passionate about that - although I did originally get my start in the performing arts in community theatre back in the late '80s and would love to do another show at some point. I'm currently in a new band that is just starting up, so you're likely to find me rehearsing, programming, or working out. Exercise and eating right are also important to me, and I try to workout 3 or 4 times a week (usually either P90X, Insanity, or something equally as intense***I'm often told that I look about 10 years younger than I am, so I figure I'm going to do what I can to perpetuate that for as long as possible!I really have had an amazing life so far, but the one thing that's missing is that someone special to share it with. I know there's no "Perfect Man", but ideally it would be someone who could be summed up as knowing who he is and where he's going. He's confident but not****, intelligent, open-minded, and can effectively communicate his feelings. Someone who has a big heart and demonstrates kindness, compassion, and sensitivity. He places a high value on sincerity, integrity and family, and makes an effort to take care of himself and stay in shape. And lastly, I like to think I'm "liberated", but I still very much appreciate chivalry -- opening the door for me or pulling out my chair scores major points in my book!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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