Total users: 60,908,532 Online users: 219,022
Alissa, 48
United States, Montana, Kalispell

Offline, last seen Thu, 15 Jan 2026 14:31:33

About Me

I'm a Sagittarius so I'm very outgoing and love to have fun, but I'm also very driven in my career and am told quite often that I work too much. I started out as a Navy brat (born on Guam) and moved quite a few times growing up. I try to live by the Golden Rule as much as possible and try to maintain an open mind. I have a wonderful career as a .NET programmer and love what I do - in this respect, I feel I have been truly blessed. I have also been singing professionally for about 18 years and am just as passionate about that - although I did originally get my start in the performing arts in community theatre back in the late '80s and would love to do another show at some point. I'm currently in a new band that is just starting up, so you're likely to find me rehearsing, programming, or working out. Exercise and eating right are also important to me, and I try to workout 3 or 4 times a week (usually either P90X, Insanity, or something equally as intense***I'm often told that I look about 10 years younger than I am, so I figure I'm going to do what I can to perpetuate that for as long as possible!I really have had an amazing life so far, but the one thing that's missing is that someone special to share it with. I know there's no "Perfect Man", but ideally it would be someone who could be summed up as knowing who he is and where he's going. He's confident but not****, intelligent, open-minded, and can effectively communicate his feelings. Someone who has a big heart and demonstrates kindness, compassion, and sensitivity. He places a high value on sincerity, integrity and family, and makes an effort to take care of himself and stay in shape. And lastly, I like to think I'm "liberated", but I still very much appreciate chivalry -- opening the door for me or pulling out my chair scores major points in my book!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Funk Video Games To Work Out
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Teresia from Kalispell | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
    Teresia

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I have had a very tenacious pursuer for the last 5 years and finally said yes.. We are going to travel across the country, hang out and enjoy the scenery...Be a real nice down to earth guy with integrity. Be on time. I am really challenged by some men and their lack of manners, culture and respect for women. I have had the opportunity to meet and break up with a few. I never did date a lot~ two long terms, so it's been an epic adventure. I don't intend to waste my time or anyone else's. I want you to be fit, secure and handsome.. I need you to be affectionate and intelligent and engaged in conversations that matter.. It could range from politics, business to intimacy, but if my brain isn't seduced I do lose interest quickly and get frustrated. I am goal oriented and enjoy my free time & the sponetity I have now. I am not looking to get married or have another family arrangement and just realized that recently.. Reciprocal Brokers license and snowbird this winter.. On to the next chapter of this beautiful chaotic thing called life, but my objective now is to enjoy it fully.. I love to have fun and laugh. I am adventurous by nature and fun loving .I have 0 tolerance for head games or shenanigans unless they are fun. If I start over thinking analytically it becomes too challenging for me and I move on.I am very attracted to tall, but not bodybuilder buff, but built strong & athletic, tone.. Not into the metro sexuals, or passive whiney types.. .. Meaning I like aggressive go getter types, outgoing and confident.. Competitive to the degree they do well in life because they do apply themselves and take chances.. Adrenaline junkie here ha.. Yes I do all of those things as often as possible. Negative energy builds up.. I want positive people only.. Open

    Chat
  • Valery from Kalispell | Woman | 48 years old | Cancer
    Valery

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I like to bowl sometimes. I like listening to live music. I love my time on the computer. I am new to the camping idea but, realizing it's a lot of fun. I'm shy in a crowd but, do okay in a one on one situation.I am mostly a country fan but, I enjoy old rock, bluegrass and even Elvis Presley!I honestly prefer a tall man. Meet for drinks.

    Chat
  • Angelita from Kalispell | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
    Angelita

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a confident, independent, intelligent, professional woman. I enjoy the outdoors (beach / cottages in summer), hiking, snow skiing, golf, roller blading, traveling, sailing, reading, concerts, dining and I'm willing to try anything new (ok, just not skidiving or bungee jumping). I enjoy life and love to laugh. I'm looking for an intelligent, attractive male who likes to have fun and has a sense of humour. Honesty and integrity are very important qualities to me. I would enjoy getting to know someone and seeing what develops. I'm not looking for one night stands so if you are, please move on to the next profile.I would love to meet someone who shares some of the same interests and with whom there is a deeper connection. If this interests you, please send a message (with picture included). Thanks for dropping by....:)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: