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Sheilah, 48
United States, Montana, Helena

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About Me

'Be truthful, gentle, and fearless'. GandhiI’m an upbeat, big picture person who focuses on the positive. I rarely sweat the small stuff and prefer to surround myself with happy, self-motivated people who truly enjoy life.Sometimes I feel like a ***pounds of contradictions. I love the city, but I also love the mountains. I hate drama, but I don’t run from problems. I don’t like being the center of attention, but I love public speaking. Weird, right? I’m naturally a wall flower, but I’m not shy. I'm fairly serious and intense at work, but laid back and playful at home. I am motivated by money (hence the sales job), but I’m not materialistic. Less is more. Except for travel.....then more is more. I especially love Europe. I get bored easily and thrive on new experiences, so visiting the same place twice is generally not for me.I'm attracted to unique and somewhat quirky men who march to the beat of their own drum. Integrity, optimism and loyalty are musts. And, if you can make me laugh....that's icing on the cake. Ultimately, I'm looking for a monogamous relationship, a best buddy and 'true love'. My current playlist: Portugal. The Man, Pixies, Frightened Rabbit, Alt-j, Heartless Ba$tards, Tame Impala, Of Monsters & Men, Horsefeathers, The National, The Blueflowers and Elbow. Something laid back and easy.....no pressure. For me, it's not about the place, it's about the connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Japanese Music Romance Western Dirt Bike Racing Drag Racing
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