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Vicenta, 48

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About Me

;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keighley

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    First of all I am NOT A BIKER OR LIVE THE BIKER LIFE STYLE... What I am looking for is a relationship with my best friend my lover and my companion,,,, I have never been a cheater I am not a bitter lady I have a heart of Gold and have a lot to offer the right man I am a Christian woman who loves the Lord with all of my heart I want to find a mate who also loves the Lord and understands without him we are nothing... I do not want to exchange naked pictures or talk dirty or meet up for sex .. I have done the picture thing on here only to feel disgusted with myself and ashamed ....Sometimes we have to learn the hard way Trust me I have learned...Don't get me wrong I am not a ice queen at all i love to be held and loved as much as the next person but I am not will to compromise my self ever again. I am worthy of being loved and as long as i do not lean to my flesh I believe God will honor me when I honor him... Ok with all of this said ...here come the fun stuff...lol A little of what i am looking for and would love to find... i am a very down to earth woman love Animals , babys and old people.. I still have alot of life left in me and would love to find that One special Man God has for me in my life,, I love familey and friends BBQ's Rhodeo's and fun family type of fun looking for the same,,Going out on the town and dancing or something once in a while would be fun.. I am not a drinker or looking foor a drinker.. I want to find a man who we can go work in the yard, or build something work on the house and laugh and smile while we do it...cook dinners and snuggke up in frount of a fire place on a cold winter night...Share thoughts share hearts and share life with.. ... I love kids all of um and if you have a hurd of them the more the merrier I am most comfortable in Jeans or overalls during the winter and sun dress's during the summer... I have had all money can buy at times in my life and have to say Moey cant buy happiness or Love I have been more happy making a big ole pot of beans hamhocks and corn bread sharing with loved ones than any fancy resteraunt ,,, God has given me the ability to love completly open and honestly we did not get to be our age with any baggage and I understand this but Please take the time to sort through it and be ready to move forward to a new life a new start clean and clear heart ... My life is like the old Dolly Parton song..(( Bargin Store)) ... lol... A huge thing as well in my life is the Lord I Love him with everything I am .. and have to have the same in a mate.. I am not a person who crams God down peoples faces or preaches to people ,,,I am a love being and I try each and every day to live pleasing to God.... I am a nut I love to laugh , play and joke after all if we cant laugh at our self's we shouldn't laugh at others..... I love to work and not scared of getting dirty ...i am excited about this new venture in life and it has some land so I can finally have a few horse's and goats...lol... If you are for real and would like to get to know each other better please feel free to contact me... God Bless you on your search...xoxo drink a diet coke ...who really know depends on the one ya meet.. Please NO Gamers liers or smooth talking Jerks who look straight in your eyes and lie ! Hearts are real and hearts get hurt!... I do not expect a man to pay my way I am very comfortable going dutch... As we all want someone to love and best friends with it takes time... with this said God Bless all of you on your new life and the ultimate goal of love...xoxo

  • Bronte

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi, I am a 48 yr old lady with 2 sons. One is 15 and the other is 26. I had my first grandbaby in March of ***!!! I lost my husband in ***to cancer and I am looking to start enjoying my life again. I am very old fashioned and like to be treated like a lady. I believe Chivalry is alive and well. I like my door opened for me and I like to be treated like a lady. I drink socially and don't mind if you drink, but I am not looking for someone with a drinking problem or someone who drinks all day, everyday. My 15 yr old lives with me and we are a package deal. You will be a role model for him and that is very important to me. I am also a Christian and God is an important part of my life. I would like someone that is also into his faith.Going to church with me would get you extra points!!! LOL I like to cook and enjoy taking care of the people in my life that are important to me. I am a hopeless romantic and the little things make all the difference. I like to make people smile and and I am looking for the same!! Life is too short not to make the most of each and every day! I want to laugh again and have fun again!! I am looking to date and have fun but nothing really serious right now. Maybe that would come in time with the right person! I am very honest and not into playing games. I am not looking for a one night stand, so if that is what you are looking for, I am not the one!!! I am really tired of dating guys that think sleeping together on the first date is normal. It would be nice to find someone that likes spending time with me and wants to get to know me BEFORE that is an option. I have very high moral standards and will be true to them. I am hoping there is a guy out there that can appreciate a woman that does not sleep with every guy she meets!!! EVERY GREAT RELATIONSIP BEGINS WITH A STRONG FRIENDSHIP!!!!! If you think you can make me smile again, send me a message. Remember, romance is the bait you need to use to catch me!! LOL Hope you have a great and Blessed Day!!! I hope to hear from you soon!!!!! We could meet somewhere for coffee or a drink so we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Adele

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    About myself not much to tell,I take care of myself, and my youngest child,I love to go fishing,boats,camping bowling where they serve mixed drinks,movies go carts water slides, I like to do lots of things,. Out for dinner Meet at same place,Or meet at movies .

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