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Jamie, 48
United States, Idaho, Salmon

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Ok, I haven't updated this in a while, I think its time.I've tried to keep this pretty vague and not put too much of my personal life out there, but what the hell, I am who I am and don't see me changing anytime soon. lol I can guarantee that who you meet on the first date will be the same girl you know a yr later. I dont have a fake bone in my body. You will either like me for who i am or you'll move on soon enough anyway. Why pretend to be something im not. :-)Lets see, where to begin? Well, i was married 21 yrs. We grew appart, my life was about our family and his was about succeeding. Neither wong - just different. We ended on pretty good terms and he has since remarried. No drama there. I tend to avoid drama if at alll possible. Most things in life just arent worth arguing about. Compromise is a good thing!I live a pretty simple life. I walk the parks, watch sunsets at the beach, go camping on the weekends. I like going to movies, restaurants, fairs, and even the occassional flea market..... i guess you can say family is pretty important. lol We go for coffee, play cards/games etc . They're all a little crazy (in a good way) and the kind of family you can really count on for anything - at a moments notice. No matter what.I'm not the judgemental or critical type. I'm not impressed by material things.either - I'm more interested in a mans character. How he sees the world around him and how he treats the people in it. Everything in life can be possitive or negative, its all in the way you look at it. I find that possitive is less stressful and less depressing.One more thing, I am christian. I go to church at least once a month. I am so not a good example, but I try. I'm not a holy roller or a so called jesus freak, but my foundation is strong and I know what I believe and why I believe it. Yes, I occassionally have a few drinks but dont get to the point that i have to be carried home. I do occassionally go to a casino and play slots for entertainment, I dont get carried away with that either. I also dont see me saving myself for another marriage either. I am not perfect and don't claim to be, I don't judge others or push my beliefs on anyone. I will however be happy to share them if asked. Christians arent meant to be boring unhappy people. We are meant to be happy, and to learn and grow from all that life has to offer.I guess for now I'm looking for someone to hang out with n see what happens. I'd like to enjoy what's left of this crazy summer now that it's finally here. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship, but if things are good - who knows. * NOTE - relationships require love, honesty and mutual respect. The rest is will take care of itself. It really shouldn't be that hard. Something stress free and causal. Restaurant for coffee, or a drink n appetizer maybe. Just a place to break the ice to start.FYI - North and close to the lake

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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