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Vannessa, 49

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Interested in ages * **** I love to just BE. It's not the easiest to let go of what happened yesterday and not to be anxious about tomorrow, but I truly believe in this and work constantly at it. It's liberating and frees up the heart and soul..... I enjoy the company of another in doing whatever activities we come up with. I've had a long-term relationship in Fitness and it continues to be important to me, however, obsessed Muscle-Heads need not apply---no longer have time for that. I prefer to wash and detail my own car and fix things around the house myself and not just the girlie things. :-) I'm quite self-sufficient, believe me. However! Is it so wrong to imagine my partner just taking care of me from time to time? Reciprocated, of course, when you're on your "deathbed" from that headcold.... :-) Personally, I continue to grow in many ways....so important! Something to share but not on a public profile … I'm probably too sensitive for my own good, but I’m a passionate person (Scorpio) and am fiercely protective of myself and those who are important to me. Tenacious, Strong-Willed, Compassionate, and as Silly as often as I can get away with.... I LOVE to laugh! I love easy and silly humor...... So! I will preface what you read next by saying that the following represents so much about me and how I feel. However, at the same time, I want to slowly build a friendship and not jump into the serious aspect too soon.I'm somewhat of an introvert, although you might not think so upon us meeting! I don't feel comfortable in large groups any longer....haven't figured out this one yet :-) But I will say, if there were a great club to go to for dancing, I'm there! I do know that I want that one on one best friend-in-a-man thing. Not the clingy thing, but just being content hanging out together and really enjoying it!...the list goes on.. Hiking, some reality shows (yup), and Concerts (from rock to classical), watching pro football games (go Titans!.. no comments, please). Love the Arts and live concerts: Dance, Comedy, Musicals, etc.....Calm communication is key towards a healthy relationship... You can ride emotional rollercoasters on your own; besides, they make me nauseaus. Make of a relationship what you want. Yours is the choice to believe it to be a gift or not. I’m an eternal romantic and appreciate the importance of having true romance in my life. I want to meet someone with great teeth and a warm smile, a truly open heart, honesty and real integrity. Someone not much older than myself; a little younger is fine :-) . I don't see where we can post the age range we look for, so I'll put it here: ***age range. I was open to longer distance, but if we can't see each on a regular basis, due to drive time, how could things go anywhere? Would it set us up for disappointment? These song lyrics come to mind more and more: "I Might Have To Wait, I'll Never Give Up, I Guess It's Half Timing, And The Other Half's Luck / Wherever You Are, Whenever It's Right, You Come Out Of Nowhere And Into My Life............I Just Haven't Met You Yet......." The deeper qualities in a man I hope to meet can’t just be shared in this format. I’m not looking for, nor do I need perfection! Merely perfect for me; perfect for each other. Meet for coffee first?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tawnee

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very easy going person ,always looking out for the next one..i enjoy the beach, bbqs, chillin with friends .I would like to meet a man that isnt into games !!!!!!someone who will be honest,loving ,careing,and will walk next to me and hold hands,and kiss: and not be afraid to treat a woman the way one should be treated. im not into any games ..........If games are what your looking for than get off this site and go to toys R us...... ..I would like to find somone to be my friend first and just let the relationship grow on its own,I have found that most want to move to fast and it all falls apart very quicly. life is to short. I enjoy country music ,rock and roll... meet someplace fun, have a beer and talk.. maybe watch sports at sports bar and get to know one another ...wishing the night wasnt ending ,, say wow i cant wait for the 2nd date !!!!!!!

  • Maryrose

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Let's see what can I tell you about myself and about what I'd like in a partner? To start: I've been told that I am attractive and that I have sexy curves. I love to laugh...can you make me laugh? I am very romantic, loyal, trustworthy, and can be a great friend! I am generally conservative, but am very sensual and affectionate when I am in a relationship. I like to flirt and be flirted with.The activities I enjoy are to ride (horses), swim/SCUBA dive,boating, play tennis (I'm a bit rusty), backpack/hike, and anything on or in the water. I LOVE THE BEACH! I grew up in the south and do not tolerate cold very well. I have three really great sons ***and twins that are ***who have a very involved father with whom they spend a good deal time. I am busy with my job, home, and kids but I also have enough free time to invest in a relationship. I'd like to find the right person to share with...someone honest, kind, and dependable. Do you like receiving romantic little surprises that say "you are special"? Let's just enjoy and have fun doing things together and give it the time it takes to grow and become something special. If this sounds like something you are interested in as well then drop me a line. Happy Fishing! Update: please those with little to no free time...need not apply. Why do those with no time to date or spend with someone come to a dating site and try to meet someone? I don't get it :-/ A nice quiet place with some atmosphere where we can talk and get to know each other a bit. There is no better way to get to know someone and figure out if there is any chemistry between you than to just talk....ask questions....listen....see what happens.

  • Damiana

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Life is to short..live it to the fullest, laugh, relax and enjoy. I am a pretty laid back country girl with a good sense of humor. I'm A Born Again Christian, It's Not About Religion, But About My Person Relationship With Christ. I enjoy outdoors, my vegetable garden, walks in the woods and on the beach, learning new things, having my grown and almost grown kids and their friends hang out at home-sometimes, my friends and family. My kids are my 1st priority even though they are 19, 22, 23. They don't need me as much as they used to. I like country music, especially earlier country, Some classic rock of the 70's & 80's,Southern Gospel. I'm not much of a shopper, do enjoy thrift stores. Not Into Bars Or Clubs. I am happy with my life, just looking for that "someone special". I'm interested in finding a nice, good humored, man to build friendship, share company and good times with. If more develops....that will be great too. I'm not into one-night stands! Depends on the individuals..maybe dinner, to talk and get acquainted with each other.

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