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About Me

I am a recent widow but have been alone for a long time. I am a very independent woman with a great career. I have two childen who are my life. But i want someone to share my time with. I am looking for someone who likes kids. I am slightly sarcastic and lke to have fun. My job is very serious so when i am not at work i like to have fun. Looking for a man who is honest and not afraid to say what they feel whether it is good or bad. For a first date nothing fancy maybe just meet and have a drink to see if we have any chemistry. Please if you dont have a pic up dont bother. There needs to be some physical attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eva

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm looking for someone to change my life. I want to find true happiness with one person. I'd hope to find a man that is looking toward the future as the best part of his life. I don't want someone that cannot imagine a family beyond the one they once had. If you could see what it's done to me to loose the LOVE I knew. At this age, we've all been there. I like a man that can do things for himself but appreciates all that I do for him. I'm looking for forever. My heart is set on making my next relationship, my best relationship. I want to make it all worth waiting for. I"ve waited this long and I will wait for the rest of my life to find the man that takes my breath away. I looking for a mirical in my life.P.S. If you put your children on here or take pic's in the bathroom, I will not reply.......... Where I'll go.....I just dont know.....I got ta, got ta, got ta take it slow..... When i find my peace of mind.....I'm gonna show ya some of my good time.....Where I'll go i just don't know.........When i find my peice of mine.....I could end up there till the end of time.....

  • Leota

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    If I had to describe myself in one word, it would be Happy.I am at a great place in my life. I'm happy, secure, and I love spending time with my family and good friends. I am always up for an adventure, and I love to experience new things. I enjoy being outdoors and being involved in many activities. I like photography, watching college football, going to auctions , having conversation, just enjoying life. Everything is better with the right person. I always look for the best in people, and while it doesn't always turn out the way I hoped, I do believe that there is something good in every person. I would like to find someone who can share my positive outlook on life. I have two daughters and until this May, I devoted my life to raising my girls and having the time of our lives. My youngest just graduated high school and now I have the time to give to that special person that who is meant for me. I am willing to be patience until I find him. I know he is out there.I know what is important to me: humor, honesty, trust and a sincere respect for each other. I am looking for my partner in crime: someone to experience a Fulfilling life with.Financially,I am self sufficient. Not wealthy, still have goals and a drive to get there, but I am able to support myself. It is very important that a man is also self sufficient and does not rely on a partner to make his ends meet.Altho I completed all the profile questions, I do not judge by these. Chemistry is Chemistry. A Connection

  • Kasandra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I want a relationship, but I'm going to date for now until I meet someone that I really click with. I'm not a serial dater by any means, but I'm tired of rushing into an exclusive relationship, only to realize 6 months later that we don't want the same things & then I have to start all over again. Why is everyone trying to rush love? It has to happen, you can't force it. I only want to be sure there is really something there if I'm going to be exclusive. What you should know about me, well, I'm pretty easy going with a little OCD mixed in. Shy till I get to know someone (then, just try to shut me up...LOL!)I love dogs & He keeps me sane when life gets crazy. I like cats but fortunately, I'm allergic. I'm a big fan of horror movies & crime shows like Criminal Minds, NCIS, Law & Order & CSI. Historical documentaries, romantic comedies, action adventure. Not big on chick flicks, tho' I do have a couple of fav's. I'm a Giants & Yankees fan (more into football than baseball). I drive a jeep & live in a small condo. I have worked at the same job in the aerospace industry for the past 25yrs & I really love my job. I'm kind of a homebody, but I do like going out to see a band, going dancing. Love visiting small towns with little shops & out of the way restaurants. I like the beach, but more early morning or early evening than when they're packed with people. I get bored just laying in the sun. I'm more of a beach comber than a sun worshiper. But I do love being near the ocean. Nature is amazing! Off the beaten path is much more interesting than the usual places. Gotta experience different thing in life or you just haven't lived. I like all kinds of music from today's pop, to 70's & 80's, raggae, blues, classic rock & even some metal (Disturbed, Godsmack & Metallica). Not a big fan of Jazz, Rap or Classical. Outdoor concerts are a lot of fun.I just recently joined Weight Watchers & have already lost 23 lbs. I'm really enjoying re-aquainting myself with my smaller clothes. It's a life plan & I'm not going back to my old body ever again. I like my healthy body far too much. A work in progress. I've also started exercising, both cardio & light weight training. I love Halloween & dressing in costumes, wigs & crazy makeup. I can be anything or anyone I want to be at Halloween. (I like goth, but Halloween is the only time I can get away with it...LOL!)I don't smoke or do drugs (not even weed) & I don't date anyone who does.(not even weed) I drink occasionally & don't like being around people who drink a lot. It's not my style. I don't need alcohol to have a good time. I'd rather feel good the next morning! I have 3 tattoos, & used to ride a Harley, but had to sell it when the recession started & we lost our overtime. I do miss it, but I'm not rushing to buy a new one. Maybe someday. I wouldn't mind riding on the back tho'. I'm not good with small kids, so if you have kids younger high school age, I probably won't answer you. Sorry, but I know what I'm looking for. Have to be honest. Many men my age have young kids, so I don't want to waste anyone's time. I don't expect a man to drop everything for me & expect the same in return. Everyone needs their own time with family & friends. I also don't live with my phone glued to my ear & I'm not a textaholic, tho' it is a fun way to communicate. It can't take the place of a good old fashion face to face conversation, tho'. I don't keep track of someone I'm dating & I expect the same consideration. We are all adults & if you're the jealous type, I'm not the one for you. Ok, I'm rambling now, if you're interested, drop me a note & we'll see what happens.:) Well, first date isn't first meeting. First meeting should be something simple, coffee or a drink to see if you have anything in common & if there's a spark or compatibility. 1st date should be simple, nothing over the top. No going overboard to impress. Being yourself. A nice dinner in a quiet restaurant where you can talk & get to know each other. That way, you can see if there is something worth building on.

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