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Calista, 49

Offline, last seen Mon, 05 Oct 2026 01:56:23

About Me

I work hard and I play hard! I am currently working two jobs and taking a class. That doesn't leave much time for anything else but I will make the time for the person who sparks my interest. I love to travel and that means a day trip, a weekend or a long adventure. I really do love all kinds of music, yes really all lol, but my favorite is classic rock. I can be caught playing air guitar in the kitchen quite often. I'm interested in art and I dabble in drawing & painting. I've been doing stained glass for a few years. I have many wonderful friends and I believe everyone should have time to "hang out with there pals" - it will only add to a relationship. My friends would tell you that I'm a Pollyanna - life is great no matter what and no matter how terrible things may be, it could be worse. I believe living in the moment but learning from the past to make the future better. Love going to the movies. Great movies really are better when viewed on the big screen and with surround sound. I also read a lot - newspapers, magazines,books - can't get enough. There is so much info out there and so many things that can be learned. I hope to find someone who can challenge me with their intellect on different topics but who is still down to earth. Smart is sexy!!!I'm very independent and although I'm not looking for someone to "take care of me", you need to be able to hold your own. Along the same lines, you can't get to this age without having some baggage but it's what you do with your baggage. If you're constantly sifting thru yours please pass me by. I'm writing a comedy not a drama or a horror story for my life story. It's fine to message and talk here first. There are a lot of people that are just looking for a hook-up so if that's you, I'm not interested. I would like to find someone to spend some quality time together and hopefully find that one person to build a relationship. Have a drink - coffee or wine, talk and laugh and see what happens.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm grounded, happy, have a great 15-year son. I have a big heart and will do anything for anyone I know. I'm surrounded by great friends. I've asked friends to describe me: funny, easy to talk to, low maintenance (jeez, what does THAT mean!), outgoing, devoted, warm-hearted, honest, dedicated, affectionate and slightly sarcastic...okay, so they didn't say slightly. I'm pretty much "what you see is what you get." I share my feelings pretty easily, I feel communication is important in any and all relationships. I'm up for doing anything and will try anythiing once (except for skydiving). I enjoy going to the movies as much as snuggling on the couch with the right person and enjoying anything on TV -- movie, regular show or sports. I enjoy going to sporting events, I try to get away a couple of vacations a year and a few long weekends where I can. I like day trips, overnight trips and long weekend stays. Love entertaining friends at home or meeting up with them for dinner. I can watch the snow fall from a window as easily as I can build a snowman or make a snow angel (which i do every year!). Love camping and enjoing the fresh air and being outdoors generally.I'm looking for someone that's easy talk to, secure, confident, has a good sense of humor, someone that can laugh at himself as well as me, someone who is tough and sensitive with a romantic/affectionate side. I will not fair well with someone i have to pull information out of. If we can't communicate and be friends, we can't have much of anything else. I'd like a guy who is flexible and can change my opinion on a topic as easily as I can change his -- or at least see both sides of any situation/story. Someone who has respect for all different points of view, especially his own. Someone who doesn't mind if the plans didn't work out as expected and is able to change gears and make Plan B work (aren't we all on Plan B now?). Someone who gets to know me and I know him. Pretty key that we like each other and we are each other's biggest supporter. The person that it feels comfortable with from the first meeting and, even tho we aren't together all the time, we always have that "can't get enough of you" feeling. Someone I look forward to seeing no matter how often or how little I see him. Having that excitment of "saying hello" every time...and that should be how it is. When he is across the room from me at a party, it's the same as if he was standing right next to me -- the glance across the room that says it all. Someone who always kisses me goodnight. First date? We can wing it! whatever makes sense -- coffee at a diner, drinks at a pub/bar, lunch at an Applebees, dinner at a casual place.

  • Gloria

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am an outgoing person who is extremely passionate and believes in fate. Loves to have fun and do spontaneous things.That's what I wrote the night I joined this site. Boy have I learned a lot since then and I haven't been on here for long. If u don't have a picture I will not reply. I typically won't look at you unless you are smiling. I don't get why you guys don't put a picture on there of your smile. A nice smile with nice teeth are extremely important...don't waste our time otherwise. You must have a cup half full, happy and funny (not out of control-well not right away) personality. I LOVE to laugh. However I do have a serious side but laughing and smiling feels so good!Be honest and considerate. Don't play games. At this point I'm just interesting in a dating relationship...to get to know someone...Someone to do something with on weekenda...spend quality time with...or grab a quick dinner or even a coffee during the week. PS...I Don't send pictures and get very offended if asked...I don't get u guys who persist...go buy a playboy...they're not that expensive :pTo be continued... Coffee, drink, dinner...

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My only New Year's resolution was to try new things this year! I have tried paintball, shooting range, a bonfire on the beach, the flying trapeze and surfing. Next up skydiving and dating. I live two blocks from the beach and work in lower Manhatten in the finance industry. I have a lot of energy and love to plan my weekends around physical activities.I also love museums, reading, movies, concerts, sight seeing, light houses and I am a Seinfeld fan! I am a huge hockey fam and am so happy the season has finally started.I am independent and open minded, nurturing and sweet, strong and reliable, low maintenance and free spirited. I am passionate and patient, kind and generous, competitive and fearless, loyal and fashionable. For you guys who hung in there til the end-I realize that some women lie and do not show actual pics. I just don't have any recent candids I'm working on posting more pics. Some where we can talk and get to know each other.

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