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Detra, 49

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About Me

Hello... thanks for taking the time to stop by..... BBQ's with my family and friends is a weekend well spent. I like to camp, hike and go fishing … a roaring fire roasting up the fish we caught or just some marshmallows is good fun.LOVE... Long walks on the beach or sitting smelling the ocean air and enjoying the sunset with my guy, for me that is a perfect day! A romantic dinner with candle light, laughter and great conversation is very nice.I enjoy all kinds of music...live music is always the best! I Love to laugh and make friends laugh, Laugh at myself often…. I always TRY to live by the Golden Rule! I believe that sooner, than later, karma will find you...treat others the way you'd like to be treated. I know who I am and I know my shortcomings... definitely not perfect!I live everyday with a smile...looking forward to the next adventure~ Right now my new adventure is…Starting back as a Preschool Teacher with special needs! What Adventure this is....tougher than I remember!I am looking for much more than just physical attraction, that does not sustain a relationship. But chemistry is important, it's either there or it's not. Most importantly the intelligence to keep me interested for hours on end. But there's nothing like a kiss to determine the non-verbal side of the relationship. It's really nice when you connect with someone who feels the same way you do. Compassion is one of the most beautiful qualities you can find in a person. It would be nice to meet that man who is not only outgoing and adventurous, but who also has a soft, unassuming vulnerable quality along with his manliness.I have the maturity and desire to be a fulfilling, intimate, sensual, loving and compassionate partner. I am emotionally secure,Independent, very affectionate and emotionally available.“Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, live truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that once made you smile. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we should dance..."Lets chat and see where it goes.... something fun for both

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sherryl

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm an outgoing single mother of one looking to get out and have some fun. I enjoy live music and witty banter...more specifically- seeing live bands perform classic rock, reggae, blues, and talking with people who can make me laugh. I'm looking for someone who also enjoys music, has a good sense of humor, and is fun and upbeat.I like to keep fit- I go to the gym, and I run...though I wouldn't call myself a runner:)

  • Saundra

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an active, outgoing, straightforward, optimistic, down to earth and fun loving person. I am also intense, passionate, affectionate and I love affection. I am interested in personal growth. I am not interested in drama.I love to laugh and have fun. I love the outdoors and the night sky. I am spontaneous. Living a healthy lifestyle is important to me.I am from NY and while I have lived on the central coast for more than 10 years I have not lost that directness. I can be sarcastic. I like to joke around. Sometimes I curse and yell, lol. I am a former dead head.Currently I am a local professional, a single mom, and a lover of life.I work in health care and have irregular hours. I am on call often and am also sometimes free during the day.My son is a huge part of my life. I am looking for a man who is available, strong, confident, easy going, patient, down to earth, optimistic, active, fun, successful enough to support himself, into health and being fit and taking care of his mind, body and soul. You are honest. You have integrity. You are responsible. You enjoy talking and connecting. I am looking to meet people and if there is a connection then have fun, take it slow and see where we go. Meet and greet to see if there is chemistry in a public setting, I am up for almost anything, let's make it light and fun.

  • Tony

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a petite, curvy brunette with light brown eyes. I like to explore new areas, see new places, do new activities.. I like to get my exercise by being active. I am starting to do fun runs. I posted a picture of me after the first one. I watch what I eat but I love to cook and BBQ especially with friends and family. I enjoy wine and the whole process of tasting it and talking about it. Everything is good in moderation. I like music, hot weather, good movies, spending time with family and friends, going on adventures, cuddling on the couch or holding hands on a walk. I like to be active but enjoy some down time to get recharged or focused. People say I am a sweet, optimistic person who sees the best in people. I am interested in meeting someone that I am compatible with and see where it leads us. I am a down to earth, honest person and do not like games or drama. I have a lot to give. More later…***I have not been very successful on line. I am not sure why. Feel free to give me some feedback. I am not posting glamor shots; I am posting pictures and info of the real and current me. I am just looking for an honest person who wants to enjoy life. Don’t be shy reach out…you cannot tell very much about a person on line, through texts or ***, you have to talk on the phone and meet. I figure this is just a tool to get you there. How can you really decide by just reading their profile? At this age everyone has baggage and everyone struggles to leave it behind. I am concentrating on moving forward and making the most out of life and it would even that much better with someone to share it with. No drama, no lies, don’t waste anyone’s time. Some place we can hear eachother talk. Coffee? Drinks? Lunch? Dinner?

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