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About Me

*Please take the time to read my profile so you can see if we may be a potential match BEFORE contacting me. I know what I want and I hope you do, too. Thanks!I am the mother of 2 incredible children. They are my greatest accomplishment and my pride and joy! If you don't want children, we certainly aren't a good match. Not looking for a Dad for them, they have one, but an additional positive, loving and healthy role model, will always do! In return, I am happy to date a man who has children, too. I pose no threat to their mom, just a promise of love and friendship. I am an outgoing spirit, young at heart and full of laughter/fun but I am also a mom, a professional career woman, and a dedicated friend. Simply put, I am looking for the following:*SINGLE (I don't care if that means divorced, widowed, or never married, but single is a must)*HONEST*NORMAL (whatever that means but this can be WAY more challenging than I ever imagined)*A MALE between the ages of ****Educated (College degree...intelligence is attractive)*Laughter, active, healthy, loving, passionate, vulnerable, confident, trusting*Enjoys dancing or having fun at hole in the wall bars *Loves tropical settings/travel*Loves activities in or around the water (boating, skiing, jet skis, swimming, waterfalls)*Spontaneity/Flexibility*Financially and emotionally stable*If you have married and divorced more than once, I'm sorry, but I am not interested.*If and when warranted, A kiss can make or break the deal...must have a SPARK there!!My preferences:*Beach vs Mountain=Beach but definitely appreciate both settings*Chocolate vs Vanilla=Chocolate*Dogs vs Cats=DOGS! *Allergic to cats*Dive bars vs Hot Spots=Dive bars w live music but you'll find me at either*Smoker vs Non-smoker=Non-smoker*Enjoys working out vs Couch Potato=Exercise but not a fanatic and there's nothing wrong with curling up together on the couch...just not ****Football vs Baseball=Football...How 'bout them TEXANS?!?!?!*Tattoos vs No Tattoos=No TattoosAt this point in my life, I know that I can make it on my own. It's a choice to share me/us with someone special. It's a want...not a need. I'm hopeful it will happen one day and I'm ready and awaiting that moment with open arms. Happy Fishing! Doesn't matter what or where as long as it's with the right company! Running in a thunderstorm can be fun, sexy and full of laughter when you're with someone special!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Towanda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I luv the outdoors fishing ,camping ...but i luv family and playing games ect....im pretty laid back .I work in the healthcare field so i stay really busy.I luv music fond of country but i was raised here and so i like all music Rock hip hop dance ect.... Im looking for someone who is ready to just settle down and just enjoy life in general.Im not with the bar seen ,someone who is at a club or bar every weekend well thats not for me.

  • Alyx

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hard to do this without tooting your own horn and I'm not that kind of person. I prefer modesty, but let's give it a go....I'm an outgoing individual who loves to talk and has no trouble socializing. I also like taking it easy and relaxing, enjoying the comforting nature of just being together in a quiet place. I don't do the bar scene, never really enjoyed that. I'm very much a doer in that I believe you shouldn't talk about it, just do it. I am unable to relax if something needs doing and I don't like procrastinating. I believe in giving and enjoy doing things for others and surprising them with the unexpected. I believe giving is most important in a loving relationship, as both partners need to give as much as they can to the other. Doing things for the other person shows consideration, selflessness and love. I'm a firm believer in teamwork. I can tackle life's challenges but would prefer doing that together with a co-captain, afterall, we make a stronger team than each alone. Doing things together is fun....anything at all, but I also believe we need some time to ourselves. I'm not attached to anyone at the hip and time apart makes us appreciate our time together even more. We need to learn about eachother, but we can't forget who we are as individuals. We should bring that individuality into the relationship and I look forward to learning all about you and that's an adventure we'll do together. Family and friends are very important to me and sometimes, they are all you have, so go out of your way to help them, let them know how much you appreciate them, and love them. I have 2 great kids that challenge me all the time but they are my strength too. They are with me most of the time and therefore are a big part of my life, but I will still make time for that someone special. I am very expressive with my words and actions, showing my affection in public without concern for who may be watching. I certainly don't mean going overboard, but when I am with someone I love, a long kiss is not taboo and very much welcome. Loving touches and feels are a must all the time! This is really a method of communication and a pillar in a strong relationship. I love holding hands and I am a hopeless romantic.I love to laugh, so a good sense of humour is definitely a requirement. I have no problem laughing at myself, I'm comfortable enough in my own skin. I'm young at heart and believe that age is just a state of mind. I hope to meet someone that sparks my intellect and my heart. There must be mutual respect and mutual interests. Although they say opposites attract, I have to disagree when it comes to relationships...common goals, common interests and common values are very necessary for a successful relationship. I enjoy being active and playing some sports such as volleyball, baseball, basketball. I enjoy staying fit by cycling, spinning and doing weights. I'd like to be physically active with my special someone, allowing us to both keep eachother fit and enjoy the time exercising together. Life is short and we all need to be with someone special. I am looking for my best friend, as the best relationships start off as a friendship...love is strongest when you fall in love with your best friend. 5 IMPORTANT notes:1. I don't respond to profiles that have no photos. Sorry.2. I won't chat with someone unless I've communicated with them previously through messaging. Sorry.3. I read this and believe it's true - Everyone has baggage, the trick is to find that someone special who will help you go through it.M4. I try to reply to everyone, but if I don't, please understand it is because I don't believe we are a match.5. My profile is long as I have spent much time in expressing myself and I take this next step seriously. If you choose to message me, please take some time and effort in doing so....it means a lot."I'm just a girl, looking for a boy to love her." -;Love is....friendship set on fire." - Anonymous

  • Carmelita

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm an open-minded person looking for that special someone who loves horses as much as I do. Or can introduce me to a new hobby. When I'm not out riding, I like to relax on the beach with a good book, or go out for dinner with friends. I embrace my innate curiosity about the world around us and love to travel to places with a rich historical background. Supportive of my friends and family, I enjoy helping them achieve their goals and reach for their dreams. A great listener, I am easy to talk to and can empathize with where someone is coming from by putting myself in their shoes. I believe that good communication means we can have differing opinions while working out a compromise. I may be independent and confident, but I give my all to a relationship and believe we can be two individuals while being stronger together.What I'm looking for is a relationship based on honesty with an outgoing guy who loves to travel together. He's financially stable enough to enjoy his hobbies and maybe sharing in my life-long love of horses. Caring and compassionate, he puts the needs of others before his own and will help me out of my reserved shell. More than a lover, I want to find the best friend that I can relax and enjoy all of life's experiences with.

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