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Amya, 43

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About Me

You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey guys, figured it was time yo update my profile. Havent gotten on here much lately, was goin thru some things and really didnt have time for anything new or anyone new iny life. But im back n ready to do me. Hope everyones been well. If youve messaged me and i didnt reply then im sorry nothing personal u can hit me up again. I love outdoors hanging with friends n family. Like occasional drinking. Love my kiddos. They are grown but still my life. They need me im therr. Animals ..Dogs.. love'em. Still.doin the vet tech thing. Anyways anything u wanna know ask away. Dont b shy.. Hang out get to know little bout each other. Drinks,dancing ,mountains to hike maybe a bike ride if u have one. Not bicycle. Lol. Juat something simple

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Gene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

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