• Burley
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

Hi. I'm an independent working mom with a career I enjoy. My children are my heart though they don't live with me now but I see them regularly. Recently widowed, I really long to be in a committed long term relationship though I'm not wanting to rush/settle and am happy to make new friends along the way. I am optimistic to start over and find someone who has the same values and character. I have a lot to offer a partner emotionally and am a loyal and honest friend who knows how to stand by the man I love. I'm crazy for anything having to do with water: Beach, the lake, sailing. I really enjoy time alone with a partner and personal time as well as family time. I like nightlife but I also like just grilling out and listening to music for a night at home. Weekend getaways (just the two of us) are always fun. I love to dance. Music is my soul and I like a lot of genres from Alternative to Hip Hop but have certanin favs: Theory of a Dead Man, Sick Puppies, Shinedown, T-..like just about everything but country music (love some Reggae too ;). Something a little unique might be that I'm a girly girl but love adventure and always ready to try something new and spontaneous. I love to play dress up and go to a little black dress party but don't mind hanging out in hole in the wall local spot in a tee shirt and jeans :-) For a first date (talking if it were ideal here) we might meet at an outdoor bistro with live music, get to know each other over drinks and maybe sushi, then maybe take a waterfront stroll depending on the setting or go dancing, depending on what our collective mood was to do one or the other.

• Burley
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

***for ***So my recent dating average is 0 for 4. As if I care. A date cancelled on me tonight and I was actually happy..lol. So my aunt says to me "good, aren't you glad you don't have to get dressed up and go out with someone you hope you'll like?!.." I said "Precisely! That's exactly what I was thinking." So my belly was full with eggplant parm pizza, and my cousin and I had the movie line up for the evening in order. I've decided I will only go on a date with someone if I *** weed out the freaks, pervs, jerks and idiots. For some chuckles, here's the last 4 dates I had: 1) nice guy - dinner, but no connection - great eggplant parmesan dinner though :) Love my peeps food 2) seemingly nice guy who let it be known that he was rich, and he took me to dinner - too bad money doesn't buy class 3) date 3 of the month was lined up - seemingly nice guy, polite, intelligent, respectful, relate-able, felt I could talk to him and was actually thinking I could have some chemistry with him, that is, until he texted me last night saying "I wanna see your breasts." lol...that didn't go over too big - NEXT 4) Cancelled on me via text saying he didn't feel we were a match - as if I care....I hate men with baggage anyways - a carry on will suffice, but I prefer to stay away from divorcees with kids anyways. I kill me.And so, I shall scroll through the channels now and see what's on late night TV - just had a nice girlie chat with my cousin. Oh and one last thing - if I see one more profile that says "I like to stay fit and work out 6x a week I think I'll scream." Granted you all have muscles, but do you have muscle where it really counts??!.....nite creatures. ***For some Laughs: So yesterday we had some workers over doing some chimney work on the outside of the house. They had to access the inside for certain prep work. So I go downstairs, only to smell the funny stuff that I thought only people smoked in the 60's and early 70's. So one of the members of the household had smoked some doobage with two of the workers...lol. Can't mention which household member this is, but she makes me laugh. We get along great, but I'm drug, smoke and alcohol free other than an occasional few Coors Lights, and she's the opposite. So when they leave, she's like "" lol...just funny that they got high together. And who knows what else went down but I don't ask... So the chimney work got done, and they had some fun. Went to the mall last night with my cousin and she is such a girlie girl. So we had to hit the Estee Lauder Cosmetics counter so she could get a make-over. I just whipped on some make-up for fun while she was getting made over. The woman at the counter says "you don't need me, you know what you're doing." I said "I surely do." the fact is that noone knows one's face better than oneself. I've put lipliner on every day of my life just about, so I don care how expert they claim they are, noone can do it as good as me. Nor can anyone put on mascara and play up my eyes as good as I can. Not that any of you care, but I'm just saying. But maybe you do care, as I've gotten many eye and lip compliments from you. Anyways, enjoy another lovely fall day. ***Tonight's #1 insult: "that is why you are nothing but a drop dead beautiful girl that i will never meet" you couldn't be more wrong buddy -.how's vanilla ice gonna get you???LOL....I am sooo sick of these insecure men trying to cut me down because they feel insecure about themselves. Oh you're 10 lbs overweight, you are drop dead hot but nothing else going for you....pal-eez. Have y'all looked in the mirror lately???***Thank You! I've just gotta say that I am so touched and utterly impressed by the compassion many of you have shown in your written expressions, thoughts, support and good wishes about my mother, parents, and what has been a truly emotionally brutal situation on me for many years now. It's enough to tear someone apart and every word of support, even simple ones help and mean a lot so I Thank those that have taken the time to support a complete stranger in an awful situation. Truly I mean that. I have more to say but gotta run for now. I had so much more to say yesterday but when I got home I was tired.***O-O-O, the Sweetest Thing -. just so cute. then I see this dog and his dad that I always see. They play fetch. This time the dad has this stick with a thing on the end, kind of like a goalie would use. I thought that was a good idea because although I know that dogs need their exercise, every time that dog brought the ball back it just gets slimier and slimier. So I thought, "good idea." That is a beautiful relationship and so adorable to see - man and his best friend sharing the day together. Those are just some of the Sweetest Things I saw today.***Brother Matt Goes to Bat - I'm really proud of my brother Matt for really stepping up to the plate with my mother's dementia worsening. We kind of have a bad family situation and he is surprisingly taking charge. My parents are divorced and living under the same roof - dad wants to sell the house because he now has a "chick" (can't imagine what she's like..lol***and mom doesn't want to sell the house. They are both miserable, especially my father, and misery loves company. He is taking out his whole situation with my mother on us kids. Imagine I am going through this in my 40's - this is pathetic and we won't stand for it. so I've been over the house pitching in making sure there's food, taking mom to the doctor and dentist, and doing whatever else I can. My friggin psychotic father (literally psychotic) is so miserable, he always has to harass or abuse someone - at least he tries. Doesn't get very far though. So the last two times I was there he started in with me. So I told my brother that I will not partake in helping out if he continues to harass me. Matt said the other night "don't worry I will take care of it - done - next topic." so he calls me today and tells me he told my father to not speak to me when I'm over the house, and not to look at me, just to go to his room and let me tend to caring for my mother. He told him that I am helping him (brother) out and we are teaming together to do the best we can.;don't look at her, don't talk to her, don't think about her - or I'll lay you out (b h1Since I now will not go on an internet without skyping a bit first, if I agree to a date it is usually a nice dinner at a nice restaurant. No Houlihan's guys. And dinner is sometimes awkward for a first date but not in this case, because I'd already have been speaking with you.

• Burley
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

I like making candles and going to the races. I prefer my jeans and t's to dressing up, but I can look the part if I need to.I am upfront and honest and will not settle for anything less. I want a man not a child in a man's body! My kids are grown, but still my first priority. I don't like complicated things, I much prefer simple and easy going.Lets throw a fact out: I DO NOT NEED A MAN in my life. I chose to have one. I don't need you to support me or be a sugar daddy. I have been threw hell and back. I want a man to show me what I have battled to survive in life for. Do not let your first message to me be: Wow babe, your hot, or I want you. First, I am not some teeny bopper, I am a woman, respect that and no way in hell can you see my hot flashes threw a screen. Second, you want me? To do what, put my foot up your ass because you think all women are the same?Yeah I am a fiesty redhead, if you can't deal with someone who is honest and upfront, move on and don't waste my time. Something calm and relaxing