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Tonisha, 46

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About Me

I just turned 46 but feel 25. I'm widowed and have 4 kids aged 25, 21, 17 and 15 who are my life. I'm currently going to college to follow my dream and passion for graphic communications and business management, and I work full time, which leaves lil room for me. I love fishing, quiet nites, darts, spades and dominoes. I'm laid back, love to laugh and have a good time, dislike stress, drama and liars. I'm very independent, have always taken care of myself and my kids without any help and I'm lookin for the same in a man, someone who can hold their own. Not a man who is needy and has to ask a woman to take care of him, sorry, I'm not the one. If you can freely ask a female that you've just met for money, a place to live or anything like that, then you need to get your life straight before you try to get into any relationship, just sayin. I LOVE life! a quiet place to get to know each other, maybe a park or something

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a simple lady with simple requests...looking to embrace all that makes me smile! Life is too short not to recognize its' simple pleasures.I take care of myself physically & look forward to meeting someone with a similar mind set. NO smokers please. I truly desire a handsome, fit man that loves to ride, has a sense of humor & can carry on a conversation! I very much enjoy riding and desire someone in my life that I can share that with. This future man needs to know how to treat a lady with respect and be a man of his word! If I have to teach you this quality then you are NOT the man for me!..lol.. I am NOT impressed with big talkers..lol..I enjoy all of the basics... movies, dinners, local wine tasting & even the small town mud run! Music interests are all over the spectrum..; groove to some Buddy Guy and of course I love me some country music! I love live blues,love going to wineries, weekend get aways with the right person of course... I can appreciate a man in cowboy boots & I love a deep voice(Yeah I am a sucker for the Sam Elliot sound..lol!) I would click better with a well rounded individual of cultural experience! Love trying new foods and experiences, adventuring to what is going on around town. Pretty much will only find me on the couch on a cold or rainy day or well unless I have been enticed to snuggle with a man who appreciates me!I enjoy dressing up with my stilettos as much as I love my flannel shirt, overalls & boots! lolLove to dance & love the outdoors!..sighFall is my favorite time of year and I love watching my Chiefs (even when they are not performing at their best!)I must warn you I get a bit excited and vocal..lolI prefer summer much more than winter...don't like being cold and having to layer up with all of those clothes! I am a tank top and shorts kinda gal!My friends would say she is...funny,playful,ornery & loyal.She is comfortable in any enviroment, classy and respectable...ALL LADY! A true lady knows when to be "naughty" & when to be "nice"!Most seem to say my best features are my smile and my legs...I definitely will take that as a compliment!I am honest & genuine & won't jerk your chain & with that being said...only those of gentleman quality need "apply"...lol..players don't waste your time!There is a fine line between confidence and ****ness! Guys read the BIG PRINT,,,I DO NOT DESIRE A FWB RELATIONSHIP NOR AM I HERE TO ENTERTAIN YOU MEN THAT ARE "NOT SINGLE/NOT LOOKING" FOR ANY REASON! DO NOT *** & THANK U!I am open to experiencing a serious relationship if it feels right. I have come to realize that timing is everything, I look forward to meeting that someone who will enhance the good that I have to offer!Enjoy everyday...it is a gift...it is all about the journey! First date..hmmm..lol..well that is determined upon each individual. I find simple pleasures in a walk in the park, a nice afternoon ride on the back of a motorcycle, simple dinner to get to know the person...options are unlimited..just find that comfort zone!

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