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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Edyth

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi..I am reserved, ambitious, caring, loyal and thoughtful. I was married for 12 years and have 2 sons 11 and 13 that I am very close with. I enjoy working out at the gym. I also love to spend time with family and friends.I work in a public school system full-time servicing students on educational plans. I truly love what I do. I am looking for someone who is clean-cut, respectful, sincere, genuine, traditional type of guy. open to suggestions.

  • Merry

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love cooking , trying new Restos, going for drinks on a Saturday night and traveling, I also have a love for history , so a plus if you like that kind of stuff I love my nieces and nephews and have a very close relationship with my family .I am really just trying this out , so don't hesitate to message me if you are interested !MUST HAVE A PHOTO FOR A RESPONSE ! Drinks or dinner .

  • Piety

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok, So let me start off with this.. Simple enough, right?? I am a BBW for now.. I am currently a work in progress. Now if you have a problem with the wrapping then you will definitely have a problem with the surprise inside. so STOP.. Read no further..Still here?? Well then, let's move on shall we?? ...What am I looking for you ask?? Well, let's see..Someone to date? Someone with values,morals?? Someone grown up??Honesty - The ability to be honest with me. Honesty builds trust. A key player in a relationship.Communication. - Yes... you are or should be able to hold a conversation with me that is not made up of. (Examples .. uh huh, yeah, ok.) In the entirety.And is another essential piece to the puzzle that a relationship is. A man who's. A man and not some trumped up player of a little boy. Because a real man won't play games unless their in bed. Then its fair game.Well. That seems simple enough. Right?Ok, so the ball is in your court.Message me or not. That choice is yours. But im a pretty cool lady if even as a friend.... So Be brave... I don't bite too hard.. LoL ;)Ok, So heres a side note.. I've been looking through profiles and theres alot of you unhappy fella's out here whineing how us women are complaining how we dont want this or dont want that or that we are playing games or how "WE" are too shallow to give a decent guy a chance because of his looks or attributes.. But "YOU" do the "same thing" if we arent pretty enough or skinny enough or whatever.My advice to you and my fellow women is this."Don't judge the book by it's cover". It's something i was always told. Because you may never know what truly lies inside until you open it. So, dont ask me what i'm looking for because this lady will give you the same answer every time. "I don't know" I can tell you what i "Think" i want or would like to have... But what i do know is this.. "IF and WHEN" i find whatever it is i'm looking for, then I will "KNOW"..and thats the plain truth. Take it or leave it. Because life is too precious to waste. Oh. And If I stop by to comment on your profile or your photos. Chalk that up to being nice. :) Because something must have caught my eye.Happy fishing to you. May you find the one that won't get away.. A meet up for coffee maybe a lunch or dinner . Who knows everyones taste are differnt. Message me and let's see where the road goes. Hopefully. Down the straight one. Although a few good twist's and turn's every now and then would sure keep it intresting.::::::: WARNING::::::::: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or personal use-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile information or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. (It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.)

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