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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Tarah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    - I'm gorgeous- I'm quite intelligent - I'm funny- I do stuff- I like traveling- I'm not stingy with time or emotions- I can stop at 7 points None of these:Taming wild animals.Symbolism.Chasing tornadoes.Exploring extra-sensory capacities, through different methods like hypnosis.Stunts.Sky diving, bungee jumping....at least not on the first date.

  • Thea

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm tired of the games and the lies,besides Aren't we too old for games? Why do men hide if they meet and they decide they aren't compatable? Not all women are fragile or psycho, some of us more adult women will actually respect you for saying "I'm sorry its there won't be another date". So men suck it up and grow up and actually be the man you say you are. You'll at least have my respect. Because otherwise I will call you out on your b.s., I'm bold and honest and you'll get nothi ng less from me. I work in the telecommunications field in a call center. I love my job and seem to do rather well at it. I want to do some traveling now that my children are older and I am looking for someone genuine to spend some quality time with. I'd like to experience the things life has to offer. I don't need your money I have my own. I am not interested in what you own, they are only things, they do not make you who you are, but I am interested in you and what we could share together. I want to find someone I can be friends with first and get to know to build something lasting. (If you aren't interested in a friendship that could turn into a long term relationship please don't waste my time or yours.) I want to find someone to date who wants to put effort into getting to know me and doesn't want to keep fishing for something better because, really how do you really get to truly know someone and build a relationship when your still looking for someone else. You can't. If I'm not good enough that you'd need to continue looking then I'm not your filler woman till better is found. I won't make you a filler fish, don't make me your filler fish lol. Someone who wants to know how my day was or enjoys the daily Txt saying "have a nice day" or "I'm thinking of you" I don't want someone who is just looking for a sex friend. If that's you just keep moving and don't bother me. I saw this and thought it was rather fitting for how I feel. "I may not be the most beautiful or sexiest, nor do I have the"perfect body". I might not be someones first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I'm not proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away"Why sit idly by and let life pass you by? Live life to the fullest!! I look forward to talking you soon! A first date would be a great conversation getting to know each other over a cup of coffee,a drink or a good meal. Depending on the weather a walk in the park, a Tincaps game, or a Komets game. I love riding a motorcycle in nice weather.

  • Katerine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    UPDATE – I guess there have been some men burned by women in the past; on and off dating sites. I’ve met some ‘interesting’WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR:1. Absolutely NO one-night stands. I do NOT want to be your bed buddy. Thanks for the compliment, but move on if this is your interest. 2. Absolutely NO drugs.3. If you still live with your folks, I’m not for you. I don’t want to support you, any more than I want you to support me. 4. Traffic in this city is the pits, commuting more than an hour to see your date, seems like a waste of the free time we have. 5. I take pride in my smile and would like the same from you. Not expecting a perfect pearly whites but at least have a clean mouth. Please provide at least one photo showing your teeth. This is a turnoff for me. 6. Impress me with your intelligence, not your wallet. I save and spend equally and live within my means. Please have a job, you don’t have to LOVE it but you have to be able to support yourself. 7. No offense to anyone, I prefer to date within my own skin tone. 8. I am NOT looking for a clingy, needy man. I do NOT want to be your mother or your maid. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: if you've made it this far.1. An honest, genuine individual who likes to have a good time and loves to laugh; laughter is important to me. 2. I would like someone who is positive. I get up thankful for all that I have and want to make the day better than the last.3. Someone who likes to get out and do fun things and still want to curl up on the sofa and watch a movie sometimes.4. I’m a pretty good cook, and would love to get to the point where I can provide a meal or two. It would be nice, if you would like to cook for me too. You cook, I clean and vice versa! 5. Someone that will go to the gym with me and help keep one another motivated in living a healthy lifestyle. 6. I don’t expect my partner to be interested in EVERYTHING I do, and hope that you don’t expect the same. I believe we all need HIS time and HER time, along with plenty of US time. We certainly need to have common interests, definitely gives us something to do together and talk about.7. Bottom line… I want someone who is willing to accept me as I am right now. I’m far from perfect and not expecting you to be either. However, learning to accept that we all have flaws, allows us to grow and be better people. What you see on the outside, is only the shell of the true person that resides within.Now that we got the ‘nasty stuff’ out of the way!!My family and friends would describe me as loyal, honest and dependable. I choose to live my life by the Golden Rule. I am a genuine person; I have a down-to-earth attitude, open minded and a good moral compass and good values. Will not pretend to be something I'm not. I love to laugh and find humor in everyday things. My sense of humor can be sarcastic; I'm quite adept at laughing at myself. I like to have fun; life is short, so I want to enjoy it. I am at a good place in my life and ready for the next chapter.I enjoy walking, camping, going to concerts, going to a baseball or football game, but not a sports nut. I love to be outside and enjoying nature; a good hike through the woods is always a welcomed activity. I enjoy being active, but also like to spend some time watching a little mind numbing TV to relax – this excludes reality TV! I enjoy getting out of town for weekend excursions. Science and history fascinate me. I’m willing to try new things...at least once. I love to learn and I would love to share an intellectual conversation from time to time. If you're looking for an athletic body type, that is not me; if looking for BBW, that is not me either. However, I am working to get back into shape and get to the gym ***times a week. I do not believe that I will ever be a thin, svelte woman; I do like some of my curves. I choose to live a healthy lifestyle.Let’s start as friends, no need to complicate things. I am a simple person and live a simple life, but I am looking to share this life with someone special. I'm truly not interested in mind games or drama; I'm too old for that crap. Bottom line: I'm single, but not desperate and willing to wait for the right one. Our pasts define who we are today and hopefully we've all learned where things went wrong and are making strives to improve. Being honest and open to communication enables both parties to know where they stand and provides an equal playing field. Trust has to be earned.IF YOU'RE STILL READING….BRAVO, perhaps something made you keep reading; and I thank you for taking the time to read my profile, if anything I've said has sparked your interest, please send a message, would love more than just 'Hello', but that's okay too. If not, best of luck in finding that person you're searching for. I believe that it’s okay to start via the meetville messaging, but at some point it has to come off the internet and into the real world. Meeting face-to-face is the only true way to know if there is a connection. Some place simple and quiet, where we can meet and talk to see if there is a connection; perhaps over a cup of coffee or drinks.

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