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Alma, 43
United States, Colorado, Berthoud

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I'm the girl next door and would probably remind you of your best friend's little sister. I am looking for someone nice, honest, kind and reliable to hang out with. I am NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits.Wow, how to describe myself... I am a woman after all, we change from one second to the next! Come on, you know you are agreeing with me right now. ;)Well, here goes... I'm kind, honest, faithful and loyal. I'm pretty (so I have been told) but not girly, I like the simple life and money doesn't mean much to me. I am much more impressed with a man's personality than his bank account. I live in the country by choice. I don't like mean, snobby, cruel people and I have no time for men who are liars or cheats. I like real men- the kind they used to make. I can be stubborn. I almost guarantee I will cry at a sad movie, song or one of those darn Hallmark commercials. I like to camp, fish, canoe, go to movies, the theatre, sit around a bonfire, go boating, go to an auction, I love photography, road trips or just a lazy drive on a gravel road with the radio on! I am up for about anything, but I am not the daredevil type. There are so many more things I could list- but let's just go with I am multifaceted. I'm easy going and easy to please, BUT if you screw up and do something INCREDIBLY stupid- I will let you know what I think about it. I may be quiet, but I am no wallflower. I am relatively low maintenance- I drive a truck (which is usually dirty) and prefer jeans and a tshirt to a dress and heels. You will find me dressed up though, I do know how. I have a job and don't need someone to support me, I'm not a freeloader (I am also not looking for someone that wants to spend MY money for me). That was not a slap in the face, I am about as far from being a woman's libber as you can get. I have old fashioned values and stick to them and I am just a bit tired of getting used. And I can handle a little harmless jealousy, but if you plan on going crazy with it or controlling me- you might want to send a message to someone else ***, I don't handle being pushed real well.All of this sounds so blunt, like I'm trying to sell a used car. My profile isn't glamorous- there are no lies. I am not going to try to be someone else just to impress you- this is who I am and I am pretty ok with that.So, here I am! TaDa! I don't know what you are looking for, but I guarantee you would like me as a friend. Shoot me a message and we can talk, go fishing, hit a movie, grab some ice cream... maybe hang out. I am looking for someone NICE- someone that I can be friends with, but someone with some spark and passion that is fun to be around. Am I picky? ABSOLUTELY. Oh, and contrary to what my profile may make you think... I am not crazy... or am I?? ;0) Come on... a lame attempt at some humor in an uncomfortable situation here.*Since most of the responses I get make mention of how I look, I wanted to clear things up.- this may not be the norm for me. I would rather have someone say 'You look SO much better than your picture, than the opposite of... you looked MUCH better in your photos." So, I am adding a new profile pic- assume this how I usually look (it may be closer to the truth) and then there will be no surprises or disappointment. As you can see, I wasn't joking about loving the greasy pizza... Not trying to be rude here, but sending me a message calling me sweetie, baby, honey, sexy, etc is just weird. You don't even know me and I am not the kind of woman that falls for it. And no, I am not a fan of motorcycles- sorry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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