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Elfriede, 45
United States, Colorado, Berthoud

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Hi there! Last time I was out here I didn't want anything serious...since then, things have changed. I am a very outgoing person and have two great kids who I have full custody of. I have an awesome job and a nice car and my own home. I enjoy hiking, riding motorcycles, and doing things with my kids. My kids are my world, and most of my time is spent at football, basketball, baseball, wrestling, cheerleading and dance practices, but I do have a little spare time that I would love to spend with someone special. I enjoy music of all kinds and like reality TV shows. I'm very outgoing and I have a lot of friends...both men and women...so if you get jealous easily, you probably shouldn't talk to me. I refuse to change for anyone...what you see is what you get. I don't speak in riddles and I mean what I say.Here's the thing...last time I was on this site, I heard from guys who were only looking for one thing. That's not me, so if that's what you want, please don't waste my time. Below is what I'm looking for:I would like to find someone who can be spontaneous. I don't have a lot of free time, so I need someone who can just pick up and go at a moments notice. If you have a motorcycle, that's a plus...if you have TWO motorcycles, well, that's even better! You must have your own vehicle...preferably a nice car or a nice 4 wheel drive truck (I'm a country girl at heart), and have your own place. I will not date black men, and will not date anyone who is separated or still married. You must be single. I prefer someone who is at least 4 inches taller than me with kind eyes. I believe that the eyes are the window to the soul, so your eyes are important to me. I'm overweight, but not unattractive, so I expect the same in a partner. You must be educated...speak correctly and spell correctly. If you send me a message that has a ton of misspelled words...don't expect a response from me. Don't expect to be around my kids for a while...my kids have been through too much over the last 2 years so I have no plans on introducing them to anyone until I know that person will be around for more than a few months.I will probably update this again in the next few days, but this is me in a nutshell. Although it was work related, I think it was then that I truly realized that I need someone in my life. I had so much fun in the evenings after work and I would love to have been able to share that experience with someone. I plan on taking a 2 week vacation next year and driving West with my kids with no set plans. I want my kids to get to see what is out there if they work hard and never stop believing they can accomplish anything if they set their mind to it. I would love to be able to share the whole experience with that special someone as well.Here's the thing...my schedule is pretty jam packed. Basketball has already started and baseball will be starting in November. As I've said before, my kids are my world and I would give my life for them. I was talking to a couple of friends this past week and realized that what I need is a "companion". I don't mind living alone because I'm an extremely independent woman, but I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, but someone who isn't going to get mad if I don't call them back right away. Someone who I can pick up the phone and call and say "Hey, you want to meet me for dinner and a movie tonight?" and they will ask where and when. Since I don't have a lot of free time, I just can't plan too far ahead. I usually work ***hours a day (I do work from home), so I don't get to go out much for adult fun. My life truly does revolve around my kids. But, I'm faithful. I don't lie, cheat, or steal and I expect the same from you. If you have taken the time to read all of this...drop me a line and lets see where it goes! :) I haven't been on a first date in a while...maybe meet at Starbucks for coffee to get to know each other then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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