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Gillian, 41

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About Me

I have been single for 3 years and haven't been in the dating world for quite some time. So I figured I can try this site out and see what happens I am a decent,honest, loving and caring woman and I would like to have a man to share my life with. I'm not into the bar scene!! So this makes it quite difficult to meet people. I'm tired of being alone and would like to have a man to go out with occasionally and see where it goes.I am not looking for a man to save me. I'd like to find someone that enjoys similar things and can introduce me to some new things. I'm always up for trying new things. I don't always want to go out,I also enjoy just relaxing at home watching a movie. I enjoy the outdoors. I like kayaking,I use to own 2 kayaks but unfortunately had to sell them 6 years ago. I like fishing, although I'm not very good at it. I also like going to the movies,or going to see live bands. One thing i have always liked no matter where I've lived is just getting in the car and going for long rides to no place in particular and if possible take back roads to get there.I'm pretty laid back and down to earth.I want to meet a man that is honest,not passive aggressive shows affection and likes to go out and enjoy life.I hate drama and playing games.. Also, I prefer not to date men with small children. All 3 of my kids are over 18 and I have heard horror stories from single friends that dated men with small children and ended up being part of major drama because of the ex-wife/girlfriend not wanting her kids around another woman.So if any of this sounds like someone you would like to meet, send me a message.Take Care First date,Go get coffee or go somewhere that we could talk and see if there is any chemistry. I don't believe in long complicated first dates just in case there is no chemistry neither person would feel obligated to finish date just to be polite.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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