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Nikia, 41

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About Me

I'm truly am a simple girl with strong values who lives for and loves the sweet and simple things in life, looking for someone that will make me smile from the top of my head to the tip of my toes when I hear their voice, see their smile, or feel their touch. Someone that leaves me wanting so much more after our first date... Someone that leaves me breathless after a passionate kiss. Someone to share the good times and bad times together. I want a guy who knows when to lead, when to follow, but mostly when to walk beside me. This combination seems to be a rare breed, but I do know it exists. I would like someone who is spontaneous and not afraid of taking risks. Someone who enjoys dressing up or dressing down. I like people who are REAL.... you know- not afraid to be themselves, as that is how I try to be. Someone to compliment my life , not complicate it! Someone who knows the little things are so big! I believe everything happens for a reason and that everyone who crosses your path whether briefly or for a lifetime does so with purpose. It's our job to figure out what that purpose might be.I always look for the positives and try to make the best out of what life has to offer. I can adapt to any scenario, have fun, make the best out of every situation without stressing over the little things. No pressure! Somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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  • Ivette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Have I possibly read too many romance novels/love stories?? Watched too many movies??? Or does a happily ever after really exist??? I believe it does exist and believe that our soul mates are out there.......the right time and the right place just need to bring us together....Myself Summarized:Fact: Love to hang with those that are sarcastic....I for sure am. Do not do pessimists....not at all. Optimists...for sure, if you are truly optimistic. I am caring, compassionate and sometimes others take advantage of thatLikes: Family, friends, my horse, laughter, honesty, true love, hikes, foodgasms (have you ever experienced one?), kissing, pizza, hiking, new places, did I say honesty and kissing already? Dislike: Ageing, calories, mushrooms, dishonesty, laziness, texting, grocery shopping, bad teethThink about often: how fortunate I am, family, travel, kissing, what I may have for my next "cheat" meal, what tomorrow might bring, why you keep looking at my profile, but will not message me???I am really good at: being a mom, being a friend, cooking, wearing my heart on my sleeve, drinking wine occassionally, caring for others, being a life partner, being responsible (well most of the time anyways)You should message me, if: you believe in real, true love and romance, you think that your already great life would be better if shared with someone and you are ready for that someone, you are just as likely to spend a morning being lazy in bed as you are to be out enjoying your favorite hobby or enjoying the outdoorsPlease do no message me if: you are a woman (I am only interested in men), you are window shopping and want a pen pal (I have plenty of friends and no time for this), or looking for a friend with benefits (my friend with benefits will be the man I spend the rest of my life with).

  • Shawana

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am looking for the right person that laughs at my goofiness, challenges my mind and sparks my soul. I'm not a complicated woman. I love the simple things in life. I enjoy having a beer out in the back yard at the end of the work day, taking a walk, watching movies. I don't do drama, and I can't take the "poor me, life will never get better" attitude in people. Life is good... even when it's bad. If you got this far in reading my profile, I want to say thank you; I always look at a guys profile before I even read an ***, so I appreciate that you took the time to see what I had to say! ;) NOW ***!!!! :) Best first date I have ever been on started with a brutal game of horse at a park on a beautiful day, and a walk in the park after. It should be a time to talk, gaze into each others eyes and see if there is chemistry in person.

  • Shamika

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

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