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Abegail, 43

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About Me

Hi there! Let me tell you a little about myself. I am divorced with three kids, who I love dearly and will always come first. But as they are getting older they need me less and less. I have always been a romantic and definitely believe that the initial attraction two people have for eachother can develop into so much more. I'm looking for someone to feel like that about.Listen I need to add this to my profile. First- I am 48 not 43, won't let me change it. I'm told I can pass for 10 years younger easily. I was on match and they kept matching with guys in their 50s and 60s. So I fudged it. Then started thinking...what if I meet the one? Don't want to start with a lie. Second- I workout every day, I do p90x. I'm 5'3" and weigh ***lbs. I don't want to sound shallow but physical attraction is key. I'm looking for a guy who takes pride in the way his body looks!I need my guy to be considerate, affectionate, loving and thoughtful.I know I'm asking a lot, but the truth is I don't want to settle. I'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't make me hot every time I think of him or see him walk into the room. I am a very passionate and affectionate woman.;I love the rain, especially, when it thunders!! It makes me all tingly! I wish I had a big front porch with a porch swing where I could sit and swing and watch the storm. My idea of a great first date would start with a trip to the beach. We could lay on a nice big blanket in the sand and talk, get to know eachother, go for a walk down the beach or maybe a swim. We could have lunch on the boardwalk and play a few games or go on some rides! If things are going well we could continue our date into the evening. Home to make dinner together and snuggle on the couch. Wow ... That's a really long date huh? Maybe just a cup of coffee! That could be a second or third date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Roni

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a no nonsense kinda gal. I work hard and play hard. I have a very demanding job in the live music business so that takes alot of my time therefore sending me to a dating website. I love my job and I am very good at it. I will date musicians but please do not message me thinking I will make you a rockstar. I will support your efforts in making the world a better place with live music but dont use me to get what you want. I am smarter than the above average woman and do not play games. I have been told that I am very intimidating to men (hard for me to believe). Maybe its the tattoos. I shoot straight from the hip. You will always know where you stand with me and what is going on. I am DRAMA free and tend to stay that way. I was married for a while and that was enough drama for my lifetime. Since I work in the live music business, I do not spend alot of times in other bars. I would rather go somewhere different to hang out and try something new. The dance clubs and dub step are really not my social scene, I appreciate all genres of music but would rather hang out in a different environment. Some things to consider before messaging me:* I am looking for someone to have a relationship with. Whether it be hanging out as friends or something more. If you are traveling through and need to get your rocks off or if your ole lady doesn't satisfy you, don't message me. I am not on this site to "hook up" or have a one night stand. I am a lady and I am solid. I am not a prude but I am not a whore. * Please do not send me pics of your junk. If I want to see it, I will ask for it in person. * I tend to attract younger guys. I think it is because I look nothing of my age nor act like it but all ages are welcome. As long as you are mature and can hold yourself in that manner, we will get along just fine. * Physical attraction is very important. Sorry but that is a fact of life. I like a guy who takes care of himself, athletic, and most of all has all his teeth (or at least the ones I can see) I take care of myself so I expect that with whom Im with. Happy fishin' fellas! Usually it would involve you coming to see me and what I do but if the timing is right we can jet off and do something extreme.

  • Debra

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    i am very shy till i get to know you..then i open up,i am a great person to be around,i have 3 children that are grown an 2 grandchildren...yes i am a grandma..lol,looking for that someone special,like every woman i want the hole damn fairy tail. an hope that eventually i can find a good man that will give me that dream.. i am very down to earth an i love my jeans an tees..if you are looking for a barbie doll,a super model or a beauty queen,you need to keep scrolling, if you want a one night stand...you wont get it here......so if we meet an still hit it off i still am not going home with you till i am ready if you are looking for a real woman that i am..if you are the jealousy type i don't want you...... i be damn if i am going to have to tell you every time my phone goes off who it is....i have a lot of mail friends..an yes i do pick an cut up with them... an if they were more than friends i wouldn't be on here...an if you are just looking for a friend me to i am new to this area an would love to meet new friends!!!!! always nice to be able to meet a friend for a drink an see how there week has been...i want to start off as friends first an see what grows from there....an if it grows i want passion,i want to feel when we kiss we just cant get close enough,an want to crawl into each others soul,...if you are afraid of commitment an afraid of a relationship,you may not want to meet me lol so please don't waist yr or my time... i like going out to listen to bands...have a few drinks an carry on with friends .i like cook outs,family an friends over...an just hanging at the house. i love the beach...camping..an fishing if you put on the bait an take the fish off..lol so really i just like casting it out an reeling it back in that's the fun part of fishing lol... i love to travel....i am who i am...an if you are still hung up on your ex...don't bother....i have to add i am a free bird...when i want to go some where i am going i dont have a problem telling you where i am going or who i am going to meet..rather its shopping with my bff or meeting the girls from work for a drink.. the same with you.... lets face it we all need our space so we don't feel smothered...... an i wont be controlled sorry i have taken care of my self and my children alone most of my life an that's just how i am....Happy Fishing!!!!! maybe lunch,or dinner...or meet at the park an talk...

  • Shamika

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

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