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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there!! I wanted to see if there was a fish I could catch for me on here:) I like to go out and experience different things in life but I also like staying home and relaxing sometimes too. I like to travel and see new places and visit different areas. I am busy with work and going places with my friends but it would be nice to find a special someone to be a part of my life but I'm happy either way:) I like a jealous crazy ex wife and I love drama and playing games!! hehe jk! I am getting a kick out of all these profiles that feel the need to say that they are not looking for that in their lives!! I am not either but I guess I felt it went without saying!! So put me down for not wanting drama and playing games!! Oh and I don't like bee stings and being treated bad -just so you know! lol! Coffee is usually a good first encounter

  • Veronica

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Thanks for taking the time to read this.......I am a very genuine down to earth, happy person. I can be quite goofy at times. I love the outdoors, whether I'm doing yard work, hiking, biking, boating, camping, cooking out with friends/family, or riding four wheelers.... Its all good. I love sports too, football is my favorite, and baseball is not far behind. I'm content and a bit independent, but not so much that I wouldn't welcome having that special someone in my life. I don't have children, but enjoy having them around, and would gladly accept and welcome yours into my life. If you think we have some things in common,cast your line, you might just hook me......MJ Something very casual so we can talk and get to know each other without added pressure.

  • Raegan

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a divorced Mom of two young adults ***and 13), who just recently ended a subsequent long term relationship. The kids are getting older and doing their own things, it's time to be me! I'm a little sarcastic n tend to need a filter, but I'm honest, loyal, and hardworking. I appreciate those same qualities in my partner. I'd like to say I can be funny, but I've noticed lately, I'm the only one laughing at myself. Ha! I actually quit smoking a year ago, cold turkey, but I put occasionally on my profile, mainly bc from time to time, the urge is still there. At the same time, I'm not now suddenly anti-smoker advocate. If you smoke, I can tolerate it, if you don't, that's good for me too. So yes, at the moment I'm overweight. I admit it n I dont like it. Cant say it's easy working fulltime, caring for home and children and supporting their activities. Quit my second job ***yrs ago after 5 years and feeling brain dead. My needs kind if took backseat. Maybe I shouldn't have quit smoking lol. I'm open to someone caring for me for a change. Really? Who knows, but something low key, coffee, drinks, somewhere to talk and see if there are any sparks!I don't fish, but boats are cool. I don't own a Harley (not anymore that is), but I still have my own helmet n boots! Lol I like laying on the beach and reading a good book or listening to music, enjoying a frosty beverage and tiki bars! None of this should be construed as "I'm outdoorsy" yeah, bc I'm not. Not a camper, don't like bugs!

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