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Alyvia, 42

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About Me

I run marathons, try and keep up! This is the premise of my life. Everything I do is at a fast pace, except for dating, I like to take my time and really get to know the person. It's not how fast you do things; it's how much living you do while you are doing the things you love. I am an independent woman but would love to share my life and the future with the right person. I have a passion for sports and I find the perfect weekend in the fall, tailgating at a football game and cheering for my favorite team or jumping on a plane and exploring the world. I enjoy a good debate about politics, religion and money, but I am not confrontational. Just searching for someone to challenge me and make me want to be a smarter and more intellectual person. I have an appreciation for the arts and enjoy the theater. I am a performer in every sense of the word and my life is my stage. I like to describe my perfect match as someone that I would pick to be my best friend. He needs to be like an onion -once you peel away the outer layer (the facade) there are many layers underneath. The deeper you go to the core the better he gets. Family must be a priority, if not your own, the appreciation of anothers'. To be a good person to me means being able to do the right thing in an adverse situation. The most important thing in life is to find contentment with oneself. Knowing that where you are is where you are meant to be but never settling for what you have. Always striving to be more in life. NOT HAVE MORE! My parents have been married for 53 years and I have watched my father love, respect and appreciate my mother. I want a man who can do the same for me. Whoever the man is that steals my heart forever, will love me more than he loves himself. Total unconditional love! I'm pretty open to trying new things however, I've never been on a coffee date that wasn't awkward. The key to a first date is keeping it casual and simple in an environment where two people can be themselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ardith

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a hard working, diligent, honest and dependable woman. I am dedicated to my children and am so blessed to have such a wonderful crew. I feel it is important to keep God first in my life and that anyone I share my time with would have the same views regarding children and God. Additionally, I am looking for someone who shares the same active lifestyle and is interested in staying fit and healthy. Not interested in games, time is too precious to waste on them. Not interested in a high maintenance partner or someone who wants to be kept. Not interested in players or liars. Physical attraction is important. Tall (greater than 6') athletic and in shape are a must. Other than that, I am open minded. Outside of being a mom, I have a wide variety of activities I enjoy. I love pretty much any sport (playing not watching), especially if it is out side! I enjoy movies, art, cooking, reading chick books, yard work (yes, sick but true) In summary: working out, soccer, shoe shopping, any shopping, cooking, kyiaking, rock climbing, camping, movies, music, plays, opera, the ballet, hiking, football, basketball, hockey, pilates, yoga and a two time graduate of P90X... Would like to keep it real and simple. Good food is always appreciated, but open conversation and taking the time to listen and talk with someone (not about their ex)is more important.

  • Cecila

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok - After looking at many other profiles on this sight, I think that I need to add a little more information here. After going through a diviorce, I am back on the dating scene, and boy is it different than I remember it. I am 5'4" and have dark brown, curly hair that is a little past shoulder length. I have dark brown eyes and people tell me that I have a nice smile. I have two daughters, ages 18 and 16. They are my main priority. They are beautiful, smart, and funny. They are big supporters of me starting to date again.After a lot of reflecting and soul searching, I know that I want an attractive man in my life that is honest and can communicate. I'd like someone who wants to go out and have fun, possibly try new things, but can still be content with staying at home some nights, having a glass of wine, and watching a movie. I want someone who wants to be with ME and he shows that to me by the way he acts. I realize that this might not happen for a while, that's ok.During my free time I like to go shopping, read books, and hang out with friends and family. During the summer I love to spend time outside exercising and going to the pool. I am a middle/high school math/science teacher. I love listening to alternative rock and pop music. I think a great first date is meeting for dinner and drinks at a nice restaurant. Hopefully, we can get to know each other a little and if we feel like there is some chemistry, see each other again.

  • Jayne

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am starting over. Not hung up on my ex anymore and prefer not to talk about him. I work in retail so my schedule is constantly changing. Some weeks I am more available during the week than the weekend. My kids are in college but they do live with me when they are not in school.I want to find someone who has a great passion for life and is willing to try new adventures with someone.I am tired of being a homebody and want to experience all life has to offer. Something casual. Drinks and conversation to see if there is interest.

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