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Candis, 41
United States, Arizona, Benson

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About Me

Disclaimer: I do not date outside my race! It's not some kind of a racist view of mine. It is simply due to physical characteristics of a man I'm attracted to. And shallow me, I want to be attracted to my significant other. ;)PLEASE, TAKE THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE. I do think that it is important to find someone compatible and comparable! With a VERY RARE EXCEPTION, it's definitely going to be someone who has at least a baccalaureate degree! I am attractive, successful, outgoing, witty and at the same time passionate, affectionate, sweet and tender. I'm generally a happy gal, with a positive outlook on life. Drama-free, dependable, and and logical (!). Hopefully, you are too ;).I enjoy the fine things life has to offer. I am equally comfortable in a casual setting (BBQ, at home with a book, movie theater) and at a very fine upscale event. I am looking for someone who enjoys a healthy mixture of both and many things in-between. However, I should mention that sports is not my turf. I mean, I will go to a Blackhawks or Bulls game once in a while, but you will surely not find me at a baseball / football game. So it's safe to say if you are a sports fan spending most of your free time playing/watching/talking about sports, it's best to go on to the next profile. ;). Please, do the same if you are not looking for a potentially serious relationship and/or want to have children in the future!I've been fortunate to have a great family, a loving son (who's a teenager - nobody's perfect ;). Lol). I love my job and what i do.. I am looking for someone wonderful who is also content with who he is and where he is in life (not complacent though), someone who's willing to become a my confidant, lover, partner and friend. And most importantly, it has to be mutual. I'll stop here for now... It's not Christmas yet ;). Lol The short and long of it is: PROFESSIONAL, EDUCATED, TALL, ATTRACTIVE, INTELLIGENT, and CLASSY with a great sense of humor! If you can't say that you've got class, don't bother writing. It will not be a match! If you do, however, got the above, I would be delighted to have the opportunity to get to know you. Ultimately, it's the chemistry and attraction in addition to similar interests and lifestyle that determines if its a go or no go. I'm a mother to a 15 yo who will be a sophomore in HS next yr. Of course he comes first when it comes to attention and time availability. However, he's now older and I have a wonderful family very close by so I have great flexibility when it comes to dating. I would like to meet someone who also has time to devote to a relationship. A drink or a cup of coffee... for a no obligation setting where we can just casually meet and see if there are mutual interests. If sparks fly, then we could continue the evening someplace else. If not, no hard feelings if it's cut short :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Running / Jogging Chinese Archery Ice Hockey
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