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Abbie, 42

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About Me

Wow...you made it this far. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.I am self defined as restless and analytical. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. I work hard and like to play hard. I have 2 children who are the center of who I am. I enjoy many things and am willing to try anything once. I love to travel and am also looking for my next adventure.What’s your story? What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness.If you are looking for "intimate encounter" please move along to the next profile. First date….not sure!!! I am willing to entertain any reasonable offer.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harold

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am....Extroverted, a little high strung, generally happy, creative, punctual, loyal, independent, I'm both gregarious and a hermit, and I enjoy sarcasm. I love Science, UFC, MMA, Halloween, and the dark. I do not like large crowded places on major Holidays. I prefer cooler weather so my AC is my friend. I have tattoos but I do not always show them off. I'm a bit mysterious. I have great communication skills and that helps me in what I do for both work and my music. I like chatty people that have a lot to say about the world.*Game Free Zone*I like making people smile and laugh. People tell me I'm intelligent and funny but these are my dear friends so you can be the judge of that! Although, I don't like judgmental people. Especially hypocrites! Yuck! And perfect people make me sick. Oh wait, there's no such thing! Never mind. I digress...Religion: Science and totally serious about it but that does not mean I am not spiritual. Even Carl Sagan talked about spirituality. I just don't subscribe to the ideas you read about in the Bible or any controlled religion. I probably will not be a good match for you if you are religious. You don't have to agree with me, just having an opinion is a great thing!Someone asked me what I do to stay young looking and I replied, "Noxema!". (Still am who am I kidding?) Actually LAUGHTER, good diet (for most part), and exercise.My least favorite question people ask me on any dating site is, "how is this site working for you?". Obviously I'm still here so it hasn't worked yet and when it does you will know because I will no longer be on it. There, no need to ask now. Ha! I imagine we meet up at an agreed upon place and attempt to get to know each other avoiding small talk where by we find out if there's some chemistry. If we see fit we shall laugh our asses off and conjure up something devious to do that most likely will involve more laughter. What, you thought devious meant something naughty? Not so fast bro! haha Laughter feeds the soul!! Besides we both know you want to check and make sure I'm not some fatty who crops their pics strategically to make themselves look awesome. Actually I look like my pics so hopefully that's the case with you as well.I'm a Sociology student, a Musician (Singer/Songwriter), and I work at a Design Company. I lift weights, do yoga, and I am very active. I would like someone who is into health & Fitness on some level but you do not need to be in perfect shape or be a fanatic. We are all getting older and being shallow is not my thing. I'm just conscious and want someone who can keep up with me. I'm not LA skinny, I'm more of a buffed chick. Like I said, I mainly lift weights. I work hard and play hard but I am also responsible. If you're not too clingy and you're emotionally available send me a message. I am looking for a relationship but like those things to happen naturally. Let's see if we have a connection first.I'm gonna be totally honest here and apologize in advance if I delete your message without reading it or whatever. I am a busy person and I log on here frequently but I don't always have time to respond. Especially if I don't think we would be a good match. Chances are you are really cool but not for me. I wish you the very best. I'm wondering who's going to inspire me to delete this profile......

  • Garnette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a long-lasting relationship. Not dating around, not multiple guys on the hook, not a hook-up. I want a connection, chemistry and compatibility in one relationship. I really want to find someone who is somewhere close to the stage of life I’m in (which, after plenty of dates with plenty of good guys of various ages I’ve come to see is related to age…lol…duh!) Hence the profile rewrite.I have to admit I’m a little hung up on age, but only because I work hard to stay fit and current and I’ve found that a lot of people (men and women) close to my age have sort of given up. I’m aging and it shows, but that’s not a free pass to quit caring about my health and appearance. I feel good about who I am right now. I’d like a similar attitude in my partner. You don’t have to be a triathlete, just practice healthy living habits.Both my kids are still living with me. My daughter is 20 and my son is 15. So, I’m still very committed to being a good mom, (and I find it really attractive if you’re into being a dad) but as they’ve gotten older I find myself with more time available to develop a social life…yay! :) I just rewarded myself with a birthday vacation in Vegas and loved it! (Posted some pics to my profile.) I want to do more traveling, but have always felt like the kids or the home should come first. I see that changing a lot in the next few years. I say this so you know I have time for you and that I want to make room in my life for the right man. I realize I can’t get a complete picture of who you are from a few paragraphs and some pictures, but I’m probably not going to respond to a guy who only posts one pic and doesn’t take the time to write more than, “Hit me up if you wanna know the rest.” C’mon…you have to at least try!There’s a lot more to me than what I’ve written here so please don’t think you know me just yet. If after reading my profile you think we are on the same page, please reach out. I promise not to be rude or stupid...unless you are…and even then, probably not. Lol. Thanks for reading. I think the first date is actually the second date. I mean, really, the first time you get together it's usually for coffee or a drink. Does that count? Well, maybe if it lasts longer than an hour or you kiss each other goodbye. I think a date is when you actually make a plan to do something together...like take a drive with no destination on a misty autumn morning when the sun is still trying to break through with a hot mocha in my hand, music in my ears, my hand on my guys thigh. No talking, just breathing it all in. You in?

  • Ingeborg

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Everything has to start somewhere, right? I'm terrible at making this sound anything like me (because I'm so much more awesome in real life... lol), and I'm pretty sure every profile on here says just about the same thing... but here it goes....I like to have fun doing anything, everything or nothing at all. I'm sarcastic, sassy and sometimes a handful, so you better have a sense of humor :)I'm laid back, easy going, friendly, flirty and fun... random people talk to me a LOT... I make friends easily, love the ones I have, and would do anything for them.I have a big dog, 2 cats and a 10 year old. My house is always in some sort of disarray.I am ocd on weird random things. (like folding towels... lol)I'm not into drama.I hate shopping.Kids, animals and parents love me.I enjoy the little things in life and find beauty in the small things that surround us every day.I'm sort of a tomboy... I own my own tools (and know how to use them)I'm creative, artistic and imaginative. I don't like board games.I love people with passion.... without passion, nothing progressesI'm looking for my best friend. Someone I'm comfortable being myself around.Cuddling, chatting and giggling about nothing thru all hours of the night is the best ;)Intelligence is sexy.I'm not a barfly... but when I do go, it's a night to remember!There's a lot to me... and if you can figure me out, you're a keeper :PI'm always up to try something new... but some things I love; rollercoasters, fast cars, loud music, movies, concerts, all kinds of music (except country), and pretty much anything to do with the Arts. Music drives me. (Bonus points if you can guess who my favorite band is :P)Message me.. I promise I don't bite Somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other... people watching is always fun :)

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