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Chaya, 42
United States, Utah, Hurricane

Offline, last seen Sat, 23 May 2026 13:44:23

About Me

I tried this site several years ago and didn't have much luck, nonetheless I've decided to give it another try...what could it hurt, right! My plan is to find a man that is searching for "one" and not "some."Where to begin....I'm a pretty laid back person with a witty, jokingly sarcastic sense of humor so not being too serious is a big thing for me. Don't worry, I can take it as well as I serve it. I am professional when the need calls for it. I enjoy going out, though staying in and just relaxing at home is fine too. I am pretty open minded and will try ALMOST anything at least once. I try to keep myself well rounded...I am family oriented, take care of myself and my looks, and can dress/act according to what the occassion calls for. As Ludacris says, "Lady in the streets but...", well if you know Ludacris' lyrics you know what I'm saying....if not, there's always Google, lol. I listen to a variety of music but lean towards R&B and Hip-hop...as you can tell by the Luda quote. I am independent but not to the point where I don't want a man. Please realize though, I don't need a man to make me who I am...the RIGHT man will only enhance what I already have to offer. I'm a single mother of 3. I have pretty much raised my children and am not looking to start that process over...I had my children when I was young so it's all about ME now...lol. I do not mind dating a man that has children although I do prefer for them to be a little older. Please, no drama or games. I have had my share and am full, thank you. Just be up-front with your intentions/wants/needs and let ME make the decision if I am "ok" with them and I will give you the same courtesy and respect. (In other words, don't assume...one way or the other...for me) I am looking to date a man with the potential for a serious relationship. If you think you could be that candidate, drop me a message. Good luck "fishing"!!!**Need to add...I have Tattoos...so if that is not you're thing then we will not mix well.** Meet at a coffe shop or somewhere casual where we can have a conversation and see if there is compatability and chemistry....they go hand in hand with a relationship....one or the other doesn't. If further explanation is needed, well.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Reggae Canadian Italian Korean Fantasy Volleyball
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