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Shamika, 43

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About Me

Like a majority of people on here, I hope, I certainly am not a mind or game player. I take my life very serious and I expect you to do the same. My profile, is me. I have a "wild" side, meaning I like to go out and have fun with the person or people that I am with. I don't sweat the small stuff nor do I worry about every little thing. Im a fun loving, caring and very giving person. Looking for friends to hang out with and do something with in my spare time but leave my options open to something more serious, if there is a click or something! lol I dont make alot of money but absolutely love what I do! Brings a smile to my face everyday!I work full time and have my son, Ian who is 12, 50% of the time with some flexibility. He is my priority, that will never change. He plays football, baseball, basketball, golfs and wrestles, so I have alot going on most of the time! He loves to fish and hunt! Im not high maintenance and do not require to have the best of the best, the way I was brought up and the way my kids will be brought up.Looking for someone that is not jealous, insecure or obsessive. Need to stand on your own two feet and be independent. That's important to me.Would like someone that will see a country concert on a Friday night and a rock concert on a Saturday night! I like going to the area casinos and meet and chat with people, especially the "elders" . They are so cute.Im a huge Vikings fan and a Twins fan! Sitting down watching the games or going out on a Sunday afternoon is always fun too.Well best of wishes to you all! First date would probably meet for a drink or coffee. I love my coffee! lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jean

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just want to check out the site, see what is all about:) Im not to sure what im looking for I am sure im not looking to go out on a ton of dates, I like men my age or younger and that keep themselves in good shape, the gym is a very big part of my life. Im not big on sitting around and watching tv, but I do enjoy watching football:) I dont have a problem meeting people, so why am i on this? I tend to go out local with friends and that really limits who you meet.

  • Dara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

  • Dan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello, well i'm gonna start with, i'm honest, Sumtimes to honest, loyal & have respect. I have 3 children that i love & adore. They are my life & will always come first. I love being with my family & friends. I love to smile, laugh & have a good time.; motivated. Lol. I have a DRAMA free life & want to keep it that way. i am real as real can get. I also think that fakeness is a sickness. Jus say n...So with that b n said, move n on... I have ran into men who do nothing but BRAG about them self & what they can do, & yet show nothing. I'm not impressed. I'm not impressed with a "KNOW IT ALL" I'd rather with a man that is broke & real about his life then one that claims to have it all & fake about everything. Get the point? I'm not interested in a full-time drunk. Or addict. Sure i like beer, but not everyday, & i will never use the excuse, "well i was drunk" for my actions. I will always take responsibility for what I do and say. Lol know that one.... Well anyways now u know what i dislike.. Think n i'm gonna end this. If u would like to know more feel free to ask. & i will tell! Have a Great day! ;-) Light lunch may b dinner. Cup of coffee sumwhere.. Open for suggestions

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