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About Me

I am....Extroverted, a little high strung, generally happy, creative, punctual, loyal, independent, I'm both gregarious and a hermit, and I enjoy sarcasm. I love Science, UFC, MMA, Halloween, and the dark. I do not like large crowded places on major Holidays. I prefer cooler weather so my AC is my friend. I have tattoos but I do not always show them off. I'm a bit mysterious. I have great communication skills and that helps me in what I do for both work and my music. I like chatty people that have a lot to say about the world.*Game Free Zone*I like making people smile and laugh. People tell me I'm intelligent and funny but these are my dear friends so you can be the judge of that! Although, I don't like judgmental people. Especially hypocrites! Yuck! And perfect people make me sick. Oh wait, there's no such thing! Never mind. I digress...Religion: Science and totally serious about it but that does not mean I am not spiritual. Even Carl Sagan talked about spirituality. I just don't subscribe to the ideas you read about in the Bible or any controlled religion. I probably will not be a good match for you if you are religious. You don't have to agree with me, just having an opinion is a great thing!Someone asked me what I do to stay young looking and I replied, "Noxema!". (Still am who am I kidding?) Actually LAUGHTER, good diet (for most part), and exercise.My least favorite question people ask me on any dating site is, "how is this site working for you?". Obviously I'm still here so it hasn't worked yet and when it does you will know because I will no longer be on it. There, no need to ask now. Ha! I imagine we meet up at an agreed upon place and attempt to get to know each other avoiding small talk where by we find out if there's some chemistry. If we see fit we shall laugh our asses off and conjure up something devious to do that most likely will involve more laughter. What, you thought devious meant something naughty? Not so fast bro! haha Laughter feeds the soul!! Besides we both know you want to check and make sure I'm not some fatty who crops their pics strategically to make themselves look awesome. Actually I look like my pics so hopefully that's the case with you as well.I'm a Sociology student, a Musician (Singer/Songwriter), and I work at a Design Company. I lift weights, do yoga, and I am very active. I would like someone who is into health & Fitness on some level but you do not need to be in perfect shape or be a fanatic. We are all getting older and being shallow is not my thing. I'm just conscious and want someone who can keep up with me. I'm not LA skinny, I'm more of a buffed chick. Like I said, I mainly lift weights. I work hard and play hard but I am also responsible. If you're not too clingy and you're emotionally available send me a message. I am looking for a relationship but like those things to happen naturally. Let's see if we have a connection first.I'm gonna be totally honest here and apologize in advance if I delete your message without reading it or whatever. I am a busy person and I log on here frequently but I don't always have time to respond. Especially if I don't think we would be a good match. Chances are you are really cool but not for me. I wish you the very best. I'm wondering who's going to inspire me to delete this profile......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Jestine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an easy-going, down-to-earth, fun gal. I love life and seeing what each day brings. I am determined to have fun in every situation, and my friends enjoy coming along for the ride. I can be goofy, but know when and how to be serious. I enjoy the simple things in life, and like the adventure of new experiences. I make it a point to have fun every day. My friends would describe me as smart, fun, and dependable--the person they can always turn to, knowing I will help them however and whenever they need it. I can be shy in new situations, but warm up pretty quickly. I love all kinds of animals and hate to see suffering. I am open-minded and non-judgemental, and I like to learn at every opportunity. I am loyal, and would never betray someone I care about. I have goals in life, but know how to be content in the present. I love to laugh, and am good at laughing at myself.I am looking for someone who takes life as it comes and enjoys the journey. Someone who knows how to find happiness and fun in most every situation. I love learning, and would like someone who can share their experiences and lessons with me, and with whom I can share mine. I am looking for someone adventurous, who wants to see what life has to offer. I appreciate a person with ambition, as long as they are able to be happy in the present. I hope to find someone loyal, someone who I can trust completely. I like people who don't take themselves too seriously, and don't let the little things in life get them down. I think a good conversation is a great way to spend some time, so that ability is a plus. Most of all, I am looking for a nice guy, someone honset, sincere, and with a good heart. Is that you? One more little thing; I am a woman of my word. If I say I am going to do something, I do it. If I say I am going to be somewhere or call at a particular day or time, I will. I think to act otherwise is disrespectful. I'm looking for a man of his word. I understand that things come up and life can get in the way on occasion, as long as unreliability isn't a habit or way of life. A few more things; I am 5'10" barefoot, and I usually wear heels, so I am at least 6' tall in public. My stated age is correct. I have consistently been told I don't look my age. I know I don't feel my age (I feel like I'm about 30). And while I am a very responsible person and can be serious when necessary, I prefer not to act my age (or at least how most people believe someone my age should act). Life is to have fun, and I intend to do that every step of the way. :) Also, if you do illegal drugs (and, yes, "420" is an illegal drug) please don't waste my time or yours by contacting me; because of my profession I can't be around that, and because of my beliefs (I have lost innocent friends to those situations) I refuse to be around someone who uses them. Intelligence is a wonderful thing, and I am aware that many intelligent people don't have a great deal of formal education. However, if you don't know the difference between "it's" and its", "their" "they're" and "there", "too", "to" and "two", or "women" and "woman" (yes, it seems men often make that mistake), or are unaware/unable to use the shift key or punctuation on their keyboard, I'm not interested; the way a person presents themself in writing (or typing, as with this online dating thing) speaks much about their intelligence and their respect for the english language. And if you're not interested in anything serious--and I understand these things can take time, but eventually develop--please don't waste our time; I hope to find someone to share my life with in a meaningful manner and am not interested in spending precious time (I believe time is the most precious thing in life) with someone who is only looking for something casual (I don't believe in casual relationships or casual sex--I'd rather spend my time alone). And, if you have children, that's wonderful, but I may not be the woman for you; I understand that children should come first in their parent's life, but I don't have any, and am not willing--at this point--to be a low priority in my partner's life. I'm more than happy to make my partner a major priority in my life and desire the same in return.I am someone who will jump into a situation or relationship with both feet. I am not a serial dater and don't play games. If you are someone who plays around or is looking for something casual, please look elsewhere. I have run into too many players claiming to be nice guys, and don't want to go through that again. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am not shy about showing my feelings. I am open and ready for that truly wonderful guy to come into my life. I am looking for my one great love to spend the rest of my life with. The usual coffee meeting just seems too much like an interview or audition. Happy hour, a glass of wine, lunch, dinner, just seem like better opportunities to get to know someone.

  • Aliza

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very outgoing person who is kept very busy with my children. I am very happy with my career and my family. I don't need someone to take care of me but would like to be able to share my life with someone. I love to snuggle, to hold hands, to kiss. If a man can treat me right he will have my heart forever. I love to do little things to show how much someone means to me. I am looking for someone who is serious about finding a meaningful relationship. I have no time for anything less. I think a first date depends on the two people. I am pretty easy going. I think a sports bar though is my kind of thing.

  • Allissa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Bonjour ! Je suis une femme active et énergique . Je fait beaucoup de vélo et de la randonnée . Mon entourage me décrive comme étant une personne généreuse ,souriante , drôle , intélligente et perspicace . Je profite du moment présent et laisse le passé pour l´avenir . Je t´invite a chatter avec moi pour me connaitre davantage . . un café , un activité sportive où bien une marche .

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