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About Me

I am....Extroverted, a little high strung, generally happy, creative, punctual, loyal, independent, I'm both gregarious and a hermit, and I enjoy sarcasm. I love Science, UFC, MMA, Halloween, and the dark. I do not like large crowded places on major Holidays. I prefer cooler weather so my AC is my friend. I have tattoos but I do not always show them off. I'm a bit mysterious. I have great communication skills and that helps me in what I do for both work and my music. I like chatty people that have a lot to say about the world.*Game Free Zone*I like making people smile and laugh. People tell me I'm intelligent and funny but these are my dear friends so you can be the judge of that! Although, I don't like judgmental people. Especially hypocrites! Yuck! And perfect people make me sick. Oh wait, there's no such thing! Never mind. I digress...Religion: Science and totally serious about it but that does not mean I am not spiritual. Even Carl Sagan talked about spirituality. I just don't subscribe to the ideas you read about in the Bible or any controlled religion. I probably will not be a good match for you if you are religious. You don't have to agree with me, just having an opinion is a great thing!Someone asked me what I do to stay young looking and I replied, "Noxema!". (Still am who am I kidding?) Actually LAUGHTER, good diet (for most part), and exercise.My least favorite question people ask me on any dating site is, "how is this site working for you?". Obviously I'm still here so it hasn't worked yet and when it does you will know because I will no longer be on it. There, no need to ask now. Ha! I imagine we meet up at an agreed upon place and attempt to get to know each other avoiding small talk where by we find out if there's some chemistry. If we see fit we shall laugh our asses off and conjure up something devious to do that most likely will involve more laughter. What, you thought devious meant something naughty? Not so fast bro! haha Laughter feeds the soul!! Besides we both know you want to check and make sure I'm not some fatty who crops their pics strategically to make themselves look awesome. Actually I look like my pics so hopefully that's the case with you as well.I'm a Sociology student, a Musician (Singer/Songwriter), and I work at a Design Company. I lift weights, do yoga, and I am very active. I would like someone who is into health & Fitness on some level but you do not need to be in perfect shape or be a fanatic. We are all getting older and being shallow is not my thing. I'm just conscious and want someone who can keep up with me. I'm not LA skinny, I'm more of a buffed chick. Like I said, I mainly lift weights. I work hard and play hard but I am also responsible. If you're not too clingy and you're emotionally available send me a message. I am looking for a relationship but like those things to happen naturally. Let's see if we have a connection first.I'm gonna be totally honest here and apologize in advance if I delete your message without reading it or whatever. I am a busy person and I log on here frequently but I don't always have time to respond. Especially if I don't think we would be a good match. Chances are you are really cool but not for me. I wish you the very best. I'm wondering who's going to inspire me to delete this profile......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Katey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an intelligent, fun, adventurous and playful woman. Not afraid to be alone but would prefer to have someone that I can be close to and share my thoughts and experiences with. I'm not sure exactly if I am looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with that has the same interests. Someone I can relax with, laugh with, have fun with, and simply enjoy life. Mostly I am looking for someone I can be myself with. If I can find someone out here like that then committing myself to that someone would come naturally. I have a tough job that can be very stressful and demanding at times and downtime with alot of fun and laughing is a must for me. I enjoy outdoor activities but I also love staying in. In my opinion cooking dinner together with a person you care about and snuggling up on the couch with a good movie is just as fun, if not more, than going out. I LOVE music with a passion (just about everything except newer rap music) and can honestly say that if I had the choice to be blind or deaf (God Forbid!) I would pick being blind over being deaf any day. I have to have music in my life and feel that I would probably go crazy without it. There is nothing like getting in your car and turning up the radio to a favorite song and singing along at the top of your lungs after a bad day at work. It just *** my mood and makes me feel better. I could live without my television. I could NOT live without my radio! LOL. I also love to read and read anything from science fiction, horror, suspense, fiction, biographies, history, and the paranormal. I have many favorite authors from all types of genres. I love to paint (oils are okay but I prefer acrylics), but I haven't had much time for it lately. I am also trying to teach myself how to play guitar (it's been a painful experience so far...LOL.) I love the outdoors especially in the fall season. I love going to the park. I love bird watching and have several bird feeders around my house. I guess that's something that I do because it reminds me of my Mother. I love going to plays, the ballet, the symphony, art and history museums (the side of me that loves culture). But I also love going to live concerts (especially harder rock) and have been to so many I have lost count (the side of me that loves the unrefined), singing karaoke with my girlfriends, going to movies, etc.. I try to spend as much time as I can with them. And I also love going to the zoo.As I said, I have a tough job but I am totally in love with it. It is actually something that happened by accident. I couldn't have imagined myself doing it but now that I am I couldn't imagine myself doing anything else! I prefer to think that I am unique. I am not looking to trap anyone, smother anyone, or make them feel like they are accountable to me for every minute outside of my presence. I have my own likes and dislikes, my own interests. My world will not revolve around you as yours should not revolve around me. I believe you should not become so wrapped up in someone else that you forget that you are your own person and have your own identity. I believe in sharing your life and experiences with someone, not living your life and experiences through someone. In having your own interests and keeping your own identity, I believe you have more to share and offer to a relationship. I would like to say that although I believe it's important to have your own interests, and even healthy to spend time away from each other, spending time with the person I care about is also important to me. I am a very loyal person. When I care about something I care deeply. And when I love someone I love deeply. I am a very "touchy feely" type of person. I'm not afraid to show physical affection. I love to touch, hug, kiss, hold hands...So the person I am looking for would naturally have to feel comfortable with that and would not be afraid to initiate physical affection on their own. I'm looking for someone who is not afraid to talk. Good conversation is important. I know in life you can't get eveything you want but I would love to find someone who wants to share themselves such as their thoughts, feelings and life experiences. This is what makes life interesting and what makes you who you are. I can be opinionated and I am not afraid to voice it at times. Of course I know there is a right time and a wrong time and also a right way and a wrong way to express it. I'm not rude or callous and would never say or do anything to hurt someone intentionally. I would hope for the same thing in the person I am looking for. Going to the zoo would probably be my first choice, although I have NEVER been able to get someone to take me to the zoo as an actual date. LOL. My second choice would probably be a picnic and maybe a walk in the park.

  • Kimiko

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like spending time with my children and going to their games. I enjoy spending time at home by our pool hanging out in the summer, but also enjoy going out at times grabbing a bite to eat, havin a few drinks and listening to a band. I enjoy laughing, having fun, and spending time with people I care about. I just need to find that special someone to love and to love me back.

  • Barb

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a fun loving,honest single mom of one beautiful daughter. I like weekend trips, to staying home relaxing . I love to decorate. I'm pretty socialable and have a great circle of friends, easy to get along with. I'm open to trying new things. What I'm looking for is an attractive, strong, honest man with great character. Someone to share good times and create special memories with. I'm interested in meeting someone that wants to start out as friends. Looking for my best friend and partner in crime. Creating a bond and see where it goes.I like all music except Rap.Also, I'm not here to date 10 different men at a time. I'd much rather meet one man to spend time with, get to know and hopefully grow a friendship with the possibility of something long-term. Not into the bar scene. Somewhere simple were we both feel comfortable.

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