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Tamson, 45

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About Me

Hi.. I'm divorced..no baggage.. easy going.. self sufficient.. independent and would like to just find a nice guy to hang out with and see what happens. Nothing real serious to start but someone who is open to a relationship down the road. I don't understand why this dating thing has to be so hard. Just be real and ready to meet. I don't want to spend endless hours of texting and talking on the phone. I want to get out and have some fun!I enjoy working in my yard, hanging out with friends, BBQing and having a few beers, playing cards, an evening out or just an evening in with a good movie and good company. I own my home and work full time and enjoy what I do.So if I sound like someone you'd like to get to know *** let's talk and see what happens. And guys, if you're looking for a hookup I'm not that girl. So please I don't want to see pictures of your penis or your abs or your ass.. would rather save that for in person with someone who takes life a little more serious. :) Somewhere quiet, have a beer or coffee.. talk and see if there is any spark. No pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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First a Question:Why are men so infatuated with coming up with ideas to get women into bed???Writing that their interests are Cuddling and Snuggling, Just very weird for a man to write that in a profile to women they've never met??If you are looking for a female to "party" with or to have "one nightstands".... ***> its best you hit back button and click on another....If you have "no commitment or casual dating" written in your profile....We're not going to be a good match..... Just *** you have/or had a CRIMINAL HISTORY OR A DRUG PROBLEM ***> IM NOT INTERESTED.ALSO... I really don't think this is too much to ask.....NO weirdos, NO serial daters, NO MENTAL DISTURBANCE, NO PERVERTS, NO Fakes, NO Pretenders, NO PLAYERS NO Anger Management( That means ... I don't argue period), NO liars, No CHEATERS, No Complainers or being negative)......OR men that WHINE....... if I dont respond to your message... that simply means Im not interested and I dont want to waste either partys time....... And being interested DOESN'T mean one worded responses ..... I'm not going to carry the conversation while you sit back and do nothing .... If the conversation doesn't pick up.... that means your not interested and Ill not waste my time. (( delete )).**I do not go to bars, that's not my idea of fun. If you frequent these types of establishments were probably not a good match....:/IF YOU MAKE UP EXCUSES OF ANY KIND...NOT INTERESTED. I'm not interested in "sarcastic or vulgar talk". Most of the men on here are very nice....but recently ...it seems like I have to touch base on this ..... :/Looking for a professional guy....outdoors .....that keeps in shape for the most part....Not trying to be mean but.....***you know what I mean......eating healthy.... 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((eye brow raised))..... then maybe with mutual interest....A meet and greet at some point. But......If you dont want to put in any EFFORT...... and you dont have the TIME....... because you are too BUSY....... for whatever reason.... then whats the point? Well, WHY ARE YOU HERE? Or ...ummmmmmmm.....Then theres where the serial dater vibe comes in..... Or hiding the fact you are secretly married? Eh? And that has happened....:/Ok....If you have gotten this far, then that means you are possibly interested..... I am looking for a man that has a heart of Gold....just a GOOD guy :) Morals, sweet, respectful, handsome, you have to be MASCULINE ( not sissy ) and awesome personality....with of course the***> attraction and chemistry, great attitude, positive, caring, respects the law.....LETS TALK ABOUT "THE TEXTING" :I DO NOT LIKE TO TEXT, ok.... 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A text can be read ... so many different *** so you have survived the novel.... :)Thank you for reading and for being patient.About me:Im a caring person with a big heart, that cares more about others....than myself.Im slightly old fashioned, that still believes in morals and will hold out for that missing piece in my life.....I know we are not all perfect but I do believe there is a person for everyone.... Im looking for someone who is been out of a relationship or been divorced for a while.... no recent divorces or relationship issues where your thinking about returning..... I don't want any drama. I have a very calm and relaxing world....I love being outdoors, any adventure.Love me some Starbucks Chocolate is the cure for allMusic is relaxing and a great way to express yourself..... meet over coffee

  • Chryssa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very down to earth person that enjoys meeting new people and making new friends. I am honest, compassionate,affectionate,loyal and lots more. I enjoy outdoor fun, including fishing and just enjoying time with people I care about. I am not perfect by any means but do my best in everything I do. I enjoy Country music..big Toby Keith fan!! I love 80's rock and still listen to it loud..lol I enjoy watching football..Cowboys fan :) I was raised in a small town, so I enjoy the simple things in life..I love spending time with family, they are the most important to me. I enjoy spending time with friends and having fun just relaxing. I am looking to meet someone that is honest, not shallow, and cares about others..I enjoy talking and getting to know someone and like to have good conversation.. I can be sarcastic at times, but all in fun..I would like to get to know someone & date them, if we are compatible & enjoy others company, It could possibly be something long term. If you want to know more just ask me :) Somewhere comfortable for both people.

  • Theresia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Right now I am just looking to meet a friend who can become my best friend and my potential mate. I don't want to rush into anything! Let's just go out and get to know each other. Do fun activities and have a good time. Does that even exist any more? Is there still a man out there that knows how to treat a woman like a real lady?? Hopefully you are someone who likes to let loose and just have a good time laughing and having fun with your special person. No drama filled men please. If you are not happy with yourself in life, you will not be happy with someone else. Please have your sh*t together. :-)Ideally looking to find my best friend, SWM. Someone I can trust and tell all of my secrets too. Someone to laugh with, to share the good and bad times together. Some who is a good communicator, affectionate and not cold hearted. I am a very affectionate person and definitely need that in my partner too! kissing, holding hands, I love that and am all for that in public too. Nothing wrong with showing the world love *** hate! :-)If you are full of tattoos sorry that's not for me. Please white males only. I really am turned off by the hairy guys. lol Sorry, I am attracted to a man who is well groomed and I'm not crazy about facial hair. VERY IMPORTANT, if you own a motorcycle please do not message me! Sorry I love looking and listening to them but that is about all!!!!! You should have a car though. I don't care what kind, as long as it gets you from point A to point B. lol Also if you still need to be out with the guys then you are really not ready to find your soul mate. I have spent the first part of my life alone quite a bit and now want to find someone that wants to be with me and do things with me and not the boys. :-) If you can't communicate in English by writing or speaking fluently, then I am not interested. I am perfectly bilingual though.P.S. If you send a message and I see that we are not compatible, I will not respond to you. Tired of angry men sending nasty messages if I don't want to chat wth them. If on your profile where it says "do you want children" you put "Prefer not to say or NO", I will defnitely NOT answer you. Please stop wasting your time with one liner messages or *** Rest assured you are not getting my attention like that. To the black men out there, sorry but I can't change what I'm attracted to and you guys are not one of them. Going for a coffee to talk.

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