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About Me

I am a character who can play plenty of roles before the week is through. During the week, I manage a sales help desk at a successful Silicon Valley company. I work with fabulous people, and enjoy my job, but at the end of the day, I don't aspire to be identified by my career. Life is so much more than what I do to make money. If I can make a friend laugh, accomplish a personal goal, get to the gym, all while balancing a plate on my head, then it's a good day.What I'm looking for (or more grammatically correct, For what am I looking? hee hee) Oh, the usual: a dependable, stable guy who isn't nuts, who is bright and articulate and funny, spiritual and kind, and who can balance all aspects of his life while enjoying it at the same time. I love to joke, kid around, gently mock and generally spar with words, so if he's quiet and withdrawn, it won't be much of a match. I enjoy being outdoors, being active, but also enjoy that cuddle time on the couch. I don't have to do everything with someone I'm dating, but I do need to feel there's a significant place in his life for me. If he loves to travel, cook, hike, can string sentences together, all while balancing a plate on his head, then there's potential for a relationship. :-)An added note: If you are interested in meeting me, I'd ask that you actually write me to tell me that. I'm not really fond of the "meet me" section; it so lacks any kind of effort. C'mon, type me a sentence--I dare you! I promise not to correct your grammar...this time. ;-) I'm going to give a very generic but honest answer: over coffee to chat and get to know one another. We'll know pretty quickly if there are sparks and can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vi

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ! Well let's see, I'm really cool chic, always playing and joking around. I like to make people laugh, smile. Life's to short, love living it... Outdoors kinda girl.. Love the water, boating,camping, mud ridding ,4wheeler ridding, anything outdoors I'm down with!! Don't hang out in bar rooms much at all! I'd rather hang out w/close friends & family. bon fires, great friends/ family, and good old fun, PRICELESS!!!!!Family is very important to me. My kids come first even though their grown, their still my babies! ! I have a beautiful granddaughter that is my world, I spend as much time with her as possible. So if you do not have a big heart and are not kid friendly than you should probably stop reading now..That bout sums it up... If your looking for laid back, fun, loving, outgoing, real,down sexy kwel ass chic to hang out with, then that's me'!!PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND IF:Ur currently in between jobsLive with parents/grandparents MarriedHave girlfriendCan't afford to pay attentionDrama queen Mamas boyStalkerVehicle in shopNo Scrubs Please,, mature, established, real men only !!!!!! I have no time for dumbsh*t and have no tolerance for stupidity!!!!I am involved in the AA community, so if your a drunk or dope head, disregard everything you just read!!! Thank you come again!!! Depends on the person I'm out with, I guess...

  • Carly

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have a dynamic unique personality, quirky sense of humor with a great laugh and very spontaneous. An attraction must start in the mind. Now for my serious side: I am currently a full time student obtaining a Master's Degree in Sociology & Law. My GPA is 4.0, International Honour Society, Dean's List, & International Scholar Laureate. School is my job right now & it is extremely important to me.My body is full figured & voluptuous, not stick like. If you're attracted to a boy's body, move on please. Somewhere out there is a great guy who will want to introduce me to new things. The man I would like to meet is confident, self assured, has a good sense of humor & is financially secure. Physically I'm attracted to tall, dark, handsome & well built. However, I have dated outside my 'type' simply because chemistry doesn't always acknowledge a type.I like incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent minds for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. Someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor.No stranger exhibitionism, nude photo's, or sex chats, you're wasting your time, it'll be *** CLEAN & DISEASE FREE

  • Janell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    hello i am Shelli. I.m old tired of being alone looking for that Mr. someone to put up with me. i am a wonderful person. love talking.trying new things,dancing and just darn right out fun.i love to laugh and have fun but, know when to be serious. i work full time you could say work master. i love to try and learn new things always have my mind open to everything. i own my own truck and home so i am not looking for a supporter just a friend and what comes along with that time can tell. i am very honest sometimes it gets me in trouble but, telling fibs takes to much time and thought i rather move on and focus on what is in the future. if you like i would love to hear from you just drop me a line anytime.look forward to meeting you and seeing where this might go:). dancingHow I picture my 1st date: Well, it could go many ways actually.... We could go out to eat, go see a movie, or go for a walk, maybe have a drink or 2 somewhere as long as we get time to sit down & relax as we talk about ourselves. I would like to learn about you on our 1st date. I don't want to jump into anything quickly unless fate takes it that way..... It's like walking into a dark room blindfolded. maybe fun BUT You never know what to expect... :)

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