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Zena, 41

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About Me

I am a character who can play plenty of roles before the week is through. During the week, I manage a sales help desk at a successful Silicon Valley company. I work with fabulous people, and enjoy my job, but at the end of the day, I don't aspire to be identified by my career. Life is so much more than what I do to make money. If I can make a friend laugh, accomplish a personal goal, get to the gym, all while balancing a plate on my head, then it's a good day.What I'm looking for (or more grammatically correct, For what am I looking? hee hee) Oh, the usual: a dependable, stable guy who isn't nuts, who is bright and articulate and funny, spiritual and kind, and who can balance all aspects of his life while enjoying it at the same time. I love to joke, kid around, gently mock and generally spar with words, so if he's quiet and withdrawn, it won't be much of a match. I enjoy being outdoors, being active, but also enjoy that cuddle time on the couch. I don't have to do everything with someone I'm dating, but I do need to feel there's a significant place in his life for me. If he loves to travel, cook, hike, can string sentences together, all while balancing a plate on his head, then there's potential for a relationship. :-)An added note: If you are interested in meeting me, I'd ask that you actually write me to tell me that. I'm not really fond of the "meet me" section; it so lacks any kind of effort. C'mon, type me a sentence--I dare you! I promise not to correct your grammar...this time. ;-) I'm going to give a very generic but honest answer: over coffee to chat and get to know one another. We'll know pretty quickly if there are sparks and can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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