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Joel, 42

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About Me

I love camping, and fishing, the beach and spending time with family and my closest friends. I also enjoy many sports, watching movies, reading and board games.Life has been interesting to say the least, but all of it is experience that makes us who we are.I am a church going woman and I love my church. My beliefs are strong, and although I am not perfect by any means, I daily strive to better myself. I will ONLY date a man that is committed to God, puts Him first and attends church regularly.My kids are my life and I want to find someone who isn't afraid to be around them. I have 5 but 3 at home. I also have grand children, so this must not be an issue either. I am a very family oriented person.I am a little "fluffy" around the edges, as my kids say, but I am still active and always looking to get things into better shape, and I love being outdoors.I am looking for someone who can be a friend first and foremost. I would like to find someone who isn't afraid to be himself. Someone who can show his true character and still be an honorable person. Somone who can be real. Coffee is always a nice start. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jenessa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've learned to appreciate good people, avoid drama, enjoy the moment you're in :) I’m attracted to an active, down to earth guy who likes to get out and enjoy life :)Me ~ outgoing, grounded, logical, creative, passionate, fun, feisty, considerate. I appreciate people for being goodhearted, their smarts, goals, thinking outside the box, a willingness to take chances in life, optimistic attitudes, and preferring an active and productive lifestyle rather than being a couch potato on a gorgeous day. I'm attracted to a confident personality, a man with opinions, ideas, can make a plan, is communicative, comfortable in the kitchen and handy stuff around the house, as I am :) I definitely enjoy life and see the positive in things, and appreciate a man with an equally positive outlook :)I'd like to meet just one good guy who I click with, and can enjoy a fun day & good conversation with. We make a fun team, we can talk and are real friends, do fun outdoors stuff, go for a drive up the coast, stay in with a good movie, cook yummy meals together, share fun times with our friends, have weekend bbqs and dinner parties. I’m loyal, passionate, and when I like a guy, I’m affectionate and like to do little things letting him know I’m thinking about him. I think the key to a healthy relationship is expressing mutual respect, compromise, open conversation, and both be willing to put some effort into making things work. If you think we have some interests or mind frame in common, let me know, I list a ton of interests here, and my mindframe about who I feel I click with. Do we share interests or values in common? For an idea of my values, you can take a look at my list of heroes. (If you know who these people are and what remarkable accomplishments they have done, that list is an insight to what I respect and admire.. not because he's an actor and racecar drive, but because he started a company who has donated hundreds of millions to charity, he's giving back to the community). In general, I think if people took the time to get to know each other (and to know themselves!) relationships would be healthier and happier. I prefer a healthy monogamous relationship rather than long term single :) I don't want to date forever, do you?!To everyone out there shy or hesitant to reach out to people here and in life's path... It's choice - not chance - that determines your destiny. true true :)Fyi who I don't feel I click with - super religious guys, men who don't like to get out and be active & adventurous (bike riding, trying new foods), nor big pot bellies and triple chins. An ideal first date would include the chance to talk, laugh, get to know each other :) These might be fun at some point:~Ice cream or gelato on a warm day :) ~Mojitos poolside ~Interesting beer or saké tasting~Comedy show; Art exhibit~Bowling or a water park for some good laughs :) ~A bike ride at the beach~A chill live band at a smaller venue ~Sushi; A bite to eat~Kayaking if we can find a place to go!

  • Abilene

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I just moved to Big Bear and i am enjoying living up on the mountain so far i have met a few sweet people. I like hiking and would love to get back to running again. I am very involved with my son and his activity he is my number one. I also think it would be very important to find someone that i would like to spend some qulity time with and he would also enjoy the same. No games, No lies. Just plane old honesty if that even really happens anymore..

  • Hulda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am very fun loving, honest, hard working REAL woman who loves life. I enjoy doing martial arts with my son and going to the gym. Family is very important to me. I love music,dancing and going to the movies. What makes me unique is I do not play games, what you see is what you get! I am not looking for a man who plays games, if that is you, please do not waste my time or yours. I am very career driven and very independant and am looking for the same in a man. I am NOT a materialistic person, but I do want a man who has his own and is responsible. I love children so if you have children - great, if not that is ok as long as you are ok with me having a son as he is my life! I am not one that has to go out all of the time, I truly enjoy just relaxing at home watching a good movie or simply cooking for that special someone and of of course laughing.....yes laughing, it is so important to have a sense of humor, it really keeps you young. Life is way too short and while I am extremely responsible, I love to play around and have fun as well! For the first date, I would keep it simple. Since you are meeting someone from the "internet" it is best you keep it simple and brief. You usually know within the first few minutes of meeting someone if there is chemistry, so with that being said, I would never want to waste anyone's time if the chemistry is just not there. I wouldn't mind meeting for a drink or at a coffee shop.

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