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Jedidah, 41

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About Me

Hi!! I am an extremely honest, blunt woman, who is the mother of two very special children. They are my whole world and the man I meet must love children.Family is number one in my book!!! Hopefully you will feel the same, if not keep fishing. I am an extremely independent woman. I am not looking for a man who can take care of me, I am looking for a life partner....someone to share life with and someone to grow old with.I’m pretty much an easy going girl. I love the little things. I love to get all dressed up for an exciting night on the town but also enjoy just snuggling and watching a movie. I'm also the sort of girl who likes her chair pulled out, door opened and all the things that go with chivalry.I have a close knit group of friends, who mean the world to me and I enjoy spending time with them. We love to travel together....weekend trips, camping or hotels.I like all types of music from classic rock to some hip hop and a little bit of country (NOT MUCH) but am willing to tolerate it.I’m looking for my best friend, someone to share life's pleasures and treasures with. A partner to grow old with and enjoy life and love with. However, I enjoy my independence and will not put up with someone being clingy and possessive. If you have drama please don’t bother contacting me. I like to save my drama for the movies. I’d love to find someone who wouldn’t mind sitting on the couch curled up in each others arms with candles lit, a good bottle of wine, listening to good music or watching a movie. I’m not that hard to please! Oh and seriously to all you football and hockey fans....Yes I will watch sports with you....but I, for the life of me don't understand football. LOL I am looking for a man who is kind, gentle, fun loving, humorous, family oriented and is honest. I don't care what you do for a living as long as you are self-sufficient and motivated to do something.I am not looking for a one night stand, so if that is all you are interested in, please move on!!Hope to hear from you soon!!! Don't be shy!BTW...I am 42 not 40. Meeting for an ice cap or hot chocolate Or coffee would be great...doing something where we can chat and get to know each other...perhaps a walk along the green.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lasonya

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you would like to get to know me ....send a message We can enjoy some smiles and laughs. :***Besides that i dont really want to write anything here. If you want to know more about me,just send a message. Hope to chat soon. COULD REALLY USE SOME FUNNY GUYS RIGHT NOW. JUST FINDING ABOUT ONE ANOTHER :)

  • Christabella

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    "It is true that we do not know what we've got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we've been missing until we find it""If you want something you never had, then you've got to do something you have never done!"I’m still the girl who sits around and laughs at dumb things and walks with the biggest smile on her face. I have to give you all credit for being so brave and contacting me. Please never take my non response as rejection but that this time it is not me, but someone else that is much more for you. If you have no photo. I can not stress enough that it is required to proceed in any way with me. No serial daters please. As for you who are not looking for any type of relationship, keeping searching. I am honest and will treat you with the same respect you treat me. *smile*. I am looking for a relationship and would only be interested in those who are looking for the same in the process. I am taking someone's advice "don't choose the better guy....choose the guy that's going to make you the better woman"I am looking for a person who is unlike any other. We still seek sanity, strive for order and look for something that will make sense of the nonsense. Only one thing, though, really makes this world go round - and it is not money. It is love. Compassion. Sympathy. Sensitivity. Respect. But we can certainly add in the chemistry *grins*. Life is a funny game. Each day we wake up to a brand new day waiting to see what comes our way. Let us see what this day could bring *smiles*I live each day looking for something to smile about. Every moment should be a memory of positive dreams.“The measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give away.” ~ Let's understand that we all know what we are looking for and somewhere within those boundaries, we may find that. If you are thinking we may have lives that may show some similarities and potentially would like to share some of those then contact me. (you with no shirt on, keep looking! You do not seem my type) Honesty. This is a trait that some of you may hold dear to you, good. Telling lies just becomes trouble, so I tell it like it is. Why not? I have no reason to say otherwise. Something I found yesterday that has brought me to this site: "You don't need another human being to make your life complete, but let's be honest. Having your wounds kissed by someone who doesn't see them as disasters in your soul but cracks to put their love into is the most calming thing in this world" -...I do not have tattoosThe only pierced anything is my ears ( does not mean that I will judge you if you have either)Healthy lifestyle is importantI will chose to be around only positive peopleNo extra baggage here, if you have connections still ongoing with your ex that interferes with your happiness. Take care of it and do not involve me.I am honest and will tell you like it isI may be a gluten free vegetarian but I am ok with what someone else eats. No judgement here. I was not made to be able to handle everything that life throws at me because I do get upset when I am in very terrible situations. I was not made to be happy and smiling all the time because I do cry when I am emotionally worked up. I do get mad at people who stab me in the back. I also hurt when my very own friends do things that break my heart. I am not supposed to be standing tall everyday because I do stumble and fall. But YES when I am done with all this I do learn lessons from the punches that are thrown at me each day.They challenge me and help me to become emotionally strong and I am ready to face it all with a brave heart. So I can proudly say that I am perfect the way I am and I refuse to change anything about me"Eventually, We spend most of our lives running after our careers and trying to make a living. We all are part of a never ending rat race where there are goals to be achieved and targets to be met. But there comes a time in our life when no matter how successful we are, no matter what we have achieved or where we stand …. WE JUST DESIRE TO BE LOVED TO THE CORE. There comes a time when we all want a true companion for life. We miss having someone special in our life with whom we can share everything. Someone who loves us with complete conviction and honesty. Someone whom we can trust blindly for the rest of our lives. But sometimes it’s too late and we end up spending a lonely life. So embrace love with open arms whenever it comes to you and touches your heart and soul .Don’t let go if someone loves you with all that they have….. Aarti Khurana"ps......I am not responding to those with no photos ( I know many of you have not read my profile as I do ask)Why place me in your "favorites" if you are not going to send me a note? Some things to message me about as I see you are having trouble:What movie character best describe you as a person. Super hero? Comedy? Horror?Where do you spend your Saturday nights? Strip bar? Dance clubs? Watching a movie? BBQ? Bonfire? Sleeping?What would you like to prepare for me if you were entertaining? Give it some thought. This should be interesting. If you were reading a book, what character would I be? Be nice!If you could take me anywhere in the world for one night, where would it be?When a relationship does fail. How do you end things?What is it about me that caught your attention?What is something that most women do not understand about men?I am polite and I try to answer everyone; however, I can not always return the respond. Take care and good luck fishing! message me and we can plan it together-no coffee! Maybe a green tea but no coffee -no alcoholic drinks please-I love movies but we will have to go for a walk after as we can not talk during the actual movie.-I like food, you like food? Food is good.

  • Lee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    .lets see... I have been here before... many times sadly... not sure if it is that I am picky or just unlucky thus far... but thought I would give it another go... They say there is someone for everyone so I guess I am hoping to prove that...I feel I am misunderstood.. maybe going about all this the wrong way... Here is a few things I have learned about dating in this day and age:1) absolutely nothing!! I have learned nothing.. I have morals.. standards... and yes expectations (being I expect respect and you will get it in return)I certainly don't think that everyone I meet on here is "the one".. I don't fall in love quickly or easily.. I believe that takes time.. lots of time.. I will be open and honest from the begining and I think that scares a lot of men.. if I like you I will tell you... I will not leave you guessing.. I may not be the prettist woman or the thinnist woman on here but I am me.. and that is all I can be.. I am too old and tired to play high school games.. and I refuse to fall into those sort of relationships.. I will not stand to be second or third choice or be the 'stand by girl'.. I am too good for that.. I am passionate.. caring.. loving and respectful when it comes to relationships.. I am a bigger girl... and I know there is someone out there that can see the inner beauty and accept me for who I am...I want to find someone to share life experiences with... to share all the good and the bad times.. to be there for him when he needs me.. and have him there for me when I need him.. to give him his space or time with his friends and I enjoy my time with my friends.. someone to laugh with.. cry with.. have those little arguments and the best make ups ever.. not sure if I see marriage in my future... been there done that.. but would leave the door open to it if my partner felt strong about it.. I have strong convictions... I believe that hatred and war is a state of mind and can be halted with just making it happen... I have my faith but do not feel I need to be in a church to practice it... and karma of course.. my political views.. well lets not go there as I am in a good mood right now... I love animals and children and feel we need to speak up for them and fight against cruelty and bullying.. I cry at weddings.. and some Christmas commericals... I have feelings and can be hurt.. have been hurt.. but than again we all have been I am sure... so putting myself out there is the hardest thing I have done.. I am tired.. tired of going to social events by myself.. to movies by myself... dinners by myself... vacations by myself.. and so on ... I think you get the point.. Ok.. getting tired and it late anyway... I will write more later... cheers.

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