Total users: 51,057,232 Online users: 183,686
Lee, 45

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 May 2024 18:20:54

About Me

.lets see... I have been here before... many times sadly... not sure if it is that I am picky or just unlucky thus far... but thought I would give it another go... They say there is someone for everyone so I guess I am hoping to prove that...I feel I am misunderstood.. maybe going about all this the wrong way... Here is a few things I have learned about dating in this day and age:1) absolutely nothing!! I have learned nothing.. I have morals.. standards... and yes expectations (being I expect respect and you will get it in return)I certainly don't think that everyone I meet on here is "the one".. I don't fall in love quickly or easily.. I believe that takes time.. lots of time.. I will be open and honest from the begining and I think that scares a lot of men.. if I like you I will tell you... I will not leave you guessing.. I may not be the prettist woman or the thinnist woman on here but I am me.. and that is all I can be.. I am too old and tired to play high school games.. and I refuse to fall into those sort of relationships.. I will not stand to be second or third choice or be the 'stand by girl'.. I am too good for that.. I am passionate.. caring.. loving and respectful when it comes to relationships.. I am a bigger girl... and I know there is someone out there that can see the inner beauty and accept me for who I am...I want to find someone to share life experiences with... to share all the good and the bad times.. to be there for him when he needs me.. and have him there for me when I need him.. to give him his space or time with his friends and I enjoy my time with my friends.. someone to laugh with.. cry with.. have those little arguments and the best make ups ever.. not sure if I see marriage in my future... been there done that.. but would leave the door open to it if my partner felt strong about it.. I have strong convictions... I believe that hatred and war is a state of mind and can be halted with just making it happen... I have my faith but do not feel I need to be in a church to practice it... and karma of course.. my political views.. well lets not go there as I am in a good mood right now... I love animals and children and feel we need to speak up for them and fight against cruelty and bullying.. I cry at weddings.. and some Christmas commericals... I have feelings and can be hurt.. have been hurt.. but than again we all have been I am sure... so putting myself out there is the hardest thing I have done.. I am tired.. tired of going to social events by myself.. to movies by myself... dinners by myself... vacations by myself.. and so on ... I think you get the point.. Ok.. getting tired and it late anyway... I will write more later... cheers.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Keturah

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have a good life but I do want someone to come home to. Looking for a sweet guy who is easy going and supportive. Also, qualities such as being able goof around together as well as being able to work through difficult times are important to me. Want someone who likes animals. Also, I did want my own family but that may not happen... so I am open to a guy who already has kids. thank you for reading my profile. prefer a coffee or drink for first time meeting.

  • Kyra

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a SWF seeking a SWM!!!I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical dinner and a movie to something like spending the day hiking, kayaking, at the amusement park. A few of my interests are reality tv, bowling, putt putt, concerts, going to comedy clubs and out to dinner. Generally I consider myself to be very open to new experiences and will try almost anything once. Yes, I've gone skydiving, 2x in fact! Also have been cliff diving, parasailing, bungee jumping, etc.I'm also into sports. Watching on tv and going to live events is awesome! NFL being my favorite. I grew up playing and being around sports all my life and it truly is something I love. No pretending about it.Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been an ok time a great time!I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with. At this time I want to take things slow and have some fun times with a fantastic guy! I do not want to rush things. If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are responsible and mature, things are off to a great start! If it sounds to you like we have enough interests in common, drop me a line and perhaps we can get together.You should message me if:you are looking for something that can turn into a fantastic relationship. If you are ready, willing and able to love and be loved in return, I'm your girl! NON-SMOKERS ONLY!!! Something "light" and easy...maybe lunch or for a coffee (for you, I don't drink coffee) tea or hot chocolate for me. Somewhere we can talk and see if there is a connection for us both.

  • Livia

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So, I'm trying this again with the belief that the guy for me is out there. I'm looking for someone who wants to meet their soulmate and is willing to put the time into getting to know me as I would with them. If you're old enough to possibly be my father or (ick my grandfather) then please move on. Same if you're married or recently separated. I'm not looking for a one off, a 'friends with benefits' relationship or someone who thinks asking about my sex life on a chat is a way to get to know me. So if you still feel after that statement, you might be interested, here's a bit about me.My friends would describe me as loyal, honest, a great listener, confident and fun to be around. I have opinions, but know when to keep them to myself. For the most part non-judgemental,at some point, we all judge others. I've always thought of myself as a homebody, just because I don't need to be out shopping, bar hopping all the time. I've been out dancing once since I moved here almost 5 years ago, had a great time! But feel no great need to do it every weekend. I do enjoy going to a movie once in awhile, maybe to a house party or bbq. I'm not materialistic and place a lot of value on how people treat others. ONE of my favourite ways to spend a stormy day is snuggled up watching a movie. I don't play games with someone's emotions and do my best to say what I mean and mean what I say. If we meet and I'm interested, you'll know. I don't go in for any of that 'wait for 3 days' nonsense. I also believe the greatest attribute you can bring to any relationship is honesty.I'm a firm believer that even if you're crazy about each other, it's healthy to need time apart. If you're a hunter(bonus because I love game meat), fisherman, or have a standing guys night/weekend thing, cool. My thoughts on going to pubs/bars with your/my friends is, 'go, have a great time and don't do anything you wouldn't do if your girl/guy was out with you.'You're thinking this girl is too good to be true!!!Still reading?So, what do I find attractive in a guy? Depends on the guy really. That being said, it does come down to personality, morals and whether or not you can carry on a conversation and if you know what it means to be a gentleman. While there has to be a physical chemistry between us, we also have to find each other emotionally and intellectually attractive. I understand if you prefer not to have a publicly posted image, but please include one in a message or I likely won't respond.It's always easy to find someone to do something with. It's hard to find someone you can have fun doing nothing with. The meet me feature doesn't seem all that reliable. Please feel free to just say hi!

Follow Us: