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Lai, 43

United States, New Mexico, Taos

Offline, last seen Sat, 24 Oct 2026 02:01:33

About Me

As my headline says.. I truly believe that laughter is the best medicine! I love to laugh. I have what some would called a warped sense of humor with a side of sarcasm. I am an average looking, honest, caring, and down to earth lady. I'm curvy and thick with a bit extra but not a big big woman. I enjoy going out to movies, sitting at the beach, taking random roadtrips, hanging out with friends, hanging out at home or doing absolutely nothing.What am I looking for you ask? Well I'm looking for a friend first.... If meeting somebody only turns into a friendship I am ok with that, who wouldn't want new friends? Although I am ultimately looking for a long term relationship. To meet someone fun and interesting .... that special someone. Someone who is funny, spiritual, affectionate, loving, adventurous, financially/mentally stable, and up for having fun in life...someone who is not overly serious. I am NOT looking for one-nighters, NSA or relationships with married men so please respect that. I think the first meeting should be something that is as casual and "low stress" as possible. Possibly a coffee or a walk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Reggae Indian Portuguese South American
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