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Adelyn, 44
United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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FYI: I do not date outside my race.Hey there! My hearts been broken more times in the year and a half I've been on this site than it has my entire life. One of the most important things that makes up a strong, successful relationship is honesty and this site does not have an ounce of it..........It's this simple guys......I want a RELATIONSHIP that's fun, exciting, adventurous, trusting, honest, fulfilling, full of laughter and smiles and eventually love. About me......I'm a strong, confident, independent, self-sufficient and educated woman., and I love it. I'm very dedicated and loyal to my job(as I am in my personal life), and I work as much as they need me to. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls, 23 and 17. They no longer live at home, but they remain my life, my world, and my everything. They will ALWAYS come before anyone or anything. My motto is "I don't NEED a man......I WANT a man." When I have free time, I enjoy all the typical outdoor things......beaches, mtns, hiking, camping, fishing, canoeing, walking and amusement parks. I am committed to my weight loss so I try to walk everyday and I enjoy my P90X workouts. I have lost ~55lbs so far....looking to lose about 30 more. My one true passion in life is troubled children. I am very liberal so I believe in helping children grow into who they are not controlling them like their possessions. We don't accept being controlled so why should they have to. My dream one day is to be their support and their voice when adults won't listen.What kind of man can tickle my fancy.........Your not afraid to exploreYour open minded, out-going, adventurous, FUN and satisfyingMost importantly.....your not one sided Your confident and don't feel the need to control the relationshipYour compassionate, considerate and caringYour supportive, sensitive and unselfishA few things to remember before you message me.......Say what you mean and mean what you sayDon't come on strong if you don't want it in returnTreat me with the same respect you demand.......if you don't demand respect, don't message meSex and Nude Pics are things you earn.......your not entitled toDon't push your way into my world......I will let you in when I'm readyIf your a male chauvinistic pig.....don't message me. I have no time for archaic ways of lifeI am looking for what everyone ultimately wants.....love, friendship, companionship, happiness and laughter. I'm just not chasing it anymore. If you are looking for a woman like me and are seeking a long term relationship, let's talk and see what happens.I won't be any mans half-time, down-time, spare-time or sometimes. So don't waste my time."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Metal Reggae Running / Jogging American Football
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  • Kath from Roswell | Woman | 45 years old | Gemini
    Kath

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.

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  • Sheelagh from Roswell | Woman | 43 years old | Leo
    Sheelagh

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I stand up for what I believe is Right and that includes anyone who is with me. I\'m a firm believer when I say "stand your grounds". I’d like to find the same firm person with strong values.

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  • Larissa from Roswell | Woman | 44 years old | Aries
    Larissa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Okay here it goes...I am................ smart, sexy, sensual, alluring, articulate,honest,trustworthy,independent,and outgoing.I want a ............. sexy, sensual, attentive, smart, honest, trusting, creative, and romantic man.I need an ............ independent, loyal, responsible, charismatic,and energetic man.P.S. A FEW EXTRA POUNDS Means I am a woman with curves! P.S.S. I am not interested in playing games, or " hooking up" so please respect that and don't think I will change my mind! LOL A casual setting is always welcoming. Getting ice cream, Starbucks, casual lunch or drinks.

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