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Temika, 44
United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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I was on this once befor an well its seems to be alot of men trying way to hard, I like honesty. I wil be honest so i wil tell you what i look for an it may not fit you but hey this is who i am an your the way you are. Physical attraction is very important to me an it must be for you to if not you wouldnt be this far into this. You must be alittle like me ,i believe in backing up with what i say, example it shows in my pics i work out, what some men say is an athletic body is well umm ok lets not go there lol.Im so far away from being perfect but i do know what will turn my head an what doesnt , just like a man. I work with 98% men an i drive a truck so i hear all the stories.If you have 3 or more phones an call me on just 2 then call on the 3rd an u want to know why i dont reconize the voice well then im sorry, try to be honest in the 1st place. I wrk 50 to 60 hrs a week an my weekends are well half catching up on laundry an food shopping, the othr half is well what ever, like rollerbladding like i did yesterday an going on boat rides with my friends.I live a simple life. I do like a man who wil be there to hold me when things go wrong, even though it looks like i can handle what ever comes my way, im still not able to handle everything , i have deep feelings an want my othr half to be my rock an i want him to know i will be his rock as well. life is sh*t sometymes an yet it is great but we all need someone to share it with sooner or later. we are all looking for that one person who holds us an makes the world go awaywanting what we want doesnt make us a bad person but atleast again we are being honest LOOKS are very important i dont want an wont wake up with some ugly man every morning. Men dont wake up to ugly women, same goes for us girls.. im looking for a guy who is over 5'11" since im tall i like to wear heels an i dont want to tower over my man lol.I like muscle lots of it.I like my guy to be about 225lbs an up. NOT 150LB Its sad to know but if i can bench press more then my guy lol then well lol,I like big strong legs an i guy who is into bodybuilding or working out to look his best, yes i know it gets old sometimes an taking tym off is good sometyms an there is alot of othr things to do besides the gym but i still like to go.I eat clean but yes i do like a burger an beer sometimes. So any ther queastions then ask. Oh by the way im not a bad or cold hearted woman just because i described what i like but again im HONEST Im sure if like me we will talk to see where we will go an what we will do ...

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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