SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Katie
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Seeing what's up... I have a super fun sense of humor, with twinge of sarcasm and wit. I love movies (especially comedies), I love to sing (I sing with a local band on occasion). I really enjoy hiking, boating, dancing and watching football (both college and pro). I do my share of volunteer work (I'm passionate about helping people. I feel that paying it forward is an important aspect of being human). I am a Spiritual person.... Not religious. Big difference. I believe that a higher power than myself exists; however, I don't idolize it.I'm also into health and fitness - eating right and working out on a regular basis is a must for me... I feel that taking care of one's body will help take care of one's mind and spirit too! :-) I enjoy wine and I really enjoy traveling - I'm particularly fond of long weekend getaways. The Turks and Caicos and Belize are on my list of places to visit too.My day job is as a Senior-level Network Engineering Project Manager in the financial services industry and I have a side business as a massage practitioner and energy worker.I'm a really deep person and I enjoy intellectually stimulating conversations... and can hold such a conversation with ease. Hoping that you do in return. :-)What am I looking for in a man? Well, I can list the usual... honest, stable, intelligent, chivalrous, fit/athletic (i.e. saying you workout and eat right is quite different than actually doing those things on on a regular basis), loyal, sensual, established, altruistic, great sense of humor, reliable, likes to travel, etc... but DUH! Most women want that. What truly matters is someone who is authentic, inside and out; someone who knows what he wants and doesn't play games and wastes anybody's time (and if you can cook = bonus! Lol). Seriously though, relationships can be somewhat of a chess match, however, when you know it's right, you both win. If you don't, then move on. Opposites may attract, but 'Likes' last. Let's just meet for something low-key at first and see what sparks from there.
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Kath
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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Clementina
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Just a simple girl looking for a good man who is ready for something that could go the distance. I like confident men, not**** - there is a difference! I enjoy going downtown to baseball games or hockey games, enjoy shows at the Peace Center, concerts at the BI-LO Center, and movies at home or at the theater. I enjoy cooking and trying new places to eat out. Hanging out with friends and playing games is always a fun way to spend an evening. I am affectionate and look for my man to be the same. I do have a daughter that lives with me, so we are a package! Love sci fi - sort of a nerd (and yes I have the glasses to prove it). I prefer comfort over style but I don't walk around looking like a train wreck, I guess that makes me a bit of a hippy. If there are zombies involved, you have my attention- The Walking Dead is AWESOME. I think laughing is important and a key to a good life. If we can't make each other laugh during hard times there is a problem. I am very affectionate and romantic and love to spoil those important to me - be it small gifts, back rub, a night out or a night in. It's important to show people how you feel about them and not take them (or life) for granted. Truth is very important, and I will be honest with you, but I will be gentle when I know it's not what you hoped to hear - that is unless its a hard truth you MUST hear, then I might just hit you over the head with it. I try to approach everything with a sense of humor, life is hard enough. Sharing a hot dog and pretzel at the ballpark, or enjoying a movie under the stars. Walking around downtown, stopping in for a drink here, or a sweet treat there. Holding hands and laughing, while closing the evening with a plan to see each other again and then the magical kiss goodnight.