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Elwanda, 43
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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Hello! It's great to see you! Come on in and have a seat. Can I get you a drink or something to eat? How about some warm apple pie? Want to lounge in the hottub for a while or sit on the patio and enjoy some sun? I find that most profiles read the same, but I can assure you that I'm not like most women you will meet. I'm recently single and so I'm a bit apprehensive to enter the "dating world" again. It's not like it used to be! To best describe what I'm looking for now, I'd like a man that could be a best friend, a companion to laugh with in the good times and hug in the more difficult ones. I don't like a man with a temper, without a sense of humor or without a job. Most importantly, I want a man that can be himself, because I'm not going to pretend to be anything but who I am - I'm very straightforward.; and I tend to smile a lot. I love beaches, road trips, margaritas or a glass of wine, dressing up for a night out dancing or lounging in sweatpants and a hoody for a lazy evening watching a movie – as long as we’re able to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm very passionate and compassionate. I have a huge heart and I'm definitely a giver. I tend to spoil my loved ones. Cuddling, kissing, touching is welcomed and enjoyed. I love to cook and sometimes, I'm even good at it! LOL! I work hard, because I like to play hard and I take pride in the fact that I can provide for my sons and I. By the way, my sons are great young men, soon to be own their own. I'm intelligent - I know, not the stereotypical blonde- with a fun sense of humor. No matter what the situation is, I promise you I will be able to find something positive out of it. If you like what you've heard so far, I look forward to telling you more! Hugs! *** That's my next weekend trip that I'm working on. Let's go to Beale Street!*** On a side note... teeth, the ability to have sex and being gainfully employed are all important attributes to me when looking for a potential relationship. If you lack these characteristics, I will have to pass. And if you have unmanaged bi-polar disorder and you tend to pick fights in bars and pull knives on people, that's just not who I am and I would, again, have to pass.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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