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Adilene, 41

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? Hoping to be there by mid-Aug. Would love to meet you when I get there! *I am a single mom of a college aged boy. I think I look and act more like a late-20's woman than one in my 40's, though am not looking for someone to take care of either of us. I am quite quirky, and am the one you see singing and dancing in the car to the newest tunes. I am an avid reader, usually spending most of my lunch hour reading. I love to go shopping for nothing in particular, and don't mind coming home empty handed. I value my relationships with friends, and my family is the most important thing in my life. I have the coolest kitty-cats in the world. I adore sports. It's not unusual to find me at the arena watching some live sporting event. I love to dance and live music, therefore you might find me at the local bar on Friday nights. I am usually driving, so very little drinking going on. Though if I was... find me a good beer or ginger-ale with rum and lime. You are not going to fall in love with me for my domestic side, so if you are looking for someone to cook and clean for you, NEXT! I can cook ... and most of my cooking is edible. I just choose to not cook as much as possible. I am no body builder or distance runner... but I enjoy the endorphin release from a great work out. I am looking for someone to laugh with me. Someone to cuddle with on Sunday morning, someone to cook for, someone to go shopping with, someone to learn from and teach. I am looking for the man that makes me a priority and is willing to be mine. The man that wants to find out what it takes to be my forever... I am not sure about this dating thing anymore... I am looking for something different. Lets make our first impressions be memorable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hildegarde

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am just an average woman seeking fulfillment from an average man. I have a good life but have always dreamed of that extraordinary relationship that few seem to have in their lifetime. I want YOU to think I am something special and I will be YOUR biggest fan. Together we are rare and incredible. I like to learn and grow but have no desire to jet off and see new countries every other month. I want a simple life that includes spending time with our extended families. Yes, I would love to go on some great vacations in our years together. I like to do and see things but value my time at home immensely. I like nice things but do not value a materialistic life. I like planning for retirement. I like an intelligent, professional, educated, funny and sexy man (a little geeky is cool, too). Chemistry and connection are so random and cannot be defined. In general I do NOT like younger men. I am only interested in men who want a relationship that has true intimacy, and a strong physical and emotional closeness. These things take time to grow. I love music and poetry. I am educated and down to earth. I am a mom first (two wonderful, fun, well adjusted boys ages 7 and 12). I am sarcastic and silly. I enjoy live music in small venues with great company. I do not want more children of my own but would love to blend families with the right man. Local guys only. You should be within a reasonable distance for realistic possibilities. I hate to put this out there but might save us both some time...I have mild herpes (have had this over 25 years). It is insignificant in my life and I get an "outbreak" maybe once every other year tops. I have never passed this on to a partner. I am cautious. ...hasn't hurt my sex life. My Motto: If I can't wear jeans then I don't want to go- OK, I do like to play dress up on occasion- see a show or the theater. Mostly I am happy with the simple life, watching my kids play baseball and soccer. I like to catch up with friends over drinks, read a good book, see an occasional movie. I hope to one day find a man who dreams of a great love. The ideal match would be so many things. He would be debt free with the exception of the house and car. He would be confident but not arrogant. He would LOVE touch, snuggling, hand holding, kissing and massages. The ideal man will be good with kids and enjoy throwing a baseball back and forth or shooting hoops. He would understand that while he would date only me for a while, if we were to hit if off that I am a package deal. I treat people with respect. I want to be adored. I want someone to adore. I want the sun, moon, stars all rolled up in a simple, happy real life. I want someone to emotionally grow with. I do not want to make the first move. If you are interested please send a note. Margaritas?!

  • Maev

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm outgoing, not shy. I'm Australian which makes me pretty laid back No drama. Goals and aspirations are to get the most out of life. Typical Aussie, I have a fairly sarcastic sense of humor. I'll try anything once and if I like it, I'll go back for seconds....sometimes even thirds or more :-). I like people who r confident but not over confident (big ego). Don't tell me a sob story about wanting to find a friend and then ask for a roll in the hay during the second sentence. I've bloody well heard those lines more times than I can count. If u want a quick *** or a one night stand, look elsewhere, its not my thing.. Honesty goes a lot further than bul!$%!t. If u lie to me once, then u've probably done it twice. I don't hold grudges, but I don't have a need for untruths. I enjoy my own company and the conversations I have with myself are never boring, not to mention, I always get the answer I like best :-). If u r hung up about age, then that's ur hang up, not mine. I'm 43, going on 30...I stopped counting at that point and anyway, math wasn't my strongest subject in school haha. I am quite affectionate, and like to snuggle buggle and watch a movie. I'm very much an open book and u can ask me anything, but don't get shocked when my answers are straight forward and directly to the point. No drama zone here.If u don't have a picture of yourself in your profile, I will question u as to what u r hiding, but it won't stop me from talking to u. Back to the lying, it's pointless...ur going to screw up at some time and I'm fairly intelligent even though I'm a blond.... haha...it doesn't take me long to figure out when I'm being played, so let's not waste anyone's time :-) If u r married, girlfriend, or have a significant other, don't waste my time and no drama . I'm fairly low maintenance and don't spend hours in front of a mirror to get ready to go out; what u c is what u get, like it or leave it...Good luck to anyone out there , with ur phishing...:-) A restaurant, (NOT FAST FOOD AND I PAY FOR MYSELF) and maybe just sit and talk or do something fun and sporty.

  • Onie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Not sure what to put here... LOLLooking to Meet a Respectful, outgoing, fun gentleman.I enjoy watching college football, spending time with my family, grilling, anything outdoors, sipping on a cold beer once in a while.Says I am not looking for a relationship only because I think every relationship should start out as friends, I am wanting a relationship. There are so many men contacting me, but most only want one thing and I am not into all that. Sex is a natural thing I know, but if you only want sex than keep looking cause I am not for you! Spend time with a Gentleman who is outgoing and enjoys having fun, not afraid to be himself. Talking over a cold one.

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