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Hildegarde, 43
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

Offline, last seen Fri, 31 May 2024 18:08:11

About Me

I am just an average woman seeking fulfillment from an average man. I have a good life but have always dreamed of that extraordinary relationship that few seem to have in their lifetime. I want YOU to think I am something special and I will be YOUR biggest fan. Together we are rare and incredible. I like to learn and grow but have no desire to jet off and see new countries every other month. I want a simple life that includes spending time with our extended families. Yes, I would love to go on some great vacations in our years together. I like to do and see things but value my time at home immensely. I like nice things but do not value a materialistic life. I like planning for retirement. I like an intelligent, professional, educated, funny and sexy man (a little geeky is cool, too). Chemistry and connection are so random and cannot be defined. In general I do NOT like younger men. I am only interested in men who want a relationship that has true intimacy, and a strong physical and emotional closeness. These things take time to grow. I love music and poetry. I am educated and down to earth. I am a mom first (two wonderful, fun, well adjusted boys ages 7 and 12). I am sarcastic and silly. I enjoy live music in small venues with great company. I do not want more children of my own but would love to blend families with the right man. Local guys only. You should be within a reasonable distance for realistic possibilities. I hate to put this out there but might save us both some time...I have mild herpes (have had this over 25 years). It is insignificant in my life and I get an "outbreak" maybe once every other year tops. I have never passed this on to a partner. I am cautious. ...hasn't hurt my sex life. My Motto: If I can't wear jeans then I don't want to go- OK, I do like to play dress up on occasion- see a show or the theater. Mostly I am happy with the simple life, watching my kids play baseball and soccer. I like to catch up with friends over drinks, read a good book, see an occasional movie. I hope to one day find a man who dreams of a great love. The ideal match would be so many things. He would be debt free with the exception of the house and car. He would be confident but not arrogant. He would LOVE touch, snuggling, hand holding, kissing and massages. The ideal man will be good with kids and enjoy throwing a baseball back and forth or shooting hoops. He would understand that while he would date only me for a while, if we were to hit if off that I am a package deal. I treat people with respect. I want to be adored. I want someone to adore. I want the sun, moon, stars all rolled up in a simple, happy real life. I want someone to emotionally grow with. I do not want to make the first move. If you are interested please send a note. Margaritas?!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a very proud mother of 2 daughters my oldest is 18 and is in the marines. my youngest is 9 and is with me full time my girls are always first and have made my life better. I have been at my job 13 years. I am a country girl love my jeans and t-shirts not a dressy up person. I have been told that I am brutally honest and independent person. I don't pretend to be someone that I'm not I'm me. Im not perfect have made mistakes but they have made me who i am and me know what i want and deserve. I have a crazy sense of humor. I love tattoos I have 8 now and plan on getting more I have my belly button and ears pierced. I am very lucky I have a great family and very close to them. I love movies, (horror is my favorite) music I listen to all but country is my favorite, shooting pool, cards and love haunted houses. I am a very picky eater I don't like food. I am not opposed to a serious relationship but want to start off as friends and go from there I don't want to jump into anything I have been married twice and as of right now I don't plan on getting married ever again. I like to text it is so much easier with my job and daughter. . If you use drugs or a alcoholic I am not interested, everyone asks what my type is just from past relationship I like a guy who is taller sense a humor and honest and if you have tattoos bonus points :) I know looks aren't everything but that is what we notice first off so someone that I am attracted to and hope the inside matches the outside. we can figure something out

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  • Jadwiga from Rio Rancho | Woman | 43 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ...about me...A spunky lil one, (5'4", 125#) UNIQUE, full of life and adventure. HAPPY, FUN, Open minded, caring, sincere, honest, grateful, compassionate, INDEPENDENT.....not a jealous person but a very confident one...enjoying what I have, who I am, where I been and where I'm going....I believe in reasons things CAN BE and can do without company that only sees reasons something CANT BE. I have a great job, 3 awesome kids, 2 American bulldogs...(I love kids!!!) and a life I love, just looking for that special someone to share it with...I value individual space, as well as, togetherness...I believe time apart is just as important as time spent together. I've been on here a while because I'm very selective on who I allow in my life. Everyone should be. I've met some great people who are now friends and also some straight up fakes. If u don't own a business. Please don't say u do. If u say u have a bike. Don't tell me it's in boxes in your garage when I ask to go ride. Please be who u claim to be because if your not. I have absolutely no time for liars n will drop ur friendship like a bad habit.I have a good life. Great life actually. Financially set. Have what I want. Do what I want when u want i have no limitations n see none in anything I set my mind to doing. Just looking for a good man to do them with, possibly grow with. I like tall guys (sorry, just keeping it real) I'm 5'4". If I have 5" heels on, look down to see u and your not on your knees. That is a problem. LolSome will send nasty grams. Try to save my soul. Peace. But your opinion means nothing to me so keep it to urself. Ill block the message before I finish reading it... I am who I am. I do not want anyone to feel the need to change cuz I won't. Ill bend w u. But never ***, that being said. Hun I'm just being brutally honest. To much bs n to many players not to be! Interested? Send an ***? I hope only the best for you in your search. HugsPs. "what I'm looking for..." I'll know when I find him....til then.... I am looking to have fun...no expectations...no baggage, NO DRAMA!!!! Everything that's good starts with friendship...I'd like to meet POSITIVE, CONFIDENT, HONEST, OUTGOING, HAPPY, SECURE.... those who are not afraid of whom they are and accept others for the same. Life is to short, each moment should be cherished and respected for what it is.....A GIFT............Life is lived fully, by taking chances...I'm ready. Are you? Now.....A first date eh? Hmmmmm... TBD....lol...I'm pretty open, I like variety and adventure and can make any situation fun ...Thanks and good luck to everyone!!!

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  • Malisa from Rio Rancho | Woman | 45 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ok. I love kayaking I'm on the water any chance I get. I walk daily. Either treadmill or out. I enjoy watching movies all kinds. I really get into them emotionally. hahaha. Love a nice glass of wine at night or a beer while sitting around a fire. Im pretty open for trying new things. What makes me unique? Well that is something Ive be told numerous times but would be something you would have to see for yourself. I am a very busy person I dont say still for long only to watch a movie and even then I try to accomplish other things. I like the outdoors and walking through new places. I enjoy just getting in the car and going. I did that many times. lol It was a blast. I think that is enough for now if you want to know more ask. I may tell you. Something casual, like coffee or a drink. No pressure just some conversation and see if there is an attraction.

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