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Dedra, 41

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About Me

So there were many wonderful qualities that would make me a great catch, but I've outdone myself this time: I've taken up football this year! Yep... I've finally caved and joined the rest of America. I will not do the same for NASCAR... Ever!Ok, a little info about me... On paper I'm educated, have a career I love, travel frequently, am athletic, and my curiosity usually leads to some kind of adventure. Who I am? Someone that loves life, holidays, animals, family, surprises and am very loyal to those I love. I don't sweat the small stuff. Love unique restaurants, hate chain restaurants. Fitness and health are important to me, so smokers, lovers of fast food, and couch potatoes....I'm definitely not the girl for you!I have a lab and she's pretty important to me....so if you don't like her I can guarantee I won't like you : (. I feel mean saying that but it is true. In a relationship, I like to spend quality time together and love just being outside, cooking dinner ..... Simple things. I would love to find someone to travel with too. Ultimately, I'm looking for my best friend and someone who lights the fire too!!!Was going to leave this off but apparently it's necessary:1. Cussing in *** dates = bad2. Tennis shoes to dinner/social events = bad3. Any drama to include: you hate your life, your ex or even better , your soon to be ex, your job, or yourself = deal breaker 4. Excessive pictures of a car or motorcycle = yawn5. If you over 50, you are too old for me. If you are under 35, you are too young. There is a difference between a first meet and a first date. A first meet is coffee, a drink.... Something to see if there is mutual chemistry. Then, if all goes well, a first date will follow! Just have fun....if there is no chemistry there just isn't. It's not the end of the world!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jadwiga

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ...about me...A spunky lil one, (5'4", 125#) UNIQUE, full of life and adventure. HAPPY, FUN, Open minded, caring, sincere, honest, grateful, compassionate, INDEPENDENT.....not a jealous person but a very confident one...enjoying what I have, who I am, where I been and where I'm going....I believe in reasons things CAN BE and can do without company that only sees reasons something CANT BE. I have a great job, 3 awesome kids, 2 American bulldogs...(I love kids!!!) and a life I love, just looking for that special someone to share it with...I value individual space, as well as, togetherness...I believe time apart is just as important as time spent together. I've been on here a while because I'm very selective on who I allow in my life. Everyone should be. I've met some great people who are now friends and also some straight up fakes. If u don't own a business. Please don't say u do. If u say u have a bike. Don't tell me it's in boxes in your garage when I ask to go ride. Please be who u claim to be because if your not. I have absolutely no time for liars n will drop ur friendship like a bad habit.I have a good life. Great life actually. Financially set. Have what I want. Do what I want when u want i have no limitations n see none in anything I set my mind to doing. Just looking for a good man to do them with, possibly grow with. I like tall guys (sorry, just keeping it real) I'm 5'4". If I have 5" heels on, look down to see u and your not on your knees. That is a problem. LolSome will send nasty grams. Try to save my soul. Peace. But your opinion means nothing to me so keep it to urself. Ill block the message before I finish reading it... I am who I am. I do not want anyone to feel the need to change cuz I won't. Ill bend w u. But never ***, that being said. Hun I'm just being brutally honest. To much bs n to many players not to be! Interested? Send an ***? I hope only the best for you in your search. HugsPs. "what I'm looking for..." I'll know when I find him....til then.... I am looking to have fun...no expectations...no baggage, NO DRAMA!!!! Everything that's good starts with friendship...I'd like to meet POSITIVE, CONFIDENT, HONEST, OUTGOING, HAPPY, SECURE.... those who are not afraid of whom they are and accept others for the same. Life is to short, each moment should be cherished and respected for what it is.....A GIFT............Life is lived fully, by taking chances...I'm ready. Are you? Now.....A first date eh? Hmmmmm... TBD....lol...I'm pretty open, I like variety and adventure and can make any situation fun ...Thanks and good luck to everyone!!!

  • Jo

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Affectionate one looking for just the right man to wrap his arms around me :DI'm a lady with a soft heart, a bit of a romantic and a little on the fiesty side. I like to stay active and work out on a weekly basis. Finding a man that likes to stay fit and may want want to work out with me would be a plus. We can motivate each other to get healthier together. I can go from workout clothes to heals and a dress and be comfortable in both. I like to think I have a nice sense of style ..but don't we all :) I enjoy a night out as much as I do a relaxing evening in snuggled up on the couch with a good movie. It's the company you keep that makes all the difference. Trust and communication is important to me and is the key to any strong relationship. We will probably not agree on everything in life and that is where comprimise comes in. Compromise is a good thing! Life isn't always easy but it is easier when you have someone in your corner. I have a child, who means the world to me but it doesn't mean that I don't have room for you and children of your own. I love to spend time with my man but it's okay if he has interests of his own and wants a moment to himself. It gives me some playtime of my own (get your mind out of the gutter). I'm talking about a good book, a bubble bath , or even a shopping trip with the girls.I try to respond to most messages, but if I do not respond in a day or two its just that I am not interested. It has no reflection on you its just that I know we would not be a good match. After all, we are all attracted to different types...so with that said, good luck to everyone on finding your match. No expectations. A quick lunch or coffee ( I like the fully loaded and packed with sugar ones) and good conversation. If the weather ever warms up we could do a picnic or a walk in the park. If we click we can always continue the date and start planning the next one. :)

  • Maris

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just checking this out! No need to go into detail on anything. I'll share my likes and such if I'm interested. I've learned that it doesn't pay to tell EVERYONE about yourself when there are minimal truths in most profiles. Not trying to waste time finding someone to chat with. I have more important things to do. NOR, am I looking for a sugar-daddy or someone to pay my bills!! I am very stable in my life but I do pray to find that ONE SPECIAL MAN to share my life with! NOTE: If you are in ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM... BI-POLAR.. Do not waste your time!! I have had my FILL of bi-polar men in my life!!!If I don't answer your messages, I'm probably not interested in what I see and read.HAPPY FISHING!!!

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