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Tommy, 45
United States, New Mexico, Raton

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About Me

Like many people, I find it challenging to write about myself. You've heard that saying "We are our own worst critic". I am not perfect, but then again no one really is though we are all trying. We all have flaws and faults, it's natural. Experiences in life make us who we are today, how we use those experiences and learn from them is the challenge. The man I'm waiting for should feel secure in his own skin and with who he has become. He should be willing to continually grow and learn more, as an individual and together with me. I can be considered shy or tough at first, but as life has taught most people "Things aren't always what they seem". The one who is willing to get past these exterior characteristics will find that I am very warm, supportive and a loving person. I am a romantic at heart and enjoy being surprised and let's face it, what woman doesn't like to be swept off her feet from time to time. That doesn't mean that you won't get the same in return especially when you least expect it. No relationship is always ***, but when you average it out over time it should pretty close.I enjoy cooking and entertaining at home, it can be as simple as a BBQ or as fancy as a full course meal. What matters is the people that you are sharing the time with. I have wonderful kids. My dogs came from rescue shelters and are a part of my family. I love spending time with my family but I find the need to start experiencing some time with that special man.My favorite color is RED and am told I look good wearing it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Drama Sport Western Boxing
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