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Gertie, 45

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About Me

"I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living." — Dr. SeussI am passionate about life and all of it's opportunities! I've been very lucky so far and my path has taken me many places... my life is good, it is filled with wonderful family, great friends and creative outlets that make me smile inside and out.You know who you are and enjoy the adventure that is life... your ability to banter is what will win me over! Connection is so multifaceted - engaging conversations, shared values, integrity and above all humour is what makes life tick!!Physical exercise and having healthy food are of great importance to me, that's not to say that I'll pass on a yummy desert though! Everything in balance ;)Outdoors, the arts, travel, cultures different from my own, good people, oh and wine(!), kindness, compassion and success are some of things that make me go "Wow"! Looking to fulfill the missing snuggle-factor too. Are you a great man who shares some of these and can hold his own during a pillow fight? Then by all means, send a smoke signal. something easy, live conversation, then a meet up - a little walk... if there's a spark, the rest will follow...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Admiranda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A brief synopsis of me....I am a single mom, with great friends and my family and love to laugh. My kids are still youngish and they are my priority...and while my mom side and my own me side are separate, it is inevitable that should a connection exist, there will be some overlap. If this isn't in your comfort zone, then I am not for you. I enjoy being active and have been known to adventure and tackle a few challenges here and there. I am fit, but I am not ultra-fit or built like it, but definitely make staying active a big part of my life and make it happen daily. I am always looking at new ways to make that happen in fun ways. I like to think I'm quick witted and think I'm pretty good at dishing it out, and taking it. Sarcasm and witty banter is most definitely something that makes me smile. I am up front and honest and am only looking for the same. I can ask the hard question, give the hard answer and pretty much feel like it should just be told the way it is. For better or for worse, I wear my heart on my sleeve and my loyalty to my friends and family is unwavering. That said, I'm confident in what I want and what I have to offer and don't think it serves anyone to settle. I absolutely believe that you get what you give and that life is far too short to not take a few risks and go out on a few limbs...it's the only life we have and I kind of subscribe to the notion that I won't regret what I did...only what I chose not to try.I prefer an intimate group of friends to a room full of strangers, but am certainly able to hold my own in any venue. I can be reserved and somewhat shy by nature initially, but once I hit that ultimate comfort zone, watch out! Jeans and flip flops; little black dress and heels; business attire...all within my comfort zone.I have been here on and off at various times. I've met some nice people, remain great friends with some, but for me, I haven't made the connection I would like to, so here I am. My profile says that I am looking for a relationship...that's kind of a hard one. While ultimately I am, that will happen when it's the right time and the right connection and new friends can't really be a bad thing :)I have posted a pic and really ask the same, or if you aren't comfortable with that, please send one along. We all like to know who we are talking with :) Here's my black and white though....I am looking to meet someone that I connect with; someone to laugh and share fun times with; someone honest and open and real. I am not interested in flings or serial dating. I think life is nicer when you have that special someone to share the adventure with! When I meet that someone, I won't be choosing to date others, and ultimately, that someone should be of the same mindset. For me, it is also important that your past is your past. We all have the experiences that have shaped us over the years, some good, some bad. I also know there are always bumps in the road, but in general my bags are neatly packed, and I expect the same :)Okay...so apparently that wasn't so brief ;) Did I mention I can ramble? If you got through it, then who knows....maybe there is something there :)

  • Branda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a passionate artist, living my dream...entrepreneur, business woman/store owner... I've backpacked in over 17 countries, speak enough spanish to get by, dance as often as possible, don't watch television, and still find comfort in a peanut butter and jam sandwich. I love going out to see live music, travel to other cities to study various dance forms, and adore going to costume parties. My life's work is designing and creating works of art that bring happiness to people's lives. Pretty satisfying. A dream I chased for over 20 years. One day when time presents itself I would love to study fine arts...in other countries ;) My body is my temple...I take great care in eating well and organic, and I'm physcally fit.You...Do you enjoy outdoor music festivals of the electronic kind...ever been to Burning Man or have it on your bucket list....have a passion for adventure....love to dream... have a desire to learn partner dancing (salsa/swing/tango), if any of this resonates with you definitely drop me a line! Fresh oysters and wine....go out salsa dancing (that could be painful, maybe not)...stick to the oysters ;)

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Not gonna bore you with my hobbies or what kind of music I like as that is minor and you can ask me later ......Just here to find the right mix of chemistry and physical attraction with someone...not into playing games or one night stands.Been married twice so I do know what I want now and sorry but I am a lot pickier now then I was years ago but hey I don't want to make those mistakes again and I am not here to waste anyone's time.I tell it like I see it and am straight up and honest,I don't care what kind of car or truck you drive or how much is in your bank account or if you live in a house or apt....I too have my own material things. I just miss being with someone as the last few years I have always been the third wheel with groups of friends and I do miss the couple thing....My kids are both old enough I don't need a babysitter so I can pretty much do my own thing and have some fun in life.....Fun meaning a relationship !!! I am NOT a barbie so I am not looking for ken and I do not get offended if my profile is flipped over like a page in a book...I know we are not everyone's cup of tea so why let it upset you.....I love being at home but then again love being out doing stuff.....I have met Mr.Control ,Mr .Jealous and Mr.Temper so I no not wish to meet them again....cause I am a happy go lucky girl...down to earth and likes herself for who she is.......I am not skinny either so for those of you that are after that....sorry guys I got meat on me and never wish to be boney!!! We all want certain things and I have been on here long enough to know everyone wants there women a certain way...and that's cool with me.....Cant judge this book by its cover so come say hello and find out what its all about!!!......

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