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Sharri, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

I've spent the last years building a business and raising a son...I used to say I like to work hard and play hard, with some quiet time in between, but truthfully after years of crazy hours, I'm finding the joy in working smarter *** for myself, my son, enjoying the balance. Room for other things. Passion. Travel. A relationship.I'm fiercely independent, maybe a little stubborn and definitely sarcastic. I consider myself 'evolved', yet realize there is room for much more; that growth is constant and essential to maintaining healthy relationships with self and others... My free time is often spent playing sports, relaxing at home or enjoying friends - good food, good wine and conversation. I believe in laughter, playtime and just pure silliness at any and every age! Simple things. I am very much an urbanite and love living within walking distance of the beaches, neighbourhoods and restaurants that make up our beautiful city. My preference is to meet someone with a similar geography but one never knows with love... Although i am 'sporty' and enjoy the outdoors, I'll take a 4 star over camping any day! Sweats and pretty dresses and everything in between. This Gemini likes it all :)Ideally you prefer playing sports to watching them (I won't begrudge if you watch and may join you for some but otherwise will likely make other plans to occupy my time) You are health conscious and maintain a balance of quiet times and social events. You are active, a good communicator, confident and responsible. You're open to, desiring even, a relationship yet patient enough to let it evolve naturally...Although I may enjoy the flirtations of written word, and can form an opinion on a photo and a few exchanges, I am a firm believer that personal presence is required to truly get a feel for someone. So let's leave the endless *** grab a coffee, if there's chemistry we can take it from there... Coffee and a walk, something short and sweet to see if we connect.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Canadian Japanese Archery
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