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Jerilyn, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Sat, 31 Jan 2026 02:21:23

About Me

Hi guys :) I closed my account because of ONE bizarre experience, and I decided I cannot let that ruin me. So I am here again because I have yet to find my perfect fish, maybe there's no such thing but I truly believe in my heart that there is someone out there for me to be 'imperfect' with... I realize we all have little things that make us special, needs and desires that must line up in order for things to work out long term. I am ready to put myself out there to this big pond. It's scary to feel vulnerable but I am positive it will be worth it in the long run.I am a cheerful and happy girl, I put 'average' body type but I do have curves :) and of course I have a bit of a darker side, (who doesn't?) ...but in a good way I think. :) ......I just want to find the one that has a similar way of looking at life. Please don't message me if you're just looking for something 'casual', and by that I mean just for a hook up. I am certainly not saying I want to rush into anything either, quite the opposite. I would like to build a great foundation with someone and be able to work towards the long term....I want someone who is trustworthy and loyal to just me. I will say up front I have come from a relationship where it was more give than take.. .. believe me, I am the type of person that loves to give and pamper my person with things to make them happy, I just believe that should be a ***thing. Or at least ***lol.I love love love hockey ( I live for October, for many reasons), I use music as therapy. I adore my one and only daughter, she makes me proud.I have my kitty cats, 2 of them (one is 14 this year tho) I think having pets is good for the soul. Good coffee is a MUST in my book. I am part Italian, could be why it's so important to have a good strong cup of coffee w/raw honey and cream to start my work day/night .....mmmmm I am a bit of a homebody but I think that's because I haven't had anyone that has challenged me out. (which I really miss) I love to play tennis but haven't had a buddy to do that for a while. I like to go out and do random stuff with my potential sweetheart... I do work long hours, 12 hour days and nights so sometimes that can be challenging but I really love my job.Message me if you think you would like to chat and get to know each other. Dinner, coffee.... decide together?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm going to give you a story: let's say you have been working late and you come home with flowers, and when you get home and there is a candle lite dinner, with candles and a bubble bath made for two, it's your favorite meal and you are so happy. We spend the night cuddling watching a movie, in the morning you take your lunch and there's a nice note in your lunch telling you how much I love you. It puts a huge smile on your face so you text me and tell you how happy you are and what you thought of how romantic I am. And you are the same way and you finally realize you that we are ment to be together. What a wonderful story. Does this sound like something you would do? Or some other surprise? Well then plz contact me we could be on the same track in life :-) and who knows where u might find real love.... If you give it a chance and are looking for your one and only forever....well..... Enough said I'm looking for a very romantic guy, I like mustache and goatee but hate stubble on the cheeks.My youngest recently moved out and now I'm a free bird. I want someone who works in town and isn't a workaholic, but actually has time to date. I want to go have fun out on dates doing things. I also like staying home as well but I've noticed most guys just want to stay at home and do nothing. And I want to do things I haven't gotten to do while raising kids. I want to fall in love and live happily ever after in love.I do smoke medicinal marihuana, I smoke it for pain relief as I have some disabilities. I have limitations to what I can do. For ex I can't play sports :-( I would love to start travelling, and my dogs are my babies so must be a dog personPs I'm not a huge camper unless there is a trailer and nice weather :-) Drinks or supper for first meeting. First date should be planned by the male so I can see if he knows how to pick nice dates.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi, Well here I go again… giving it one more try! :)Looking for an HONEST, caring, family kind of guy.I’m a sensitive, loving, caring and open-minded person. My friends and family would describe me as very sensitive, caring and compassionate. Someone who loves to laugh and talk about life and human nature. Spiritual but not religious.I met my first boyfriend at college. I met my second one at my first professional job at a film industry, I met my third boyfriend at a bar (I know, bad), I met my fourth boyfriend through friends and it lasted a long time and even if we broke up because of "wants/needs" we're forever best friends. I met my last partner on the internet... he is known as a "narcisstic sociopath" (said by professional help I saw afterwards.... yikes!).I’m hoping to find a man who is romantic (still believes in giving flowers for no reason and I'd do the same for him), caring, playful and spontaneous! :)..... a patient man, (non-smoker).. a communicator... someone who wants to grow and learn together.. enjoys intimacy/affection... who has a laid back nature but also has a drive to pursue things. Someone who truly loves animals and children (and would possibly like to experience having a child together. I know I'm "older" but my grandmother had my mother when she was 43 .. so? :) ...). I do have one beautiful girl who is soon 7 years old this month. She has Rett Syndrome. This means she can't walk or talk or use her hands purposefully. But she's "there". She's not vacant at all!Again, I'd like to find someone who has a creative/playful side... and someone who has the time and desire to get to know each other. (Also, it wouldn't hurt if you were a handyman of some kind and/or knew how to fix things! ha,ha! but not a requirement of course!)Please have a picture... it's only fair! :) coffee/walk, movie, browsing a bookstore.... open to suggestions! :)

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi i am a single mom of 2 beautiful girls.I have 1 tattoo that i got over a dare lol..My goal was to quit smoking and i did that a month ago.I love to play pool doesn't matter if i win or loose .I like going for walks or sitting back and watching a movie.If u want to know more ask don't be shy..good luck..............please have a pic when u message me..TY A first date should be decided between both people after the first meet.On A first meet we can go for a coffee,a walk or even a friendly game of pool.

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