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Bettye, 44
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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Hello there, thanks for checking out my profile. So, just a little bit about me. I have a positive attitude, a strong sense of adventure, and I enjoy keeping active. I am usually the one organizing the next social event, whether it's a night out at the movies, or a restaurant, or just any excuse to get people together for some fun. But I also enjoy a nice, quiet night at home to watch a good movie, a favorite TV show, or just cook a fabulous home cooked meal. It's all about finding a good balance.My family and close friends are very important to me, and I am fiercely loyal to all of them, so it's very important to me to keep these relationships strong. I am looking for someone who understands the importantance of family and friends, and who values these relationships as much as I do. I also believe it's important to truly enjoy your job since we spend so much of our time at work. I consider myself fortunate to have a job and career that I love, which makes me one of the lucky few who truly enjoys going to work each day.My favourite sport is beach volleyball, and I try play as often as I can. When I am not playing volleyball, I try to stay active by working out, rollerblading, bike riding, climbing, running or walking. Other than volleyball, I don’t really watch sports, although I will if it means there is a social event involved. I also really enjoy traveling. So far I have been to over 40 countries and I feel like I have barely scratched the surface. There are so many places I would still like to see, it seems like I never have enough vacation days to fit them all in. Not that I don't keep trying!I enjoy most types of music and my ipod is a confused combination of songs ranging from classical to rap. And for some strange reason that I can’t quite explain, I still have a soft spot for music from the eighties. I also enjoy watching a good movie, and any TV show that makes me laugh like Modern Family, The Office, Family Guy and the Big Bang Theory or TV shows that involve a good mystery like Cold Case, CSI or Without a Trace. If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd really like to hear from you, so send me a message. I will make every effort to reply to anyone who sends me a message that reflects a sincere attempt to get to know me better. However, I will not reply to one word *** as "Hi", "Nice", "Hot", etc. as I would prefer to *** who put some effort into the first communication. I believe communication is important in every relationship, and first impressions are important to me.All the best of luck! There are really endless options and I will try just about anything once. And if you can think of something completely original, even better!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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