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Lola, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

" Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it...we are all in charge of our attitude" I have a pretty amazing life!; I am an independent, caring, thoughtful, open-minded, positive woman. I enjoy making people laugh, ( and I can laugh at myself) Helping others, a great listener and non-judgmental are a few of my other great qualities. Looking for a little romance , a friend ... someone to enjoy new adventures with and the simple every day that is reality. A sense of humour is very important to me (sarcasm is even better). If you are someone who is financially independent ( not living in a van down by the river), has their own interests (and I'm not talking gaming), a cool group of friends (who know your dirt), one who is open-minded and has a good sense of self (or at least someone who knows what they want to be when they grow up) please feel free to send me a "hello".I am honestly and truly looking for a REAL relationship, at times I may take a few days to respond ( my daughter lives with me half time and she does come first) Yet I am feeling that life is short, the last 10 years flew by and I don't want to miss out on meeting that special someone now .P.S. I know that smoking is a BIG turn off to most people. I am a respectful, occasional smoker...and will quit when the time is right for me. I can go for long periods of time without and I don't care for the smell of it on my clothing, breath, in my car or home. I smoke less around non-smokers. All the best in the Okanagan lake of meetville.. Thank you for checking me out!....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Video Games German Indian Korean Middle Eastern Archery Snowboarding Computer Games
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmm. Revamping my profile little. Have met some really great people on here so far. New friends are always good right:-) anyways, looking to meet someone who is interested in a long term relationship. That wants to get to know one another with intentions to that end. Needs to have a unique sense of humour, a friendly, open and honest disposition and can really "Go with the flow". We all have busy lives and responsibilities and expectations thrust upon us daily, here's to hoping i find soneone that can mesh with all that and vice versa! I have two wonderful kids that keep me busy and a job that i have a love/hate relationship with. I try to be as active as time allows. Some things i enjoy are volleyball, biking, hiking, camping, and really just hanging. I've always been a pretty spontaneous person but admit that has slowed with the addition of kids. Doesn't mean i can't do some sudden and crazy thing, hope you can keep up:-) anyway, if you like what you read, you know what to do.... I usually like to do something active so we aren't feeling like we are interviewing each other! I'm pretty east going though so...whatever...

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