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Ileana, 44
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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I'm the kind of girl who tries to pick someone up when they're feeling down, and takes care of those that are closest to me. What can I say? It's in my nature to nurture! I like to think of my glass as 'half full', and try to maintain a positive outlook on life and love. I like to laugh - a LOT, but you'll also find me reaching for the tissue box during a sad movie....Incredibly romantic, I love to surprise and to be surprised; love notes in special places, phone calls or texts just to say you're thinking about me, or a candlelit picnic on the living room floor. I think that romance should come from the heart - not necessarily the wallet - and that random acts of kindness along with imagination and creativity can go a long way in showing someone how much you care.I sincerely believe that it's the little things in life, and yes - in a relationship - that often mean the most and make the biggest impact! *S*Having been in the same profession for nearly 20 years, and self employed for the past 13, I’ve acquired all of the ‘trappings’ that keep me comfortable and content. I lead a very quiet and simple life, filled with work, great friends and a wonderful close-knit family. I enjoy a good book while curled up under the blanket, movies of any genre, board games and music of all types. I LOVE to cook, and I hope to find someone who shares in that passion, or at the very least, has a BIG appetite! I have a huge soft spot for children and animals, and happen to have 2 kitties of my own, Allie and Zoey. Communication is key for me in any relationship, I want my partner to be my best friend; Someone I can talk to about anything and everything, or say nothing at all and still have the best conversation with only a look....I want to meet a man who can still be a boy - but knows when the right time is to be either/or. Someone who is grounded, but still not afraid to dream and count the stars with me. A person who'll not only make me laugh, but who can appreciate and understand my own twisted sense of humour. A man who'd never shy away from public displays of affection, and who understands the importance of commitment, loyalty and family.A bit of a tall order - but - nothing that I'm not willing to give in return *S* Something laid back and relaxed - a bottle of red wine and some great conversation! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening Dirt Bike Racing Outdoor Hobbies
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