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Deja, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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Me; Accused by others to be intelligent, witty, social, have a great sense of humor and to be lots and lots of fun – I have a very playful, small child, silly side. Love the outdoors. Affectionate, honest, kind, very loyal, both practical yet spontaneous, have a big sense of responsibility & commitment. I’m a driven, think outside the box thinker with an entrepreneurial spirit and own a business doing what inspires me in both fitness and living whole food nutrition. I have a strong moral compass and I feel it is important to treat others how you want to be treated. I continuously aspire to grow as a human being intellectually and spiritually. This includes; giving back to my community and fellow human beings, meditation, living in gratitude with a deep sense of interconnection with all things and I always try to approach others and life from a place of peace, love, understanding and forgiveness. I also have a 19 year old step son that is and will be a big part of my life. Looking for: Ultimately; I’m looking for an interdependent long term relationship that of course must have a foundation of chemistry and friendship. Open to children in the right situation however at nearly 42 who knows how that would go and I’m perfectly ok with that. Definitely love other people’s children easily. Subtract the chemistry and the forever potential is friendship and that would be okay as well. Not opposed to have some local friends looking to inspire each other in fitness. I LOVE the outdoors and many varied activities as you can see by my list ;) You: Charming, handsome to me, romantic, like the outdoors, have an interest in eating healthy and are intelligent. I’m looking for someone willing to take time getting to know each other as friends and if established beyond you should love to receive and give copious amounts of affection. I would love to meet others with strong spiritual connection and ultimately a partner that gets this. You know how to have fun, can appreciate my humor (even the 'groaners') and hopefully you also have a youthful, silly side. Ultimately looking for a compassionately kind best friend that knows how to be playful and how to treat friends and a lady with integrity.How about some long, meaningful, (or meaningless for that matter) conversations. Let's have some fun and encourage each other to follow what inspires after all what is life without passion. How about a coffee and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Football
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