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Collette, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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I would like to think that my last few years of single life have taught me a few things about myself.I've learned that patience is always a virtue, but sometimes too much can cause problems.I've learned that compromise is important but you also need to not be as flexible.I've learned that laughter is essential in everyday life along with hugs and kisses and hand holding.And most of all I have learned that you must must must communicate, no communication leads to confusion, leads to sadness, leads to misunderstandings and then everyone gets hurt.I'm a single mom who is involved in my childs life. My child will always be #1, never #2.I volunteer often for different things, they bring a bit of peace to my heart knowing I did something good for someone.I do enjoy different types of outings, movies, dinners out, music, comedy, or just a nice stroll somewhere to enjoy the sights and sounds of nature. But you can't beat a nice quiet night in with a silly movie, a serious movie or just a plain old scary movie....and a nice bottle of wine. Spending time with that special someone is important to me, but I do realize that space is needed sometimes to regroup and breathe.I have chosen a serious relationship as my ultimate goal, but first ....gotta meet, gotta date, gotta see if we can even stand eachother. Unless of course someone has invented a time warp to get us past the awkward confusing part of dating and get to the good stuff!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Action Family & Kids Fantasy
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    I am someone who loves to laugh!!! I like to think that I have a good sence of humor and looking for someone with one too! I love to travel and have knocked a few places off my bucket list but there is so much more out there to discover so im not done yet and would love to meet someone who is as adventurous as well. I live a drama free life and want to spend the rest of it full of love and happiness. For the most part I am very easy to please and believe with honesty you can get through anything.I am not on here for just one night stands so plz don't message me if that's what you want. Serious inquiries only plz! ;)I am looking for a kind, loyal and loving soul who knows what they want in life, has dealt with all their baggage and put it all away!! I am very baggage free. I'm a secure woman and I am fine being single so I am in no rush or need of a man but I am a "relationship " person and do prefer to spend my time with a special someone of course...I think that's what we are all looking for.I'm easy going and a lot of fun so shoot me a message and we will go from there! Thanks... ;) Anything where we can talk and get to really know eachother!

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-48

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi, Well here I go again… giving it one more try! :)Looking for an HONEST, caring, family kind of guy.I’m a sensitive, loving, caring and open-minded person. My friends and family would describe me as very sensitive, caring and compassionate. Someone who loves to laugh and talk about life and human nature. Spiritual but not religious.I met my first boyfriend at college. I met my second one at my first professional job at a film industry, I met my third boyfriend at a bar (I know, bad), I met my fourth boyfriend through friends and it lasted a long time and even if we broke up because of "wants/needs" we're forever best friends. I met my last partner on the internet... he is known as a "narcisstic sociopath" (said by professional help I saw afterwards.... yikes!).I’m hoping to find a man who is romantic (still believes in giving flowers for no reason and I'd do the same for him), caring, playful and spontaneous! :)..... a patient man, (non-smoker).. a communicator... someone who wants to grow and learn together.. enjoys intimacy/affection... who has a laid back nature but also has a drive to pursue things. Someone who truly loves animals and children (and would possibly like to experience having a child together. I know I'm "older" but my grandmother had my mother when she was 43 .. so? :) ...). I do have one beautiful girl who is soon 7 years old this month. She has Rett Syndrome. This means she can't walk or talk or use her hands purposefully. But she's "there". She's not vacant at all!Again, I'd like to find someone who has a creative/playful side... and someone who has the time and desire to get to know each other. (Also, it wouldn't hurt if you were a handyman of some kind and/or knew how to fix things! ha,ha! but not a requirement of course!)Please have a picture... it's only fair! :) coffee/walk, movie, browsing a bookstore.... open to suggestions! :)

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