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Annabella, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 10:17:49

About Me

Like many whose profiles I have read, this is not my first time here, but it is my first time actively looking for a friend of the opposite sex. I will be upfront about my thoughts on dating; if I ran the world there would be no need to date, we would automatically paired up with our life partner and live happily ever after. I do not run the world so...I am a country girl stuck in the city, I drive a truck and love my tools:) I am shy even though I don't come across that way. I am not in a hurry to find Mr. Right, but I am actively looking for my soulmate. I believe that the best things are forged through patience, never rush into anything losing sight of what really matters. Qualities I admire:- Open communication; say what's on your mind, don't make me guess what you're thinking- Sensitivity;- Sense of humor; being funny like ROFLMFAO", but still able to be serious and intense- Honesty - Appropriate flattery- Patience I have a picture in my head of what I am looking for, and I will respond to mail if I see a possibility. I like a man who is confident enough in himself to approach a woman, tell her about himself, and to open up a dialog. I do not want your life story all at once, just something more than "hello" in a message and the willingness to share. I am very chatty, and can talk your ear off or even fill up your inbox. Chatty is with people I like, or want to get to know better etc.My friends describe me as being down to earth and hilarious; they love the flakey me! I say what comes to mind sometimes without filtering my thoughts; honest to a fault, and I act/react on impulse at times. These traits can get me into tons of trouble :P I describe myself as intense and hyperactive. I like to know where I stand in all aspects of life.I have many interests, but list only those I do regularly. I am into physical activity; you may find that I have played or taught an assortment of activities. I love golf, but I am not very good. I love swimming, but I don't like getting my tummy cold. I love to run, but at the moment I am just getting back into running after an injury and it is the treadmill all the way! I love the outdoors and spending time there with my children. My top priority are my children and teaching them my passions for canoeing, camping and of course fishing. This year we took up fly fishing and I am loving it!Ultimately my long-term goal is to find that someone special to grow old with, and hold hands with as we walk that path into our golden years. This someone special needs to have the strength to hold my world up now and again so to give my shoulders a short rest. This man will have my head stuck in the clouds, the very thought of him brings ***, he holds my hand and is the only one who can make me laugh so hard I cry, IDK

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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