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Elsie, 43
United States, New Mexico, Lordsburg

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About Me

I am a single mom to a gorgeous 9yr old daughter and while it would be nice if you had children as well, it is not a deal breaker. I believe family should and will always come first as they will be with you until the end.I have a career I enjoy that allows me to travel often, I own my home and I am not looking for someone to support me financially but emotionally - I will do the same in return.Do you have a slightly twisted sense of humor?Do you believe that integrity and honesty should be one in the same trait? Can you handle quiet evenings at home? Do you enjoy movies? Are you honest, regardless if you think I can handle it or not?Can you appreciate Jackie Chan and Family Guy?If you can say yes to all of the above questions - we need to meet.I am funny, smart, confident and honest to the point of being blunt. I dont believe in playing games and you will always know where you stand with me. If I am upset, I will tell you and then yes, I will get over it! I enjoy going to movies or heading to a pub to listen to live music- keeping it casual.What else?......I wont stand for cheaters or liars and if you currently have a few women 'on the go', then make up your mind and pick one.I only wear makeup for work and often go 'naked' on the weekends.....and I have been told I am easy on the eyes first thing in the morning.I am a recent cancer survivor but i know that experience has only made me stronger and everything happens in your life for a reason - you have to accept it and appreciate each morning that you can wake up to face a new day. I am very proud of myself as i just got a new tattoo on my wrist, acknowledging my ongoing battle, and it looks pretty sweet :)I also had to cut my hair very short, chemo is very nasty, but hair always grows, right? LOLI should also say that due to all of the radiation i had to have to survive, i can no longer have children....so if you dont have any and want one, best to pass me on by.I hope I have perked your interest and I dont believe in chatting online forever. I like to meet in person and see if the sparks will fly.2 requirements.... ***NO picture on your profile = NO response. You know what I look like, so it is only fair....***i only date guys that are my height or taller (5'***. I hate being the amazon in the relationship lol*****UPDATE****Do all guys expect women to pay for their own drinks/meals at the first meeting? Maybe i am expecting too much but if I pay for a sitter to go meet you, then the least the guy can do is buy me a bottle of water or some wings and a glass of milk! I only drink water and milk (no alcohol at all ; not by choice) so I am a VERY cheap date. :) But if you ask me to 'chip in my share', then that is a telltale sign you are not interested.Am I wrong? I hope i dont sound ****y but i would really like to know what the general male opinion is about meeting for the first time and not willing to pay $15 when i would have already paid my sitter $20 before even walking out the door. OK- i am done LOL***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or who may be suffering from it maybe meeting at a pub for a drink, or water LOL, that isnt too loud so we can chat. save the dinner and movie for 2nd or 3rd date. could also meet at a park for a walk on a nice day

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Hulda from Lordsburg | Woman | 44 years old | Aries
    Hulda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    HI! I am not sure exactly sure who I am looking for, but am sure when I find him I will know it. I know he has to have similar morals and values as I do for things to work. I am a pretty easy going person and pretty much take things as they come. I have a kind, caring heart, family is huge to me, respect for others is also very important - especially towards seniors/elderly people and physically/mentally challenged people, I am upfront and honest however; I am careful to be honest in a tactful way, not a mean way and try my best not to hurt someone's feelings. I definately have flaws and am far from perfect, much like everyone else LOL I like to go out do things, but am also quite content staying home. I think it's fun to go out and play some darts or pool once in awhile (although it has literally been years since I have done that. I probably would really suck at it, but that's ok. LOL) I like a variety of music however, country is not my favorite-sorry. I like to joke around and have fun, and at times can be a bit sarcastic but not in a mean way (or a least most of the time not LOL) If I sound like someone you would like to know more about drop me an *** way my pic. is fairly recent, not something from 5 years ago. I have my pic on here for you to see me and think it's only fair for me to be able to see you to. I will not respond if you don't have a picturePISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March 20)Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be . That would totally depend on what both people feel like doing.

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  • Juliette from Lordsburg | Woman | 45 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to work and enjoy helping others stay positive. I’m a unique individual because I’m not your average one. I\'m looking for a relationship with someone sweet & honest who respects their partner.

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  • Tu from Lordsburg | Woman | 43 years old | Pisces
    Tu

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Update 2: If you have caught my eye it's because I saw something in your eyes. That being said if you contact me and your picture is you in sunglasses, it doesn't help. If you are a tiny spec in the picture, guess what, I can't see even your face :P The obvious, if you don't have a picture........Update: Reading guys headlines, and I have come to the conclusion that a. I am a nice girl b. I am honest c. I love to laugh d. I don't understand why I am still single :P I love people, the profession I have chosen is testimony to that. I love kids, or I wouldn't of had 4. (only 2 live at home still) I work to live, not live to work. Being a Taurus I have read that family is important and so is home. I believe it as those two things are very important to me. Also read on someone's profile that Taurus women tend to be on the heavier side. I am now checking out all my gf's to see if that is true. :P I enjoy doing things at home and out, but prefer to not do things out alone. I am loyal and trust people to a fault. I am not naive I just trust people right from the beginning until they give me reason not to trust them. I like to see the good in people *** the bad. I have lived an eventful life, and although all of it isn't good I believe that it has made me into the person I am. I think I am a good person, but you would need to be the judge of that.I love movies, I am an avid reader, and I can carry on a conversation with intelligence. People are comfortable around me and I tend to put most people at ease with my crazy sense of humor.I am not a typical girl, I don't like shopping, and I don't own a million shoes. I have been told that I am not girly girly but nor am I a Tomboy. So what does that make me?I love the outdoors, but the outdoors doesn't like me. I have to be prepared or look like a lobster.I believe in doing my own things as well as supporting my partner in things that they want to do. You fish, I will read a book. :PBald men are my favorite, didn't figure that out till I was talking with some gf's and we were pointing out who we thought was attractive. Mine was bald, one was salt and pepper hair and the other long hair. Interesting as to what one thinks is attractive. That being said, knowing someones personality and enjoying who they are also makes them attractive.That's me in a nutshell, if you have any questions just ask. LOL have seen that people say ask anything and I will respond, not sure if I am that brave or not :P*****************************************************************************************************************You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her - anonymousI am not looking for the guy that is in his mid life crisis. I don't want to ride your Harley, I am not looking for the "bad boy image" either.Does every guy travel as much as they say they do? I have traveled but am thinking I must lead a very sheltered life in comparison. I can't just drop and go, I have kids, a job and pets. I don't feel tied down by these things, I love them very much. I have been a single mom for years, I own my own home and vehicle, and am not looking for someone to "look after me" I am good at doing that all by myself. :)Dating really is not the most exciting thing to be doing. Often times it feels like you should just bring a resume and hand it across the table. That's why I like to take some time to get to know someone here first, so we don't waste each others time.I am not into games, I am passed the bar scene. I am looking for someone who is honest in all aspects, has a great sense of humor and who when I look into their eyes I can see that they think I am the most beautiful girl in the world.Please if you live far away know that I am not willing to relocate, I have family here and it is important to me to be close by. If you are closer to my moms age then mine I likely won't be interested same goes if you are closer to my oldest childs age.I am a cautious person, I have been introduced unfortunately to men who are not trustworthy so am a little gun shy. Could use more patience.Not looking for a one night stand, I could find a friend with benefits for that.Please note that I have been honest about my body type, doesn't mean I am lazy I just hit a health bump this past year and am now working to be healthy physically again. So if you are looking for the perfect body, please pass me by. After taking some time to learn about each other here, meet for a quick coffee and see if there is that spark.

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